I hate leaving a message for women-and all the games with it.
Would it be better not to leave a message and just call back?
Also, how long should I stay on the phone with this girl when
trying to set up a 1st blindate and what should I talk about?
Should I keep it brief ??
2006-10-21 04:30:26 · 13 answers · asked by don;t know 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hello Sweetheart, 1st let me just say,,,,calm down it will be fine. And yes by all means call her and leave a message. It lets her know that you are interested. Just make it simple, light and easy,,,,,, say something like this," Hey Amanda, this is Chuck. I thought i would give you a call and see what you were up to. If you want to give me a call when you get in my phone # is ---/----. Have a great day and i will talk to you later." By leaving this type of message it lets her know that you are interested in doing something today or sometime this week, you have opened up to her by giving her your phone # and letting her know it is ok to contact you, and you ended the conversation with a positive telling her to have a great day. It was easy and to the piont and at the same time not pushy. Just give her your cell phone # so when she calls then you will be there to accept the call and chat with her. Good luck sweetheart.
2006-10-21 05:01:36 · answer #1 · answered by Ann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave a message, that way if she calls back then you will know she is interested. I think you will know how long you should remain on the phone by the content of your conversation. If you start having long moments on silence then its probably time to end the call. The first conversation she be easy. Find out what she likes, what she does for fun, about her family, goals, dreams, etc. Good luck!
2006-10-21 11:36:04 · answer #2 · answered by shellese2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it wouldn't hurt to leave a message.. that way you will know if she is interested if she calls you back... right... and if she does call you back then you can kinda feel your way around the conversation as to how long you should be on the phone with her ask her if she is busy and that kinda thing and maybe where she might like to go something to keep the conversation alive but not to intimate .. keep that for the date... good luck..
2006-10-21 11:34:47 · answer #3 · answered by panda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt leave a message, if she never answers then maybe i would leave one. if she doesnt return the call after ive left a message then that may be a hint. let it go. but when it comes to phone conversation, i would talk as long as you can to get comfortable with each other while in your own environments, make her laugh, see what her interests are, ....then the date wont be such a harsh ice breaking moment..
2006-10-21 11:35:31 · answer #4 · answered by CDog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave a message that you will call her back later.
Stay on the phone for as long as you both have something to talk about.
No one can tell you what to talk about with your potential date.
If you have to keep it very brief, this may not be the date for you.
2006-10-21 11:35:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave a brief message stating when u will call back & be sure to call back....if this continues after a few calls i would say she is avoiding u,
2006-10-21 11:32:30 · answer #6 · answered by Doni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't leave a message, call back.
don't keep it too brief.
but leave somethigng 4 the date
2006-10-21 11:34:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do NOT NOT NOT leave a message. Call back ONE more time, if she doesn't pick up or call you back, move on. It's her loss.
2006-10-21 11:33:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave a message. If she has caller ID she'll know you called anyway, and she'll be creeped out if you don't leave a message.
2006-10-21 11:33:06 · answer #9 · answered by stevejensen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go w/ the flow, and leave a message if its a cell, no message if its a home #
2006-10-21 11:36:23 · answer #10 · answered by dancing_diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋