Family & Relationships - 21 October 2006

I went out with this guy for about 5 months. When i went out with him i still loved another guy, but was trying to get over him. But being with the other guy didn't help, and just made me resent my boyfriend. I took him forgranted, he treated me like a princess, told me he loved me all the time, which sometimes freaked me out but now i wonder if i lost my perfect guy? So i left him about a month and a half ago and i cried a few times but was fine. But a strange thing happened. I burst into tears when i saw him with another girl. A few nights ago he brought this really strange gothic girl to our party, and everyone was wondering what he was doing. We stayed up talking until the early hours, and he was being flirty and slushy =S i am with a guy who is an ex from years ago now who loves me. Are we both on the rebound?I can't stop talking about him, and my friends are wondering what's going on to.Help!

2006-10-21 04:43:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why dont they settle down with the bad girls?

2006-10-21 04:43:09 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a really shy guy, would appreciate some serious tips on overcoming fear of talking to strangers. I get so scared sometimes that my hands start shivering!!! Please help.

2006-10-21 04:42:35 · 4 answers · asked by confused_1 1 in Singles & Dating

I've just met a guy who is perfect personality wise. He is funny, kind, has old fashioned values which I like, adores kids and is understanding and considerate. He's everything I'd look for in a man. The problem is he has a really bad skin problem and I don't find him that great looking. I don't know if that means he isn't right for me or whether I should give things a chance to develop and perhaps his looks won't matter so much later on? How important is it that you physcially fancy a potential boyfriend or girlfriend?

2006-10-21 04:42:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-21 04:41:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

the love of my life and i broke up about 8 months ago because she was tired of the fighting. she got a new boyfriend and we didnt talk for months. then we started talking again and she tells me all the time that she still loves me and everything. talks about us having a future all the time but when its time to get serious about it she always says she dont know what she wants. she stays at my house all the time and lies to him about us. we dont do anything sexual just hang out and have fun. but in the end its just mind games to me and its tearing me apart. what should i do i dnt want to lose her

2006-10-21 04:41:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there's this guy (a student) in school i don't know. whenever i walk the corridor i usually see him looking at me. i don't smile to him coz i dont do it to strangers especially guys (but i don't snob him either). i feel awkward everytime he does it. don't understand him. he doesn't smile, just seriously looking at me. i am beginning to worry. don't remember i did something wrong to him.

2006-10-21 04:41:03 · 3 answers · asked by chelle 2 in Singles & Dating

or thongs cause i cant i've tried but as sson as even think about sex i get so wet it gets uncomfortable

2006-10-21 04:40:57 · 8 answers · asked by bciara666 1 in Friends

2006-10-21 04:40:16 · 12 answers · asked by PETE 3 in Singles & Dating

my friend sarah likes this dude in our theater class and he really is a dork but i dont want to say stupid hes ugly cause he isnt its just not my type?

2006-10-21 04:40:05 · 9 answers · asked by hdog 1 in Friends

I am 26 this year, and he is 38. He seems like a player, but I think if he find some1 suitable, he would be a good bf... can you guys give me ideas on how to approach him subtlely to let him know that I am interested in him? As we are in same department, it will be awkward if things dont work out. So please give me realistic suggestions, which wont make me awkward even if things dont work out. I just want to hint subtle to him and let him be aware of my feelings for him... And I am quite a shy girl too...

2006-10-21 04:39:13 · 10 answers · asked by SinJanegle 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-21 04:39:11 · 2 answers · asked by criscross500 1 in Friends

Morning, night, whenever. No consideration for my roommates or anyone. She'll come by before I'm about to leave for work and get mad because I want her to leave. She comes by unnanounced when just my roommates are at home and they wonder why she's acting so weird. What do I do?

2006-10-21 04:38:48 · 23 answers · asked by Arf 4 in Family

I really like this girl, and she kindof likes me, but just as a friend. She doesn't know why she doesn't like me, just that I don't have the "special thing" that makes her jump when she sees someone. What do you think that special thing is?

2006-10-21 04:38:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've known this one girl for about 2 years....we finally have just gotten together and we get along just great. We are very sexually compatible and we love each other. However, I'm a virgin and she's not....and I'm 8 days from being 19. I have a problem and I'm not sure what to do about it. I know that everything works (you know...the goods). I can get it up the whole time until it's time to have intercourse. I really do want to have intercourse....that's why I'm not sure why I go limp everytime. I might be a little bit nervous....but it's the second night it has happened. Good thing I know other methods of keeping her happy. Please, if anyone knows how to recover from this.....or has any suggestions..please....I need help.

2006-10-21 04:38:16 · 14 answers · asked by The man who wants answers! 2 in Singles & Dating

I wait on my parents hand and foot. I've cooked and clean when they've asked. I respect them all the time. I don't rebel or fight against them. They always say, "Oh we'll reward you" This seems to be all bull. The one time I do something wrong they jump on me and say, "I wouldn't expect this from you", and it pisses me off!!
If i have bad grades they complain and say they're disappointed. I'm tired of it. What should i do?
For example my mom had a minor surgery on tuesday, and no its Saturday. I was going to go somewhere but my dad was all "You should take care of your mother, My 18 year old half brother was at home, and my mom doesn't even need help. She walks around and gets on everyone at the smallest little thing all the time. THey always say "I'll make it up to you but they do the smallest things. I expect a PS3 or a Wii for Christmas. Maybe i'm taking them forgranted since they do give me lots of money. In a savings account I have $700 and I opened the account about a year

2006-10-21 04:35:57 · 4 answers · asked by Donovan G 5 in Family

Alright my boyfriend and i have recently broke up and he has moved on well...last night i went to a football game and saw him we talked for a little while but then his new girlfriend came and he left...well later that night i saw him again and sat close to him and he didnt look at his girlfriend again that night...he stared at me. I really miss him and i wanted to know if this os a sign of him possibly liking me again cause i would love to be with him. If yes then tell me if i should try to get him back.

2006-10-21 04:35:26 · 13 answers · asked by swmergal9313 1 in Singles & Dating

There is someone that I talked to yesterday or the day before and I was wondering if there was a way I can find that conversation again, because there was some information in there that I needed to get out since I forgot to write it down! I would like to see the conversation again if at all possible!

2006-10-21 04:35:13 · 4 answers · asked by Ashley B 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-21 04:34:55 · 19 answers · asked by igotsmartz 2 in Singles & Dating

Been seeing a man (11 years older than me), he has never been married, but has a daughter (aged 8). I dont have much experience with kids. I am only 26 and get on well with the guy, but feel a bit unsure if this could work. Anyone with some advice?

2006-10-21 04:34:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Fell for a guy in work that i have known for 8 years. He always questioned why we never talked before. Well, i was married until 2 years ago, unhappy ...not knowing what to do....I know for a fact this guy has feelings too. However, i didn't push anything. He is married, one child. Of course there was flirting but not bad. His last day was yesterday. He is moving with family..... It was a hard goodbye to say the least...a couple hugs and then the stare and 'bye' . If i could have clone him I would. He is everything and more that I am looking for in a man. Kind, sincere , fun athletic, funny, handsome. Alot was left unsaid but understood.... I guess my question is ...do i tell him how i feel somehow ? we are keeping in touch with e-mail etc...I'm sure he will visit Boston too....What is something i can write him....without being too overwhelming...Should I tell him that i will miss him etc............

2006-10-21 04:34:03 · 8 answers · asked by Tropical 1 in Singles & Dating

I love my husband and we have a great relationship. We've been together for almost 10 yrs and have been married for 4 1/2 yrs. He's been working about 54 hrs a wk and taking an intense class to be an EMT. It's 9 hrs of class per wk, but it requires a lot of studying and homework as well.

I know it's selffish, but I miss him and we aren't having sex much because he's so exhausted. He hasn't been sleeping much. I was wondering if anyone has any ideas of what I can do to make him feel better and maybe more in the mood to have sex...I think I would help him destress. Serious answers please.

2006-10-21 04:33:27 · 12 answers · asked by Rwebgirl 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-21 04:33:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For my wife and I to have sex for several days,like we just met each other.At least 4 or 5 times a day doing everything from hardcore to romance.And then going a week or 2 without nothing.Why?

2006-10-21 04:33:21 · 14 answers · asked by charles 4 in Marriage & Divorce

A guy just walks up to u proposing marriage. Before u know whats going on, ur bride price has been paid and every body starts preparin for your weddin. meanwhile, u have a strong relationship with some other guy u love dearly. Ur parents accepted this guy just because he is rich but they fail to realise that u never accapted his proposal. In a case like this, what do i do?

2006-10-21 04:31:21 · 6 answers · asked by ellsie a 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hey, advise needed please!!!! I am one of these people who always worry about what other people think. I am in a stable year long relationship with my fiance and we have been talking about starting a family together.

I cant stop thinking about having a baby, I never thought I would feel like this!! It's driving me mad because I want to be sensible but I just feel that maybe I should live for now and follow my instincts to try for a baby. I mean, I will complete my HND degree course in June and I have already lived abroad in Africa for a year and travelled so I dont see what is holding me back.

I think maybe because although I am mature for my age of 21, I dont look it and I am just worried what other people may think!!

2006-10-21 04:31:13 · 42 answers · asked by Bette 1 in Family

I was with my boyfriend for 6 months. He talked about the future, told me he loved me constantly, and called me all the time. Out of nowhere he started pulling away and the phone calls stopped. He told me that he has been too busy with work and cannot give me the time it require to have a relationship. He said he realized he is not ready and does not want to be under the control of someone. He said "I'm not saying this is the end but I cannot do this right now". He told me that there is no other girl and that is not the reason. What does this sound like? I have been crying every day and unable to function.

2006-10-21 04:31:09 · 11 answers · asked by italiana2683 2 in Singles & Dating

I hate leaving a message for women-and all the games with it.
Would it be better not to leave a message and just call back?
Also, how long should I stay on the phone with this girl when
trying to set up a 1st blindate and what should I talk about?
Should I keep it brief ??

2006-10-21 04:30:26 · 13 answers · asked by don;t know 3 in Singles & Dating

Hey everyone,

get ur brains busy for me plz. i need a nice romantic sentence with words that start in the 4 letters: R A M I
something meaningful, nice, sweet, and romantic (clean one) lol

needless to say, best answer gets to keep all 10 points!! :p

thanx in advance :]

2006-10-21 04:30:02 · 7 answers · asked by someone 2 in Singles & Dating

is it weird for a shy freshman girl who no has ever really heard talk, ask out a senoir guy who doesnt know girls actully exsist but then he says yes...

2006-10-21 04:29:47 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating