My life is one big routine everyday the same thing over and over.Nothing exciting ever happens to me.
I work a 40 hour week I come home to my three children do homework,cook dinner ect.ect.
I love my kids.James my boyfriend never goes near me we never have sex and it hurts theres no romance at all-I feel like my soul is dieing a slow death. Anwsers please only seriouse
2006-10-23 16:32:01 · 19 answers · asked by mudusacat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Take a romantic vacation with your bf, but if things dont get better trying getting some treatment as far as a shrink, try to work out things that way if it doesnt work out try some anti depressants.,
2006-10-23 16:34:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I sounds like you might be depressed. Try to change your routine by adding an activity like working out or spending time with friends. Try to romance James and talk to him and let him know how you are feeling. Ask him to help the kids with their homework so you can do something for yourself. If that doesn't work, try individual therapy... It really helps. There is so much to live for. Don't let your soul die. Get out there and live life to the fullest... Find a reason to be happy everyday. Good Luck to you.
2006-10-23 23:39:46 · answer #2 · answered by msladykm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is where I shake my head and understand just how strong many women are. A nun is selfless, lives out her life for the benefit of others. Life can be lonely even in a crowd. James does not sound very supportive, are the kids his ? Is he a friend, doesn't sound like one, seeing your self worth is being trampled down in the dirt. No one can treat you in any way unless you allow it. I think it's time for you to let go of James and give him his marching orders. With three kids and a full time job, I'd run for the hills. Make the time to do something different, a amateur drama group, a choir. Do you have girlfriends, close family who you can open up with and chill out ? You need time out, time for yourself, even if it's to go out with girlfriends, a club or night spot. Spolit yourself, a massage, a couple of hours at a health spa. You need spoiling, know it, believe it and make it happen. We will all be dead soon enough, time for action.
2006-10-23 23:52:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to collect that child support if you don't already and if you can. You should also talk to your boyfriend about that and if you can't fix it, find someone new. Try to get a babysitter so you can go out and have fun when you have free time. It's nice to spend quality time with your kids but you need a life too.
2006-10-23 23:34:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello my name is dwight i`m a jamaican, one thing you can do is look him in the eyes and ask him if he realy love you, if he says yes tell him that you are very lonely and need him to be their when ever you need him eg sex thats the right time.If he says no means that he is having sex or relationship with another woman.But the best thing to do is to go up to him and just kiss him 3 times an then say that you love him very much and you will never let him go, he will think whats this about just say can you be my lover if if if he realy says no then he realy don`t love you. if you realy want to talk just email me at dwightroache@yahoo.com ok and i can tell you how to turn him on ok see you.
2006-10-24 00:11:47 · answer #5 · answered by dwightroache 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like to need to get rid of the boyfriend. Get a good babysitter and go out with the girls.....maybe plan a fun day at the park with your kids. Call in sick to work one day, let the kids stay home from school...stay in PJ's all day and watch movies with your kids. Sounds like you need a break, and maybe reconnect with your kids. Good luck!
2006-10-23 23:34:53 · answer #6 · answered by Tami 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have three kids who need you and love you, even if they never say so. If you have a boyfriend who just seems to be a boyfriend in name only then maybe you might want to be single, and make yourself available to some guy who would treat you the way you need and like. Most importantly make sure you like yourself. Most of us have lonely periods and want someone to share our lives with. In the end we really need to respect and like ourselves in order to be happy with someone else. Treat yourself with respect, ask for what you deserve. Be willing to find it on your own if need be.
2006-10-23 23:49:09 · answer #7 · answered by Jeff S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I should be the last person on Earth to give my advice to but try having a family gathering on the weekends. Relax, it may bring the family closer and a few sparks may fly. Wishing you the best.
2006-10-23 23:36:33 · answer #8 · answered by missdontgivafukusa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let your husband know that same info with us, and let him know that if things don't change and become more interesting, you are gonna have to find another way of enjoying your own life. (I'm sure that he has also). You have control over your own life some make sure that you make the right choices so that you can fulfill your own hapiness...
2006-10-23 23:38:05 · answer #9 · answered by perfectanjyl22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump ur bf, and go out to a club with some friends! about ur kids, it is possible to get a babysitter every once in awhile (but try spending as much time as possible with them). just spice up ur life a little!
2006-10-23 23:34:51 · answer #10 · answered by 2Cute2bTrue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋