Fell for a guy in work that i have known for 8 years. He always questioned why we never talked before. Well, i was married until 2 years ago, unhappy ...not knowing what to do....I know for a fact this guy has feelings too. However, i didn't push anything. He is married, one child. Of course there was flirting but not bad. His last day was yesterday. He is moving with family..... It was a hard goodbye to say the least...a couple hugs and then the stare and 'bye' . If i could have clone him I would. He is everything and more that I am looking for in a man. Kind, sincere , fun athletic, funny, handsome. Alot was left unsaid but understood.... I guess my question is ...do i tell him how i feel somehow ? we are keeping in touch with e-mail etc...I'm sure he will visit Boston too....What is something i can write him....without being too overwhelming...Should I tell him that i will miss him etc............
2006-10-21 04:34:03 · 8 answers · asked by Tropical 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If everyone in the world lived by the golden rule(treat people the way you would like to be treated)(do unto others as you would like done to yourself) what a great world this would be.
2006-10-21 04:35:12 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you respect his marriage but let him know that he is the perfect guy and that if you could clone him you would. that you would like to stay in touch and hope him the best in life and the future. tell him all this and more in email and will appreciate you. yes I know it seems alot of times that all the good ones are always taken lol
2006-10-21 04:40:45 · answer #2 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally - I think you should keep it to yourself. If the two of you didn't even have to talk about your feelings and you already knew how he felt, then he knows how you feel about him and that you will miss him. Don't stir things up.
2006-10-21 04:40:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be carefulyou dont hurt any one in this ok
just let him know how you feel so you can feel better but with out trying anything that will put you into the middle of something
2006-10-21 04:46:39 · answer #4 · answered by ace_71385 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to let him know how you felt,and also let him know out of respect for his wife and family you did nothing to pursue this filling you have for him ,also make it clear you don't want to break up his home . if he is in love with you well then you let him take it from there,
2006-10-21 04:43:27 · answer #5 · answered by just_me_1955 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go by your own example, You didn't cheat in your marriage even though you were unhappy..... So why would you want someone who would cheat in his marriage? Be true to your self!!
2006-10-21 04:46:33 · answer #6 · answered by sunkissed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is married, leave him alone.
2006-10-21 04:37:19 · answer #7 · answered by wHaT eVeR 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd 'go gay' if I were you
2006-10-21 04:36:25 · answer #8 · answered by Mehera 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋