Family & Relationships - 21 October 2006

I discover what she tells me one minute ain't the real truthsomewhere down the line.There's still love there but the feelings of deceit don't dissapate easily.Is it best to start all over again?

2006-10-21 11:05:20 · 11 answers · asked by justanobody 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-21 11:04:00 · 16 answers · asked by RACHEL 1 in Singles & Dating

Everbody tells me that they have saw the video of his death but the news says that it wont be out so my question is if you have saw that video that where did you see it

2006-10-21 11:03:46 · 15 answers · asked by im a rebel not racial 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I are going on vacation to Hawaii. We reside in Oregon and have decided that this will be the perfect opportunity to elope. We were planning on having a friend who is an ordained minister marry us and we have 2 witnessess, but I'm a bit stumped.

If we were to get married in Hawaii, can we only get a Hawaiian marraige license? Or can we apply for an Oregon license and perform the actual marraige in Hawaii? Any good links guys??

Thanks!

2006-10-21 11:03:08 · 4 answers · asked by myaddictiontofire 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a girl who is my best friend. We are both 17 years old. We both have know each other our whole lives and our parents have know each other since they were in high school. I am worried if I tell Jen how I feel about her and she does not feel the same way that it could mess our friendship up. What should I do?

2006-10-21 11:03:07 · 6 answers · asked by TOM 1 in Friends

do guys like girls to dress sexy or cover up more? and what body part do they like girls to show off more? and does it matter what colors they wear?

2006-10-21 11:02:58 · 10 answers · asked by Freaky 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife moved left me nearly three weeks ago, I know I am slowly beginning to recover from what has happened but the biggest problem I have is that when I wake in the mornings I just can't face actually getting up, I keep saying 'just another half hour' time after time until eventually I HAVE to get up. Today has been a good day and I'm feeling pretty positive but it still started with me not wanting to get up, and now I don't want to go to bed because I fear how I will feel in the morning. I don't dream about my wife (that I am aware of) and I do have things to look forward to in life, but how can I get over this? It's driving me crazy.

2006-10-21 11:02:47 · 29 answers · asked by Very happily married. 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I met my bf when I was 17. I'm now 23. We had lots of problems when he became a cop. We broke up back in June because he was cheating on me. Now, however, we have decided to work things out. I don't mean to make him look like a bad person, because he really isn't. I think he is an incredible man and I love him more than anything in the world. The big problem I think is that I have become the most jealous person ever. He can't so much as look at a girl and I think he is cheating. It is consuming my life! I have decided numberous times to try to forgive and forget but I'm not sure how. Anyway, we got back together a month ago and thought we could get married and just move one with a clean slate. Well, while we were split I decided that I need to put God first in my life, and he isn't even close to going to church. We have been together for almost 5 years. I guess I really need to know how do you really move on? Or is all of this just too complicated and need to end?

2006-10-21 11:02:37 · 14 answers · asked by KimberlyAnn 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a girl who is my best friend. We are both 17 years old. We both have know each other our whole lives and our parents have know each other since they were in high school. I am worried if I tell Jen how I feel about her and she does not feel the same way that it could mess our friendship up. What should I do?

2006-10-21 11:02:20 · 5 answers · asked by TOM 1 in Singles & Dating

This girl, is in my inner circle, and is very close, I want to start a Relationship with her, but have been told that is a bad thing. It doesn't make sence. And I am wanting long term commitent for the guys that are going to say. "Get in, Get off, Get out." -From the movie Hitch

2006-10-21 11:01:51 · 4 answers · asked by The Question Man 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a girl who is my best friend. We are both 17 years old. We both have know each other our whole lives and our parents have know each other since they were in high school. I am worried if I tell Jen how I feel about her and she does not feel the same way that it could mess our friendship up. What should I do?

2006-10-21 11:01:44 · 10 answers · asked by TOM 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Be having second thoughts about getting married?? I am not sure i want to marry my fiance anymore who keeps making fun of me with his friends?we used a zip lock bag while having sex 5 weeks ago and i went to the doctors for a blood test and i am pregnant .My guy thinks this is funny saying we should nick name the child zip !How can i make him not act so immature saying we will need a whole new wing on the house because i will be so big He is driving me crazy with the jokes!He told one of his friends and now they at me and crack more jokes!He even pats my stomache and says hi zippy.!Some of his jokes have gotten really crude hen talking about our sex life. I dont want to have to be mom to him and a baby and no matter what i say he does not stop.

2006-10-21 11:01:23 · 17 answers · asked by claire d 1 in Weddings

I was in a long-term relationship from 15 to 19 with a guy I met in high school. (I am 20 now and in college.) Before that I dated 1guy. Afterwards I was in a relationship with 1 other one for 3 months and then dated 10 guys or so. (No sex...no worries.) The only guy I loved out of those was the very long-term relationship, but I knew it would not work out realistically. Plus it became very long-distance when I came to college.

I am dating 2 guys now. After all this, I feel like i'll never settle down. I'm not sure if I want to to be honest either. But when will I feel like it and when will I know for sure? (I am female.) I don't want to be dating forever, but I just don't know. Plus, I am graduating next year from college, and I hear the dating scene post-college is pretty sh*tty.

2006-10-21 11:01:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i like him alot, and hes very mature. people always make fun of me saying i go for the "young ones"...but i just like him alot

2006-10-21 11:00:41 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Are there any bored married women out there from bedford or near bedford?

2006-10-21 11:00:13 · 19 answers · asked by mwyorks 1 in Singles & Dating

To those who their hearts have been broken time after time and found love after that, how did you manage to keep your heart warm and loving, instead of becoming cold and not feeling?

2006-10-21 10:59:49 · 5 answers · asked by bestwomanberry 2 in Singles & Dating

My very dear friend passed away last night and our sons are best buddies, they play sports together, go to school together, we do things together as families, etc. I am not sure if it is appropriate to allow my son to attend his friend's mother's funeral. I do not want it to traumatize him but we have told him that she passed away and he was aware that she was sick, he wants to go and see his friend. Do you think there would be any harm in letting him attend, however, I do not want him to see the body. Your input is greatly appreciated! Thanks

2006-10-21 10:58:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have this open relationship with my ex boyfriend.. we spend everyday together and have some incrediable sex... but I just found out that he has another KID on the way by another woman. I am hurt and confused... I have the understanding that we were not together, but why do I feel this way? Can you please help me.. Can you give me some ideas on how to move on with my life quickly, where i am not hurting everyday... Everyday i feel like a part of me has died... is that normal.. we were together for 11 years and we have no children together?

2006-10-21 10:58:07 · 5 answers · asked by Shonda 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

when you wake up and suddenly you see your husband talking to a new nighbor talking to a lady and you didn't have no idea who that lady is. This lady asked favor also if she can used some electricity plug and externion cord. then asked also if she can use the home phone to talk to her brother and my husband give him his cell phone so she can call her brother. Is this appropriate attitude. or I should not get upset or jealous. what do you think guys ? I need your response. I had and argument over to my husband this morning and my husband said I'm crazy for getting mad over this.

2006-10-21 10:57:49 · 16 answers · asked by rauma_raumamary 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Are you
Excited?
or Cautious?
or Uncomfortable?
or Miserable?
or other?

make it interesting, reading everyone type one word answer is just boring.

2006-10-21 10:57:04 · 9 answers · asked by 0_0 4 in Singles & Dating

Do you like it better when The girls lays there head on your shoulder, or when you lay your head on there shoulder??
&& why? Cause my boyfriend always lays his head on my shoulder, whats that mean?

2006-10-21 10:56:52 · 14 answers · asked by STFUbeezy 2 in Singles & Dating

it just takes a nice intelligent man who talks warmly to me, i tend to take the wrong impressions

2006-10-21 10:56:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am divorced with 3 kids. Attractive 43. Am so so lonely. I had one long relationship followed by 4 short futile alliances. I feel worse than ever. I want to take the advice that says I do not need a partner but I long for someone to care. The children are gorgeous but I am so soft they bully me and are misbehaved. I have no family who care or help and am constantly depressed - I feel selfish saying this but if it wasn't for the kids I would kill myself - I am so so unhappy.

2006-10-21 10:56:07 · 6 answers · asked by SCOOBYDOOBYDOO 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why is my mother so cruel. I mean she does'nt get made at me sometimes, it happens at least 3times a day, sometimes I feel that she hates me, and sometimes she wished I was'nt in her life, as far as being born. But never do I thin of commiting suicide, most of the time I just want to get away from her, and move away, if only my grandmother were living she'll help me deal with it.

2006-10-21 10:55:10 · 12 answers · asked by taniqua j 1 in Family

that a guy has needs that is our right to fool around every once in awhile to get our rocks off and when we get back to your place not get kicked in the crotch or finger nails stuff. all the yelling cause I got a little nookie on the side

2006-10-21 10:54:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-21 10:54:05 · 6 answers · asked by jay s 4 in Marriage & Divorce

just wondering
yeaaahyuh.(lil jon voice)

2006-10-21 10:53:56 · 31 answers · asked by Ashley 3 in Singles & Dating

Are both happy and healthy life styles ?

2006-10-21 10:53:36 · 13 answers · asked by TALITA KUMI 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my friend r not getting along b/c she says that i am not including her. But i am, and i don't know what to do. Plz help me.

2006-10-21 10:53:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my diet is so bad, im not over weight btw but i cant eat 99% of food, and my doc today told me i will be lucky to live till im 40, i am 21 now im so confused as to what to do, ive tried eating better and ive tried being hypnotised but it wont work, i cant eat food, i worry about when i want a family, ad how i wont be able to support them and watch my kids grow up

2006-10-21 10:51:54 · 29 answers · asked by alex 3 in Other - Family & Relationships