Is it normal for a guy to like ... you know, like complex scenerios?? From my other series of questions that you can answer on my profile, you see that my bf has weird fetishes. A want to see me having sex with one of his friends and others... but I brought it up to him that it's weird and he said it's okay, he really didn't think I was going to do it. Well I was JOKING, and I said "Well, I will maybe do it if you do it with my guy friend (fake name, obviously) Greg." He looked at me and just said ".... if ... if I actually did that, you'd consider it?" .... I mean, what do I say to that? He's OBVIOUSLY freaked out thinking about what I said, I mean, he's very straight, but apparently everyone has their fantasy and will achieve anything to get it... he was freaking out the most with the thought of him CHEATING on me, tho HE is the one who wanted ME to do it! I'm not going to let him do it, but he's thinking about it with that freaked out look on his face. This is too complex, HEEELPP!!
2006-10-23 17:26:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Kick him in the throat.
2006-10-23 17:36:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you considered that with all of your differences you may not be compatible for the long run? Each to their own I say, but if it makes you uncomfortable get out now. If you really like him and he really likes you - stay friends, just don't share a bed. Fantasies are only good when both partners are in to it. Otherwise it's just icky.
2006-10-23 17:32:08 · answer #2 · answered by Tiijah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN! NOW! He's too weird. My ex was like that too, but I didn't find out until it was too late and we were married. I thought it would stop eventually, but he never gave up. He would literally push me at other men hoping I'd have sex with them and he could either watch or I would tell him about it. eventually it made my flesh crawl to even be touched by him because he would bring it up while we were "making love". After that started it was just sex to me.
2006-10-23 17:31:44 · answer #3 · answered by Joanne B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut the crap. Do it. Or if u dont want to, get up and walk away, Dont waste your time in in betweens. By the way you are writing, I guess you are young. Why dont you think of learning something, Doing some course etc? "Doing" is not the only thing in life.
2006-10-23 17:29:46 · answer #4 · answered by harish_usa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just sounds like you and your boyfriend are on two different wave lengths sexually. You are uncomfortable and he is obviously out there in terms of his taste. I would just agree to disagree, and move on. This "problem" will only get more awkward with time, you just were not meant to be together.
2006-10-23 17:33:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him and persue your sexual liberation by sleeping with random strangers. The world needs more uninhibited women who dont mind one night stands. BTW i haven't even read the details because they dont really matter. Just break up with him and sleep around alot- do it for liberation, do it for freedom, do it for the happiness of single guys everywhere!
2006-10-23 17:31:59 · answer #6 · answered by southca49er 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are afraid of a threesome or whatever then don't feel pressured to do so. Do what YOU feel is right. You do have the right to say no. Besides, your guy sounds like he has major issues.
2006-10-23 17:32:18 · answer #7 · answered by exaluva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl your boy friend need HELP really . he is really thinking about having sex with one of you guy friend if you have sex with one of his friends and others GIRL YOU NEED TO RUN AND DON'T LOOK BACK. that's not a fetishes he is just crazy!!!!
2006-10-23 17:36:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sound like you got a mess on your hands now .... i really dont know what to say but good luck and i hope you amk the right decision because it sounds like you dont know him that well if he is considering doing it with another guy
2006-10-23 17:29:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to find a better / more normal boyfriend...
2006-10-23 17:27:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋