Family & Relationships - 23 October 2006

I am looking for a gift for my little brother, who is turning 13. I don't want to get him any kind of toy (that includes video games) because he is spoiled rotten by my parents and has way to many toys as it is (2 rooms FULL, 1 room used to be the garage, converted to his playroom). I want a gift that is mature and useful for his age. Any ideas?

2006-10-23 17:03:22 · 8 answers · asked by justwondering 2 in Family

She was talking to him and I got jealous and then we got into a fight and she broke up with me and started talking to him and seeing him. I still love her and she feels the same, but now she has interest in the new guy too. What am I suppose to do. She said they almost had sex, but for reasons didn't, but she told me that she wanted to. I still want to be with her, but I want her to stop talking to other men and concentrate back on us. Any advice? She is still talking to him and has plans to see him again. Am I am idiot should I give up on what I feel is my soulmate?

2006-10-23 17:02:23 · 13 answers · asked by Firefighter4U! 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-23 17:02:18 · 6 answers · asked by smokey 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-23 17:02:05 · 7 answers · asked by Mats 1 in Friends

I really need advise!I really like my boyfriend but he never calls me anymore and i barly call him anymore.i still like him but i dont know if he still likes me.But im not excately crazy over him like i used to be.Does he feel the same way.I would have already breaken up with him but hes really funny and really HOT!Hes really special to me cuz i had my first kiss with him.only if i do break up with him i still want to be good friends and i dont want to hurt his feelings!what should i do? And if i decide to break up with him what should i say?i cant say the whole this isnt working out thing and that i still want to be friends thing thats soo cheasy!! Even though i still want to be friends!

2006-10-23 17:01:51 · 4 answers · asked by McKenzie M 2 in Singles & Dating

The guy i'm sleeping wit a guy who has 2 girlfriends.... and his girl has a girlfriend.They all live toghether,we all hung out together on friday and i spent the night with them (nothing happaned). He paid equalattention to all 4 of us and his girls and i get along. im really confused....... What should i do? (All 4 of them are 35-40 and i'm 27)

2006-10-23 17:00:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met a woman and while she is gorgeous, I felt something different...It takes a lot to impress me and she did just her whole deal she had going, she seemed very bright and I liked her sense of humor a lot. I am going to approach her but the old, hey I like you lets go out sometime is just too vanilla for me...I want to express that I can just tell we could get along very well without sounding obsessive and psycho...a fine line I believe...any thoughts?

2006-10-23 17:00:01 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I always felt a inmense urge to hug him and kiss him A LOT but i felt a lot of rejection. I want to feel love,passion,etc...Now that i'm single none of the men i like ,like me,or at least don't ask me out.
i can tell, about their body language that they don't like me. Its sad
not to have a person to LOVE, HUG,KISS.What i'm i doing wrong ?
I do LOVE myself ! About my ex-he left me, i felt so ugly, anddevastated, etc... Can u help with any advice ?

2006-10-23 16:58:15 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I still love him but hate what he is doing to me and the kids. The kids are attached so strongley to him, he loves them too. But I saw that he is looking for apartments to rent, which means that he is on his way out. I can't beleive that he is actually leaving, even if he doesn't love me anymore, I always thought the kids will make him stay. Don't get me wrong, I hate the fact that he cheeted on me, but I love my kids so much that I don't want them to hurt. I don't know what to do. On one hand I want to kick him out myself, on the other, I can not tolerate the idea that my kids will be exposed to this pain.. they are just to little. I am financially capable to raise the kids on my own, we have been married for 11 years

2006-10-23 16:57:37 · 32 answers · asked by ivyhhhh 1 in Marriage & Divorce

911 help my step daughter s boy freind and his buddy beat the **** out of me while im watching my 3 year old he has been living hear for two years he want try and help his self so i gave him a grow up or get out notice and ofcorse i got the **** kick out of me he is gone and my step daughter left also but she told my wife her mom she would press molestation charges on me if we press
charges on him or his freind i ant never messed with her and my wife knows it to but what can i do

2006-10-23 16:57:30 · 1 answers · asked by runninglate 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it really cheating if your not married

2006-10-23 16:56:43 · 10 answers · asked by Jeannie T 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-23 16:56:07 · 7 answers · asked by CAMELS 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok in my last problem my best friend has this sprial of my that has feeling that i have for him but right right now he call me asking me if i would go out with him and i told him why u ask me this if u have a girlfriend and he told me what girlfriend! what should i do? is he telling me that the girl he with is just for me to get jelsoes or i should just say no to the going out with him!

2006-10-23 16:55:56 · 4 answers · asked by butterflygarcia555 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been single seince november of 2005 and every man that i go on a date with wants sex and i am not ready for that type of relationship....i am very commited to my children and they don't need men trapsing through their lives like that...am i wrong or right for this please help me in this matter?? are all men dogs and don't care what a women think about whats going on???? or do you think that i have respect for myself?????

2006-10-23 16:55:40 · 15 answers · asked by wendy p 3 in Singles & Dating

I am pregnant. my husband and i were not planning this one. he does not want the child. i do. when i say i am going to have an abortion he is a little more supportive although yesterday when i made the appointment i rang and told him and he brushed me aside. today i want to keep the baby and i feel like he is trying to pressure me into it. i do not know what to feel and being around him confuses me even more and i am starting to really resent him for the way he is behaving. what should i do?

2006-10-23 16:54:39 · 6 answers · asked by alilovespete 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-23 16:54:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i have a fear of people getting into my house help me with some tips k please help

2006-10-23 16:53:30 · 11 answers · asked by Jamie L 1 in Family

have been bi for many years. never actually been in a relationship with a woman...not seeking one right now but would like to date women and make new friends. Also sometimes I feel like I'm a " dude" stuck in a woman's body but not always...cause I do feel like a woman...just that I feel half and half...can anyone else relate to this?

2006-10-23 16:51:47 · 7 answers · asked by BigHearted 1 in Singles & Dating

I HAV W2 DO A PRESENTATIONS 2MORRROW CAN SUM1 HELP ME OUT CUZ IM STRESSING

2006-10-23 16:50:53 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay. . . My sister's husband calls me on a regular basis, (approx. twice a week). He has never come on to me, he's never made a suggestion, and my sister seems like it doesn't bother her at all. He calls at the most inconvenient times, like during supper, or during my shower, or what have you. Just to talk about regular things like how our days were. Is this normal? Is he just trying to be my friend, and get to know me, or not? Should I allow it to continue? Should I just not pick up the phone any more? I don't want to distance myself completely from my sister, so how do I get around the brother in law BEFORE an uncomfortable situation arises? I don't want my husband, mom or dad or my in laws or my sisters in laws or any of my relatives to get the wrong idea and make a rift in the family. There are so many factors to consider!!! What do you think!!!

2006-10-23 16:50:31 · 17 answers · asked by Sierra S 2 in Family

I know this boy or say man sense we were babies are grandmas were best friends he and i lived with are grandmas. They lived in the same building we use to hang alot we use to go to the park and everything. His said he loves me about 2 days ago he said"I liked you sense the time i was 5". I said 5 years old we known each other longer than he said he i didn't remeber anything before that age and i don't go with him or no. I just laughed and thought while we were on the do you realy love me.

2006-10-23 16:50:23 · 5 answers · asked by Nyah S 1 in Friends

2006-10-23 16:50:05 · 8 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hey People** This is mostly for guys but I guess girls can add their opinion if they want to.
Okay heres my questions : Do guys usually prefer real skinny girls or like healthy looking girls. Im not saying like skinny people are not healthy but Im saying like average- not quite skinny but not overweight.
To sum it up- stick/really thin , or average-meat-on-her-bones girl.
Thanks!

2006-10-23 16:49:57 · 20 answers · asked by girl 4 in Singles & Dating

Im 17 my names josh, and I live in FL. I am going to a school so i can get my high school diploma in may. I am so tired or everything of just going to school i want to have like 50 friends and i want to have have sex like everyday i want to know alot of girls i want to see the world i want to go to japan and meet girls i want to learn bout them i want to stay in the US i want to hear great music and sing and live a great life i want to meet someone online i want to have sex just to have sex and than i want to have sex beacuse i love u i want to play football and magic and hang with my old friends on my street and im want to hang with old x gf's and party. get to no there parents. i want to make money. i want to be beautyful and loved. HOW CAN I DO THIS

2006-10-23 16:49:49 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex and I recently divorced. I have accepted the fact that he is soon moving in with the woman he had an affair with - it hurts but that pain is lessening every day.

However, he plans to introduce our son to her in the next couple of weeks. I know there is nothing I can do about it but it hurts like he**. Why is that? This is so tough!

2006-10-23 16:48:37 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. He is 6 years older than me. He and I are very happy and we have been living together for 2 years. Recently we decided to try for a baby. He has been saying that he wants to marry me for about 2 years now and he even looks at rings with me. I want to get married. There is no reason why we shouldnt at this point. Every time I bring it up he gets mad and says that he will ask me eventually but it will only be when I stop asking him about it. Ill go months and months without asking him and nothing then when I get fed up and ask him about it again he gets all mad again. I dont get it! Why wont he do this? We act like we are married already and he wont ask me!! Why is this??? I am not trying to pressure him at all but I am getting a little tired with the whole thing.

2006-10-23 16:48:11 · 11 answers · asked by angel l 3 in Singles & Dating

well this may sound strange. but this is not about me. but a problem that a friend of mine is going through. he asked me this question and i dont' know what to say. so i need some help.
CURRENTLY HE IS IN A RELATIONSHIP. BUT HE HAS MET SOMEONE THAT HE REALLY LIKES. HE WANTS TO LEAVE THE PERSON THAT HE IS CURRENLTY WITH BUT HE DOESN'T WANT HER TO TAKE THE CHILDREN AWAY FROM HIM. NO THE CHILDREN ARE NOT HIS BUT HE LOVES THEM TO DEATH. HE WANTS TO KNOW HOW CAN HE BREAK IT TO HER WITHOUT HER WANTING TO TAKE THE CHILDREN AWAY FROM HIM. ANY SUGGESTIONS

2006-10-23 16:47:53 · 16 answers · asked by ladyred_redlady 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Her other children always say they are broke. My husband and I usually end up giving her money.

2006-10-23 16:45:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Well ok...

Girl one = she's cute, goes to my school, one grade lower than me, I don't think she likes me, I've known her for about a month, oh yeah...we don't talk so I guess I've just seen her around for a month...I think she's as shy as me and have some things in common.

Girl two = She's also very cute, lives in Texas (we communicate by internet), She's in love with me, I've known her for about half a year, and yeah...we're both really shy and got alot of things in common.

Who should I go for?? =( Please help.

2006-10-23 16:45:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is one guy at my school that is perfect for me!I want to become his friend and then build up a relastionship with him.How do i start?

2006-10-23 16:45:10 · 6 answers · asked by Andi<3 1 in Singles & Dating