I've known this one girl for about 2 years....we finally have just gotten together and we get along just great. We are very sexually compatible and we love each other. However, I'm a virgin and she's not....and I'm 8 days from being 19. I have a problem and I'm not sure what to do about it. I know that everything works (you know...the goods). I can get it up the whole time until it's time to have intercourse. I really do want to have intercourse....that's why I'm not sure why I go limp everytime. I might be a little bit nervous....but it's the second night it has happened. Good thing I know other methods of keeping her happy. Please, if anyone knows how to recover from this.....or has any suggestions..please....I need help.
2006-10-21 04:38:16 · 14 answers · asked by The man who wants answers! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have her get involved, touch you, kiss, lick etc. That should help you get aroused more and keep it up.
2006-10-21 04:42:00 · answer #1 · answered by gypsilee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
RELAX! You peter should stay at attention for quite some ime being your age. Find a way to relax. Your peter is picking up the stress and will not stay at attention, just relax and if he goes limp just have your girl give him a little touch, kiss or lick. Make sure you are clean, no woman like a dirty peter.
If everyone in the world lived by the golden rule(treat people the way you would like to be treated)(do unto others as you would like done to yourself) what a great world this would be.
2006-10-21 11:43:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You DON'T need Viagra and you DON'T need a doctor. It sounds like you're more nervous than you think. Relax, try not to think too hard about what could go wrong and just be in the moment.
It might take a few more tries. That's perfectly normal. Just don't worry so much about it. If you've got a good girl, she'll be patient and understanding. And it sounds like she is.
2006-10-21 11:49:20 · answer #3 · answered by MotherFirefly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, let me debunk your self-consolation: there is no other way to adequately compensate a girl if the main thing is not forthcoming.
To the problem proper, you appear to be over-anxious about the "show". Try and relax, and everything will work out fine. It is normal for some people like that.
2006-10-21 12:00:18 · answer #4 · answered by peaceman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you have a fear of either getting her pregnant or fear of not performing to her standards. Look at it this way. The only way your going to find out if your good is to do it. And if your worried use protection. It definately sounds like you have some type of fear and until you realize it you going to continue. Maybe talking it out with her might help
2006-10-21 11:43:09 · answer #5 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You waited to long and now you are nervous about it.You need to take your time and have a lot of foreplay,and if that doesn't work pay your doctor a visit.
2006-10-21 11:43:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't do it! You know that the vagina has rows of razor sharp teeth and will cut off your winkie. Thank God you've been going limp. Close one!
2006-10-21 11:59:15 · answer #7 · answered by irish1269 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you might need Viagra. It could be that since she's not a virgin, you could be afraid she has the HIV or STD(s). Maybe you are afraid of getting her pregnant.
Good luck!
2006-10-21 11:42:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you HAVE to relax. she is not going to judge you. believe me she will be more relaxed if you are. stop thinking about any thing except just going with the flow and being pleased and pleasing. just have fun!!!
2006-10-21 11:45:06 · answer #9 · answered by ash 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just chill out so you can feel the love
just foces on her
and forget about anything
2006-10-21 11:50:16 · answer #10 · answered by ace_71385 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋