my bf is cheatin..im almost sure..i have confronted him but he denies it n he does give a good argument he shows he really cares about our relationship and somehow i feel like i dont care whether he is or not cuz im happy with him(maybe cuz im not totally sure of him cheating or not) but how can i be 100% sure that he is cheating on me?? can yall give me tips and past experiences of how yall handle dis..n pls dont say confrontin him and tellin him how i feel cuz i done that already
2006-10-23 16:34:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the reason y i think hes cheatin is cuz hes on the phone alot.. but when i tell him it ends up being a homeboy dat just called him n i just feel stupid..also cuz he keeps it koo wit his x i dont kno that should worry me..also i kno back then he was kinda like a player n he has cheated on past girlfriends..so its kinda hard to trust him at times knowin his past
2006-10-23 16:43:16 · update #1
My husband of 17 years was a lier and cheat most of the marriage. The best way I found was to take his cell phone and make him think he lost it. Sit back and review outgoing and incoming calls, review texts, etc. you should get a idea of what is going on. When the phone rings you answer it. Be prepared for the worst. Listen to your 6th sense God gives it to you for a reason. If you think he is Cheating he is... Good Luck !
2006-10-23 16:51:16 · answer #1 · answered by Cutie1524 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you hire a private investigator, it will be difficult to tell. The bigger issue is, why don't you trust him. There's a reason for it. Your instinct is there to protect you. Trust your instincts. Ultimately, it doesn't matter whether he's cheating on you or not. You don't trust him, so how good can your relationship be? Have you talked with a counselor about the deeper issues involved here? There's no shame in getting professional help.
2006-10-23 16:39:18 · answer #2 · answered by Jon M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because if he isn cheating, he may not want to have sex with you
or less often, And his orgasm will be smaller - less sperm,
and if he just lost his load, he will have a small load and
not get excited as much.
2006-10-23 16:37:24 · answer #3 · answered by don;t know 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think hes cheatin hes cheatin...you've just gotta learn to trust yourself and your intuition...i was in the same boat when i was younger, in a 4yr relationship and wouldnt listen to myself then found out after we broke up he was screwing a whole lot of chicks coz he was on their blackbooks for at least three yrs of our relationship...i just say trust your gutt..good luck :)
2006-10-23 16:47:41 · answer #4 · answered by misseeme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone. He probably isn;t ....but if he is do you really want to know?
2006-10-23 16:38:19 · answer #5 · answered by Foss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋