Is it really necessary to expect something from a man because you give him a little b***y? Shouldn't the relationship be built on other things besides what he can give you?
2006-10-23 17:10:38 · 22 answers · asked by cutiestorm 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't get it twisted ladies! I already have my good man and he provides for my every need, and I don't have to request a thing, Iwas speaking from some of my associates point of views.I myself have my own therefore there is no need to beg a man for anything.
2006-10-23 17:44:44 · update #1
I LOVE YOU......seriously ..... a brain. SEXY
(not directed to the questioner)
woo - look at those defenses-
oh and - ahem - by the way, you can't give birth without our seed. It's a half and half type deal ... you see. Though it would be amazing if women could just pop out babies without ever using a man - or - substance, from man. It would kind of defy creation, and we would run out of genes, but hey, dream on.
2006-10-23 17:14:29 · answer #1 · answered by Dustin S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You owe no man nothing except if your married and he is a good man even then you dont really owe him anything it is a choice you make to give in return for receiving .Then perhaps you want to know who you owe SIMPLY YOURSELF!!You owe to yourself to be the best person you can be .I find pleasure in helping others with my little knowledge that I have learnt through a long sometimes hard life Every thing from a 10 year old with problems to someone who is about to commit suicide .Yahoo rewards me with points but I do it freely the points and levels make no difference to me I just like doing it .Have a nice day smile and be thankfull for what you have and what you will receive the good and the bad in life .Remember you owe noone .
2006-10-23 17:33:09 · answer #2 · answered by john h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are much much wiser than most. It's really about respect whether you are a man or a woman. Build the relationship on respect, honesty, trust, understanding, and love and the relationship will prevail.
Material things, as we all know, can be given today and can be gone tomorrow. Selfish people are always seeking "gifts." A relationship built on "gifts" is more like a relationship with a prostitute. (Quid Pro Quo)
2006-10-23 17:19:38 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. US of A, Baby! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's sad, but you're right. A lot of women think that because they put out, then they're owed something. Guys think that way too though, when they spend the $$$ then they should be gettin' some.
It's almost like prostitution, but it's a common thing. It's sad. And you are right, woman have so much more to offer than b***y, and men are more than cash machines. Cuz when life happens, and women get old, and men's credit runs dry, we still have to find a way to live together.
2006-10-23 17:18:12 · answer #4 · answered by Simian 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wel-ll, the relationship ought to be built on whether or not the two of you make each other wiser.
But that never happens. If you were raised to believe men owe you something, you're going to wind up with a player who knows how to respond to that and flatter you --and yet ultimately rip you off!
So, be careful.
2006-10-23 17:15:25 · answer #5 · answered by urbancoyote 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think or feel that way. I am independent, intelligent, and do things for myself. It's only rarely that I ask for a guy's help with something.
A good, healthy relationship with a guy is great where each of you contribute to that relationship, not you or him expecting things from one another.
2006-10-23 17:22:45 · answer #6 · answered by Oenophile... (Lynn) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm all about women having their share of power....but that is the best statement I have ever heard!
I will give what ever I can. If it were ever appreciated, that would be a revolution! If a woman thought to give back it would be great.
It is almost beyond my imagination.
2006-10-23 17:25:58 · answer #7 · answered by CoolLuke 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't assume anyone owes me anything. I can and have taken care of myself. In the past it was Thank God for batteries-now it is Thank God for my husband.
2006-10-23 17:17:09 · answer #8 · answered by rwl_is_taken 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
im a guy ima tell u the truth... i give my one and only everything she wants or do anything that i possibly can because i love her but you shouldnt expect anything...your one is out there and he will do things for you on his own
2006-10-23 17:16:01 · answer #9 · answered by smokey 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because we can give birth. The race of men would grow old then die out without us. Dang right they owe us something, we're keeping them alive! lol.
2006-10-23 17:12:48 · answer #10 · answered by Mesie 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋