I wait on my parents hand and foot. I've cooked and clean when they've asked. I respect them all the time. I don't rebel or fight against them. They always say, "Oh we'll reward you" This seems to be all bull. The one time I do something wrong they jump on me and say, "I wouldn't expect this from you", and it pisses me off!!
If i have bad grades they complain and say they're disappointed. I'm tired of it. What should i do?
For example my mom had a minor surgery on tuesday, and no its Saturday. I was going to go somewhere but my dad was all "You should take care of your mother, My 18 year old half brother was at home, and my mom doesn't even need help. She walks around and gets on everyone at the smallest little thing all the time. THey always say "I'll make it up to you but they do the smallest things. I expect a PS3 or a Wii for Christmas. Maybe i'm taking them forgranted since they do give me lots of money. In a savings account I have $700 and I opened the account about a year
2006-10-21 04:35:57 · 4 answers · asked by Donovan G 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
ago and they've supplied most of the money, I want to withdraw some for some video games but I know my mom probably wouldn't do it unless it goes to something more important towards my education. IM in hign school, how can i have a life when i and so revered for kissing my parent's ***
2006-10-21 04:37:49 · update #1
You will turn out the best. You have respect and are building character. I hope you do get something from them for all your hard efforts. Either way, the valuable lessons you have learned will carry with you all of your life. Do not get distracted by what the brother is doing or not doing...that will change him, not you. Focus on being the best you can be in all situations. Make choices that you can live with. Always think if your parents were to die tomorrow, at least you loved them and did all you could while they were here. I salute you for your character. Do not discouraged. Keep up you goodness. It will pay off. Peace!
2006-10-21 04:40:05 · answer #1 · answered by Shayna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont expect alot form your parents. you sound like you want too much form them. Try and talk to your parents...if they don't listen then try to talk to someone close to yuo about the problem. Talking can help alot. Remember don't be so needy and expect so many things that's when you won't recieve anything at all.
2006-10-21 04:41:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is time to sit your parents down and tell them that you love them very much but that you also need to have a life. and this reward thing. you should not need rewarded for helping. but may i suggest that when you have plans and they ask you to drop them tell them no, that you have already made plans and that you are not going to break them. stop letting them do this to you.
2006-10-21 04:51:09 · answer #3 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sure they love you but tell them that you need youre own space.
2006-10-21 04:39:32 · answer #4 · answered by sportychick4824 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋