I went out with this guy for about 5 months. When i went out with him i still loved another guy, but was trying to get over him. But being with the other guy didn't help, and just made me resent my boyfriend. I took him forgranted, he treated me like a princess, told me he loved me all the time, which sometimes freaked me out but now i wonder if i lost my perfect guy? So i left him about a month and a half ago and i cried a few times but was fine. But a strange thing happened. I burst into tears when i saw him with another girl. A few nights ago he brought this really strange gothic girl to our party, and everyone was wondering what he was doing. We stayed up talking until the early hours, and he was being flirty and slushy =S i am with a guy who is an ex from years ago now who loves me. Are we both on the rebound?I can't stop talking about him, and my friends are wondering what's going on to.Help!
2006-10-21 04:43:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
total confusion. time alone solves. let it go.
2006-10-21 04:48:09 · answer #1 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were on the rebound and used him. So, when you left him he was on the rebound and is using that goth girl. You obviously have some feelings for him if you cried when you broke up and got jealous with the new girl. I think you both have realized you actually still like eachother and should give it another chance. Just go up to him and give him a big kiss and tell him you want to spend your time with him and only him and you want the same for him. If he says no, you're already not together and it's no big deal. Leave your current boyfriend tho and tell you're really sorry for leading him on but you're in love with someone else. He'll get over it.
2006-10-21 12:38:28 · answer #2 · answered by Steph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you settle the issue privately instead of bringing it to a public forum like this? No one would be interested in or care about what you did or do in your life, especially making and dumping friends!
2006-10-21 11:50:05 · answer #3 · answered by Sami V 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is always better to end one relationship before starting another! So you fell in love with the one you left and you were upset to see him with another girl! You better let him know before things get even more complicated!
2006-10-21 11:52:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If everyone in the world lived by the golden rule(treat people the way you would like to be treated)(do unto others as you would like done to yourself) what a great world this would be.
2006-10-21 11:45:16 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you still like the other guy that brought that chick to the party you need to dump your new boyfriend and try to get the other one back because it just sounds like he was trying to get you jealous and see what you would do when you saw him wit that other girl so dump your boyfriend and try to get the old one back because he seemed like the right one for you good luck
2006-10-21 11:48:12 · answer #6 · answered by jenna s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give a little take a little
u know the answer to your question and asking it here is the last and wrong thing to do
2006-10-21 11:56:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you both want a 2nd chance.- go for it!
2006-10-21 11:47:46 · answer #8 · answered by ash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋