we used to work together,went out after he quit. things were good 4 a month.then after a serious make out(first kiss for him too) he acts all werid and didn't respond to my calls or messages. now I see him often at work,last time I was cleaning a register,looked over, saw him and I swear he said hi 2 me but I looked down and didn't say anything back cuz I wasn't sure. then tonight he ran in, and came back running out,I was outside pushing carts and while he was running he kept looking across to me,at least 3 times,looked like he was gonna say hi but then just left. what's going on?btw I'm 24,he's 22
2006-10-23 17:07:06 · 12 answers · asked by dabluschmosprincess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe he is just shy and does like you but don't know how to communicate with you after kissing you.......it was his first kiss and that is a big deal for guys especially at his age.........its also a big deal for girls i know i only had my first real kiss a month ago and i'm like 30 so i was really shy and had to trust the guy a lot to do it.....and i'm glad i did however i can get how he may be feeling.......... just talk to him and ask him if he wants to go out again and if he says yes then go for it.......if he says no ask him why!
2006-10-23 17:22:09 · answer #1 · answered by ♥musiclover♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might not like this, but it's the truth. When guys act like that, they usually regret what they did. He probably feels guilty for it and thinks that if he ignores you, it will make it go away. This is a common reaction that guys get and you see a lot after parties with one night stands and stuff.
If it really bothers you, talk to him about it and end the weirdness.
2006-10-24 00:12:33 · answer #2 · answered by b-rad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was his first kiss chances are he doesn't feel confident you enjoyed the kiss. Probably is confused on how to feel etc.etc. Tell him a joke and rebreak the wall he just threw up
2006-10-24 00:17:44 · answer #3 · answered by BluLizard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get alone with him sit down and TALK --- find out how you feel about each other ---- you may hate each but that does not matter at least you will know
he may be worried about the age and the perceptions of other people but what do you both care if you like each other
2006-10-24 00:23:47 · answer #4 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's scared. He want's more but he isn't sure if you do. Trust me, a shy guys mind can create some wierd ideas that can paralize. Help him out...Wave to him at least or even press one finger to your lips and blow him a kiss.
2006-10-24 00:15:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats going on is you work in a grocery store or something like that.. and thats bs.. get a better job, and stop dating losers who havent kissed a girl until they are 22..
2006-10-24 00:10:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I like chris' answer :)(joke)
Clarify the situation if he tries to avoid you he must have a good reason.How about trying to find it out!!
2006-10-24 00:12:54 · answer #7 · answered by sam (joe thornton) pro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow he likes you and meaby he thinks you did somthing to him to make him think you dont like him just ask him out agin
2006-10-24 00:09:52 · answer #8 · answered by crazyscottsman38 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE MAY FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE ABOUT THE SITUATION. SO MAYBE NEXT TIME YOU SEE EACH OTHER YOU CAN
TALK TO HIM AND LET HIM KNOW HOW YOU FEEL.
2006-10-24 00:12:04 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's dating someone with bigger b o o b s than yours.
2006-10-24 00:10:10 · answer #10 · answered by Mt. Kilimanjaro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋