Family & Relationships - 23 October 2006

what usualy stands out about a mans appearance?

2006-10-23 17:30:18 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-23 17:29:43 · 5 answers · asked by im that guy 2 in Singles & Dating

Here's one that is a little complicated, I'm interested in a man that I would like to be more involved with, but here's the thing I had once dated his older brother many years ago( 12Years to be exact , were both 34 now) and he still see's that as being an issue.

2006-10-23 17:28:34 · 14 answers · asked by kay 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-23 17:27:48 · 8 answers · asked by pussycat_bubbles 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it normal for a guy to like ... you know, like complex scenerios?? From my other series of questions that you can answer on my profile, you see that my bf has weird fetishes. A want to see me having sex with one of his friends and others... but I brought it up to him that it's weird and he said it's okay, he really didn't think I was going to do it. Well I was JOKING, and I said "Well, I will maybe do it if you do it with my guy friend (fake name, obviously) Greg." He looked at me and just said ".... if ... if I actually did that, you'd consider it?" .... I mean, what do I say to that? He's OBVIOUSLY freaked out thinking about what I said, I mean, he's very straight, but apparently everyone has their fantasy and will achieve anything to get it... he was freaking out the most with the thought of him CHEATING on me, tho HE is the one who wanted ME to do it! I'm not going to let him do it, but he's thinking about it with that freaked out look on his face. This is too complex, HEEELPP!!

2006-10-23 17:26:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I think I am too shy that its affecting my social life

2006-10-23 17:25:42 · 9 answers · asked by Ricky 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-23 17:24:27 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-23 17:22:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-23 17:22:47 · 1 answers · asked by tabitha c 1 in Singles & Dating

i asked at least 100 girls if they wanted to go study with me at the library, so i can later ask them out to lunch or coffee, what are the odds that at least 1 of them will say yes?

2006-10-23 17:22:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-23 17:22:19 · 5 answers · asked by slaphappy 3 in Singles & Dating

in range of 30 miles from the zip code 61080

2006-10-23 17:21:30 · 2 answers · asked by tabitha c 1 in Singles & Dating

Got married after I bought house, one and half year later we see things may not work out does he own half of my house. His name is not on any paper work. I've made the payments.Will I have to sell and split it with him.

2006-10-23 17:20:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I choose to give them my Ph# instead of takeing theres cause I offere them freedom so if they wish they can call, IF I take there number, I might stalk them without knowing!!!!!! I dont know.... help me out here guys

2006-10-23 17:18:11 · 6 answers · asked by boygenis 3 in Singles & Dating

we broke up because we promised eachother that we would never have a myspace ever again because it just was ruining our relationship.i kept my promise to her by never going back to myspace.but then one day 9 months into our realationship she decided that she wanted to make another myspace and she didnt even ask me to see how i felt about it.I was really hurt by the action that she had done.she went on myspace and made a site that was private and i couldnt read anything that she had put on there.she took some really hot pictures of her self and put them on there aswell.i found out that she has been talking to her ex-boyfriend again after she told me that she hated him.well im not together with her anymore,because i dont know why.i still love her with all my heart.ive planed my life out with this girl.i put a ring on her finger and told her that i wanted to marry her. she told me she can be with me.and now she sent me a text message saying: one more dance.what does that mean?

2006-10-23 17:16:44 · 13 answers · asked by hollister_surfer06 1 in Singles & Dating

I was the bread winner he did not work so I basically took care of him so I decided I did not want to work anymore and he would leave at 7 and 8 in the morning leaving me and home by myself until he gets home at 10 and 11 at night but he was at his moms house I would call and call and he would just be there just to be there so I got fed up and iI told him since you spend more time at your moms house go live with her so he left now we r still 2gether but he has a job and he dont even ask me if I need any thing if a bill needs to b paid do the dogs need food I always gotta ask for it he now I dont have cause I tell him he comes and see me once a week he dont call me he said we can work it out but he not doing anything to work this out and he also cheated on me with the same girl 3 times do I end the relationship or do I try to work it out because I love him so much but I also know if I stay I might just get hurt all over again

2006-10-23 17:14:50 · 9 answers · asked by lonelyinms32 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband says he can hardly stand to treat me well anymore because of things I did to him in the past.Before we got married I was wild and I partied and was on drugs,we both were.Now were christians hes even a minister hes so un happy in our marrige,it hurts me so bad what should I do divorce isnt an option its just wrong,but I dont want to feel like I make him miserable.Even if he divorced me I dont know what I would do,we have a child now so I could never go back to my old life style.I just need help im so upset and feel so bad about myself now im just confused im only 20 I still have decent options ahead of me no matter what right?What are they!Thank you for your help.

2006-10-23 17:13:36 · 13 answers · asked by Erica B 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I shave my junk into an arrow pointing to my thinger magigger. The girls i showed did like it. were they lying?

2006-10-23 17:12:14 · 10 answers · asked by telumdedeus 1 in Singles & Dating

My BF txtd it to me last nite

"Like a lilly among thorns, so is my love among the daughters..." Song of Songs 2:2

Very romantic dont u think?

2006-10-23 17:11:58 · 10 answers · asked by Wolf 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I had an affair with the married woman next door. She divorced her husband and got with me. He knows we got together. After a year she did the same thing to me.
I know a little about how her ex must have felt. Very little. His pain must have been so much worse than mine. They have two kids.

I feel very guilty only now. I want to find him and tell him Im sorry, tell him everything we did, let him punch me in the nose if he wants to.

She never did admit anything we did while they were married. He would say to her "You cheated. Why wont you just say its true?" He wanted to know if it was true but she always lied. She still lies to him about our affair.

I'm sorry and want to apologise. (My Guilt)

It would hurt her to tell him the truth about our affair. (My Revenge)

Will it help him?What should I do?

2006-10-23 17:11:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is it really necessary to expect something from a man because you give him a little b***y? Shouldn't the relationship be built on other things besides what he can give you?

2006-10-23 17:10:38 · 22 answers · asked by cutiestorm 2 in Singles & Dating

i just transffered to a new school and met 3 great friends that i really love bec. they are soooo kind and they're the reason why i moved on from missing my old school but of course i still miss my bestfriends who studies in a different school....

my old friends really want me to transfer to their school and i really do...but my new friends really dont want me to transfer....

i love my old friends but i also love my new friends....and if i'd transfer, i'm sure i'm gonna miss my new friends.....and if i'd stay...i also miss my old friends.....

pls. help me....what should i do??

transfer for the sake of my old friends or stay in the same school and be contented with my great newly found friends?? ;(

2006-10-23 17:08:10 · 9 answers · asked by sweetgal 3 in Friends

we used to work together,went out after he quit. things were good 4 a month.then after a serious make out(first kiss for him too) he acts all werid and didn't respond to my calls or messages. now I see him often at work,last time I was cleaning a register,looked over, saw him and I swear he said hi 2 me but I looked down and didn't say anything back cuz I wasn't sure. then tonight he ran in, and came back running out,I was outside pushing carts and while he was running he kept looking across to me,at least 3 times,looked like he was gonna say hi but then just left. what's going on?btw I'm 24,he's 22

2006-10-23 17:07:06 · 12 answers · asked by dabluschmosprincess 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so theres this guy and I know he likes me, but I want to known how to get him to want me even more. Cause he tells everyone that he likes me and he thinks I don't no so how can I get him to ask me out so that I don't have to ask him?

2006-10-23 17:06:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it true that the engagement ring goes in the finger before the wedding ring because that was first given to you?? or vice versa?

2006-10-23 17:06:48 · 14 answers · asked by Christian 1 in Weddings

I am married with 2 teenagers. I have been suffering from depression for quite some time now. I only started taking medication since I turned 40. My husband just started working again this month. He's been off for the last year since I went back to work full time. We were going to have sell our house to cover expenses. Now I'm working, he's working, I just got benefits, took the kids to the dentist and everything seems to be going ok for a change. Hubby and I aren't fighting as much. On the phone, a friend of mine said to me recently, "You don't sound happy. Why aren't you happy? Seems to me like maybe you should be more thankful for what you have."
I told her that I thank God everyday for what I have. I AM thankful every single day. She insinuated that I'm unappreciative! Her tone of voice sounded just like my mom when I was a kid: what's the matter with YOU? NOT good enough for YOU?
I'm just not the type to jump around. Am I so wrong?

2006-10-23 17:06:46 · 9 answers · asked by katie 4 in Friends

I am 20 years old and have been friends with this guy since he was in second and i was in fourth grade. We have been recently hanging out and I have discovered that I feelings of more than friendship for him. He is also my brother's best friend. We both say we like each other like siblings, but I know I am lying. He makes sexually comments in a joking manner, and slaps my butt, he also loves to play fight with me. How can I tell for sure if he likes me more than a friend too?

2006-10-23 17:06:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For the last couple of years I've been having, I guess you could say an emotional affair with a married man. We've never had sex, we've talked about it but haven't actually done the deed. I have strong feelings for this man and I think he does for me as well. I consider him my best friend. Currently he's having some serious martial problems, well his marriage has been bad for a long time. He's found out that his wife is and has been cheating on him for a long time. I'm completely torn at the moment, on one hand I know that I need to just back away and let him figure this on his own, but at the same time I feel like I can't just walk away from him because I know that he needs a friend in his corner. Plus my feelings are making it hard to walk away. I'm driving myself crazy because I want to be with him but I don't want to tinker any more than I already have in his marriage. If he leaves, I want him to do it for his own reasons, not because of me. Any advice would be great.

2006-10-23 17:05:34 · 25 answers · asked by Tigerlillie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

How to explain?

2006-10-23 17:04:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I asked a question about this a while back and from the answers I received, I agreed that I needed to talk to my son. The problem was that my daughter-in-law has been rude, snotty and difficult to get along with from the beginning (married son 3years..they married young). Since their first child was born a year ago, she has become unbearable. I have never said or done anything to her or about her. I've always told her that I love & respect her. I've given them their space, money & lots of love. A few months ago, she really stepped up the nastiness. She has become even colder to me. As if that was not bad enough, I recently caught her in a big lie (that really hurt me) & she retalitated by not coming over any more. Okay...talked to my son and hoped things would get better, but he went & told her God knows what! Now her & her parents (they live with them) have banned me from their lives. I can't see my grandson, and I'm told I'll never see them.Please help.I am despondent & so depressed.

2006-10-23 17:04:07 · 24 answers · asked by Goddess Kitty 3 in Other - Family & Relationships