When we would have sex it would be the whole night seriously till next day we are older just alittle and have alot of responsibilites but I would still like to have that back once in awhile what can I do to make him want it like I always do.
2006-10-23 16:35:17 · 24 answers · asked by dee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
go to a swingers club because he is probally cheating on you anyway
2006-10-23 16:45:38 · answer #1 · answered by Blackdog 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
You can't make him want anything, whether it's sex, Brussels sprouts or a day at your Mom's.
What you can do is tell him that you crave him like chocolate and you want to blow your diet. Don't pressure him, don't nag. Men don't respond well to that. Ask him how he feels about your sex life and what he'd do differently. Do focus on sex all the time, think quality not quantity.
As you get older things do change, including your sexual appetites. Actually, a woman's gets stronger while men begin to slow down.
Evaluate the changes in your life that have occurred since you're rockin' sex days (and nights). You really have to factor that in to where you are now. Kids? Promotions? Debt? Moves? Don't discount the impact of those things on your life.
Cut your husband a little slack. Listen to him; I'm sure he has thought about this too.
2006-10-23 23:47:46 · answer #2 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are many options here, Toys are great if you dont have them already, have him spring you using them, i caught my gf using a viberator once, it was the biggest turn on seriously, you could try going to swingers clubs your not under any obligation to participate but sex is definately in the air,its actually a turn on to sit with your parnter and watch others go at it! some clubs only cater to couples so there are no sleazy single guys, easily found on the net. but be warned it could also affect your relationship negitavely. fulfill some of his and your fantisies, really im sure you can think of something, to me it actually seems strange that it is the male not wanting it , always the other way around normally.
2006-10-24 00:10:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Dee, it sounds like a schedule issue that effecting both you and your husband's sexual lives. I could be a simple change in time or the need to get away for the weekend. Maybe he's just exhausted and needs a healthy change in diet and exercise which will increase his adrenaline and therefore the blood flow and the desire for sex. Consult your Dr. if it gets worse and ensure that he gets a reg. check up. Lots of Zinc (fish) and iron in the diet is good too...if that doesn't work go to this website...I found that when I was married it worked wonders in and out of bed. www.immunotech.com or ca.
Wish you the best...it's good that you are concern enough to want to improve your sexual life instead of giving up and going for the "pool guy".
*wink*
let me know how it turns out...
~chow
2006-10-24 00:05:47 · answer #4 · answered by BigHearted 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him it is his husbandly duty...No, really, surprise him when he comes home by wearing something sexy and/or whory. Have a little make-up on and a dab or two of perfume. Play "mood" music and have candles lit. Have dinner in a slow cooker where it will stay warm, you can eat it after "the show", but the aromas will be wafting in the air.
I think the combination of all this will cause his "little buddy" to start to "grow" up.
2006-10-23 23:59:49 · answer #5 · answered by Oenophile... (Lynn) 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him. Spice it up a bit..try something wild and crazy! If you can - plan a nite of wining, dining and ....lol. Either get a hotel with no distractions or plan a nite alone with him where you have plenty of wine to forget the wows of the day and just enjoy each other. Think back to when you first started dating- the sexlife you had...try to rekindle that.
2006-10-24 00:59:54 · answer #6 · answered by KA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dress in a sexy nurses outfit, gently wake him in the morning by telling him it's time for his oral examination, turn him on his back, sit astride him with your bum towards his face so he can see and stroke your silky stockings then blow his mind. Try tying him up and tease him. Let him watch you masturbate, he'll soon want to join in. Let your imagination run riot................
Incidentally feed him loads of chillies, they are amazingly good for the male sex hormones, I give them to my husband by the sackload.
2006-10-24 02:49:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need some quality time alone. Plan a vacation, go out and spend time together. I'm sure things will got back to normal. :)
2006-10-23 23:56:16 · answer #8 · answered by jonjon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a nice romantic night at a love hotel would help. As well as dressing sexier, looking sexier, viagra, and maybe some booze
2006-10-23 23:38:51 · answer #9 · answered by sparksXT 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you should flirt with him more, brush against him, sigh in his ear, all the sexy things youd intentionally do to a man to make him want you. Rediscover yourself and excite him at the same time. You can do it easily, cheaply and effectively...go try it right now and have fun :))
2006-10-23 23:47:27 · answer #10 · answered by Johnny 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dont pressure him, but let him know what you want in different ways other than just saying it. Let him be the agressor and everything will flow.......
2006-10-23 23:42:19 · answer #11 · answered by Mom O' Three 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋