I was the bread winner he did not work so I basically took care of him so I decided I did not want to work anymore and he would leave at 7 and 8 in the morning leaving me and home by myself until he gets home at 10 and 11 at night but he was at his moms house I would call and call and he would just be there just to be there so I got fed up and iI told him since you spend more time at your moms house go live with her so he left now we r still 2gether but he has a job and he dont even ask me if I need any thing if a bill needs to b paid do the dogs need food I always gotta ask for it he now I dont have cause I tell him he comes and see me once a week he dont call me he said we can work it out but he not doing anything to work this out and he also cheated on me with the same girl 3 times do I end the relationship or do I try to work it out because I love him so much but I also know if I stay I might just get hurt all over again
2006-10-23 17:14:50 · 9 answers · asked by lonelyinms32 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Girl! You are living my life.
I lived through this same nightmare for about 4 years. If someone would have told me that I could or would put up with this, I would have laugh until I puked.
Dump him - he will never step up and deserve you. He doesn't appreciate you because you're a doormat. You feel like you're trying everything possible to hold it all together, like it'll work out one day once he wakes up and sees how wonderful you are.
Believe me, it'll never happen. I believe you've given this you're all and now's the time to start living for yourself.
Dump him, dump him dump him!!!!
Trust me - it's incredibly fresh and light and fun on the other side.
Good luck and God bless you for having so much misplaced faith.
2006-10-23 17:20:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE HIM!! Oh my gosh, are you serious? This guy seems like a jerk! Just tell him it's over unless he can get his act together. His mother's? Are you sure he wasn't somewhere else? Cheating on you perhaps?
2006-10-24 00:18:34 · answer #2 · answered by Rose 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You say you love him so much????? How can that be unless you enjoy the way he is treating you. Go find yourself a real man who will show you what love is.
2006-10-24 00:22:00 · answer #3 · answered by classy&sassy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN... do not walk!!! Get the guy completely out of your life and move on.
2006-10-24 02:30:18 · answer #4 · answered by looking for answers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
End it, you deserve someone that will give you back as much as you give him. This type rarely changes anyway.
2006-10-24 00:18:59 · answer #5 · answered by ncgirl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you'll find a big tall black guy w/ a bigger dick than him, see how he likes that!
2006-10-24 00:22:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
STAY IF YOU LIKE ABUSE. MAN,, HAVE SOME SELF RESPECT AND DUMP HIM. YOU CAN MAKE IT ON YOUR OWN,,, I DID!! GO FOR IT, I HAVE NEVER BEEN HAPPIER!
2006-10-24 00:19:16 · answer #7 · answered by openminded 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
whatever you do don't get pregnant
2006-10-24 00:19:17 · answer #8 · answered by lazy_n_spoiled 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you already know... just end it
2006-10-24 00:17:44 · answer #9 · answered by curious dad 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋