I met a woman and while she is gorgeous, I felt something different...It takes a lot to impress me and she did just her whole deal she had going, she seemed very bright and I liked her sense of humor a lot. I am going to approach her but the old, hey I like you lets go out sometime is just too vanilla for me...I want to express that I can just tell we could get along very well without sounding obsessive and psycho...a fine line I believe...any thoughts?
2006-10-23 17:00:01 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Act cool&confedent dont worry about every word you say 2 ask her out you'll get 2 nervouse and back out and mess up.
But just casualy. Bring up a good movie in the conversation that she'd be into and say that u wanna see it to and work from there.
IMPORTANT TIPSSS:::::
- great breath (mints, gum anything )
- dont let it be the VERY frist thing you say to her(like compilment her and stuff which would be easy because shes so amazing and make her feel in a happy mood so you'll get a great answer from her)
-dont act 2 desperate or 2 uncaring, just make her fell comfertable
Good luck with that girl!!!!=)
......Trust me I know this stuff I'm one 2 yeah kno ;)
2006-10-23 17:11:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The way you're looking at this could be obsessive or psycho to a critical observer.
Instead, zero in on what's diferent about this woman that attracts you, for example, sense of humor. Tell her you sometimes have trouble deciding whether things are funny or not, and she seems to be intuitively gifted in this area, how about going to such-and-such movie on Saturday with me and let me know if it measures up?
Something like that, an invitation that plays to her strengths rather than a date with someone you have an obsessive crush on! Even if that's also true!
2006-10-23 17:05:25 · answer #2 · answered by urbancoyote 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please don't say anything such as I believe we're meant to be together, we're soul mates or anything of the sort. I met a guy and after two dates he wrote me this two page love letter. It was a little strange because I'm thinking you don't even know me. You say these things about this woman because she's pretty and most men are attracted by a woman's outer appearance first and then the beauty within later. Always play it cool. I've had too many guys rush things too soon. If its meant to be, you'll be together. You don't know enough about her to approach her in this manner and expressing deep feelings too soon will make her think that you're lying. Be her friend first, that will distinguish you from the other men that come on to her. If she's anything like me, she's tired of guys trying to make her his girlfriend in 30 days or less. It's annoying and you're going to push her away.
2006-10-23 17:09:38 · answer #3 · answered by indepwman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm a guy and what I evaluate creepy is even as i bypass in a communicate room and there are 40 some thing 3 hundred and sixty 5 days old adult men pretending to be 18-21 3 hundred and sixty 5 days olds declaring they elect this and that and they elect to do cyber position playing sex and all that. To me that's creepy. i'm ill of being referred to as creepy i'm 20 and that i do not act like those adult men in chat rooms so do not team us all jointly please.
2016-10-16 06:10:18 · answer #4 · answered by branaugh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just take it casual.like number1,if she is interested in you,there will probably be no guess work on your part about it.and if your feeling it from her,just ask her to a movie or coffee or anything kind of on the casual side.no expectations or pressure.nature will take its coarse.and if she ducks out,there is nothing to be embarrased about.its not like you asked her out on a serious date.just a friendly kind of thing.but she will give you the green light if the feeling is mutual,,,but TAKE A HINT IF SHE DONT...dont be an *** and keep it up .say maybe some other time........
2006-10-23 17:15:32 · answer #5 · answered by monty m 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she is gorgeous, witty and has a good sense of humor then more than likely she is tired of lines. Keep it simple, be natural and just be yourself, it will probably be a refreshing change. Good Luck
2006-10-23 17:16:48 · answer #6 · answered by ncgirl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it's not creepy at all. I wouldn't worry about being "too vanilla". Sometimes putting things simple works just fine. That way there's not much room for misinterpretation.
2006-10-23 17:04:32 · answer #7 · answered by lucy02 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How about, "It's not everyday that I meet someone who is smart and has a great sense of humor. Would you like to go out sometime?"
2006-10-23 17:03:38 · answer #8 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that you think she is interesting and would like to get to know her better and then ask her out. Dont make it sound like you are a stalker though. Make it sound casual.
2006-10-23 17:02:07 · answer #9 · answered by Melinda 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her out to dinner; why is that so "old?" Going out to dinner at a nice place will you an opportunity to talk to each other.
2006-10-23 17:06:06 · answer #10 · answered by Nancy D 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋