I was in a long-term relationship from 15 to 19 with a guy I met in high school. (I am 20 now and in college.) Before that I dated 1guy. Afterwards I was in a relationship with 1 other one for 3 months and then dated 10 guys or so. (No sex...no worries.) The only guy I loved out of those was the very long-term relationship, but I knew it would not work out realistically. Plus it became very long-distance when I came to college.
I am dating 2 guys now. After all this, I feel like i'll never settle down. I'm not sure if I want to to be honest either. But when will I feel like it and when will I know for sure? (I am female.) I don't want to be dating forever, but I just don't know. Plus, I am graduating next year from college, and I hear the dating scene post-college is pretty sh*tty.
2006-10-21 11:01:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
supprising enough when you least expect it. although believe it or not alot of people meet a grocery stores
2006-10-21 11:42:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People can meet any were. It can be at the Supermarket, Gas Station, Mall etc.......There is just so many places people can meet and hit it off well and continue to see each other. it is natural to feel that you will not settle down as it is not easy to meet any one decent those days.
Lots of men and women are after sex and nothing more. Some of them raise so many ( Red Flags ) that there is no way we are having any kind of relationship. it is prudent you take your time and don't rush into any thing as an unhappy marriage or biter divorce is not any thing to take lightly. Base on what you say there seem to be no way to rekindle the relationship with your boyfriend of 4 yrs.
2006-10-21 11:18:02 · answer #2 · answered by Premio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are young, you have sometime to get your career going or continue with school. Love strikes at strange times. You don't see it coming. One of my friends met her now spouse in college. Another at the bank, one was set up by his sister. I met my guy in the personals. Don't rush. It will happen.
2006-10-21 11:14:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about leaving college cause after college you'll be working and at work you can find a lot of guys.
I say most people find their spouse at work. Other places are college and parties and through friends.
2006-10-21 11:05:01 · answer #4 · answered by Mr Business 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met my husband in high school and we've been married 16 years. When your ready to settle down, you'll know. Until then just enjoy yourself your so YOUNG!
2006-10-21 11:07:43 · answer #5 · answered by Shell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you aren't honest...9 out of 10 times it will come back to bite you. espically in a relationship because one of the most important things is trust
2006-10-21 11:04:47 · answer #6 · answered by 97cobra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people meet their spouses in a bar
2006-10-21 11:04:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing that most couples either met at work or were fixed-up by friends or relatives.
2006-10-21 11:03:39 · answer #8 · answered by Jay 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋