Family & Relationships - 21 October 2006

I was with a guy for 5 years, since freshman year in high school. we broke up recently for 8 months..and kinda were on and off..Lets just say i broke his heart already once..and I decided a couple of weeks ago that i wanted to work things out again..For some reason though I already feel like its not..I just dont feel the same way about him as i did.. Now i dont know what to do, because if i break up with him i know he willl say the same things as he did last time. which was that he will kill him self and he threatens me. I dont know what to do..I dont want to be with him, but im to scared to break up! please help

2006-10-21 11:39:24 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Which would leave the least ink on your fists!!!

Please give my question a thumbs up to show disregard to those damned liberals!!!

2006-10-21 11:39:12 · 17 answers · asked by OsamaBinBush 2 in Singles & Dating

He is so controlling and he always is a big whiny baby when i have 2 handle my business and he is always getting mad for no reason.

2006-10-21 11:38:44 · 49 answers · asked by caligurrl3634 2 in Singles & Dating

all who knows is my cousins

2006-10-21 11:38:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

all who knows is my cousins

2006-10-21 11:38:30 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there are two guys i'm not sure which one to go for they both love me
but i'm so confused i need some help
Guy 1: very sensitive ,sweet , would do anything for me, loves me more then i think anyone has but he has no drive he's always suficing his vices and dosent know how to let some of them go, he also makes me laugh, also i dont think he could protect me i love this man i dont want to push him to be something his whole life
Guy 2: makes me histaricaly laugh, loves me just as much, would do anything for me, little cuter than guy 1, not as good in bed as guy 1, has drive in his life, i went out with him before and never realy gave him a chance, he made his life better so i would want to be with him and he mentioned marrage. but i'm not ready for that yet. and not as much of a weiner as guy 1, could protect me, makes me feel safe.i could love him
on the last note i do not want to hurt guy 1 in any way and i'm kinda seeing him right now
what should i do which one should i stay with

2006-10-21 11:38:08 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-21 11:38:02 · 18 answers · asked by jazz 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi, I am currently in the midst of applying for homeowner's insurance but I have on problem, there's a hold the size of a beach ball in my roof. Is there anyway I could hide this from the inspector?

2006-10-21 11:36:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am not happy with what I got but I dont know that I can get out of it because I have tried but I keep coming back

2006-10-21 11:36:19 · 15 answers · asked by elizabeth b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-21 11:35:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why do we on here give great advice ,but in real life real life never actually follow it.Like when they say they like somebody we tell them to just tell them.When in real life we are just like that person.Nervous.I think what i'm really asking is why don't we take our own advice but will give it to others in a heartbeat

2006-10-21 11:34:56 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Whats up with casting stones....The lady doth protest too much methinks...Everybody seems suddenly so virtuous answering questions...out of touch....spouting the same old formatted moral speeches...Kinda sad really....and very unhelpful...

2006-10-21 11:34:48 · 4 answers · asked by Wicked_One 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Just to be said I don't the relationship that gave me my daughter. Her father is the love of my life and whether or not we are together for ever I will always love him.
I don't believe in regrets, it takes way to much time out of the day to dwell on them.

2006-10-21 11:33:32 · 12 answers · asked by Princess 3 in Singles & Dating

i married at 20 and i think it has helped us to grow together in our marriage.what do u think?

2006-10-21 11:31:51 · 19 answers · asked by tess 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-21 11:31:32 · 4 answers · asked by Alex 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok this is way personal i have missed my period 4 months in a row I'm not prego cuz i took the store test but i need to know is that normal? for girls to miss their periods?

2006-10-21 11:31:08 · 29 answers · asked by Jelly bean 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What do you think of a guy that can play the violin and piano: sexy and romantic or wussy and loser?
What if you're on a date with a guy and he surprises you by playing a romantic tune for you?

2006-10-21 11:30:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was separated from my husband 7 years ago but never got divorce, my new boyfriend new that. In December 2004 my boyfriend and I went to Vegas and we got married there we live in California and my exhusband lives in CA too, I file for divorce from my exhusband 2 months later (after I married my biyfriend) and the judgment for divorce came 6 moths later, Now my exhusband knows that I got married before I divorce him and he is treading me to take me to court or do something, since we separated never had a good relation with him.
Any body knows what could happend to me and my new husband if my ex take us to court. Can he put me in jail or get the custody of our kids?

2006-10-21 11:30:50 · 3 answers · asked by dka 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Alright, if you don't get this I'm okay with it and if your just in it for two points I'm alright with it but, I really do need help with this girl that has to sit with me at lunch. Her name is Lauren. All the time she acts like a B**** and she never ever stops. I am thinking about doing a little plan of revenge but, I can't think of any thing to do to her. I have no black mail on her and I have nothing on any of her exes either... so if you think you can help me go right ahead... Thanks a lot I probley will help you in the future

2006-10-21 11:30:11 · 6 answers · asked by hubbaboo 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-21 11:27:56 · 35 answers · asked by vanessa 1 in Weddings

i mean flirt but not all out. how do you do it?is there a way to flirt without acting like a s l u t ?

2006-10-21 11:27:39 · 6 answers · asked by super girl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

me and boy friend have been to gether 4 years and he is cheating. i love him .HELP

2006-10-21 11:27:36 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met my lover 1 year ago and we started using the 'love' word eg I love you, you're my love etc only a few months back. Recently, we both admitted that we are in love with each other and we love each other. That's a wonderful moment. My question is whether you, who has more experience with love than me (this is my first feeling of 'love'), is it the honeymoon period say 3 months after admitting being in love with one another or the times after when two people who are in love are experiencing life as a more secure couple?

2006-10-21 11:27:15 · 12 answers · asked by Helloyou 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have just been asked out by one of my freinds. Although i like her as a freind, i have never had any physical attraction towards her. she is a year younger than me,(this does matter as i am in comprehenive school at the moment). i have no clue why she asked me out, and she didnt even ask in person. although i do get along with her, i just cant see me and her together. i have never been in a serious relationship, so am being pressurised by my freinds to say yes for the sake of it. Should i say yes or no?

2006-10-21 11:26:39 · 24 answers · asked by mattb77 3 in Singles & Dating

I am so nice and understanding to my boyfriend. If he doesn't call I don't freak out like some girls. If he wants to take me out on a date and then doesn't show up I don't get all angry with him. He says he loves me all the time and likes to buy me presents, but I am starting to get angry at him for not showing up for our dates. Why does he have to be such a jerk?

2006-10-21 11:26:12 · 9 answers · asked by NoDoubt 1 in Singles & Dating

it was realy disturbing too

2006-10-21 11:26:05 · 13 answers · asked by i<3skaterboys 1 in Family

My ex boyfriend contacted me on msn today and I was surprised cuz we haven't spoken in 4 months. He use to say hi to me after he ended it , but he stopped that. That's why I was so surprised when he said hi today. But I don’t know why he contacted me because we only dated for one month, it was sweet and innocent (never went past kissing cuz he knows I’m saving myself for marriage) and he ended it 8 months ago, so why would he still even care?Neways guys, WHY do you so this to your ex-girlfriends? I mean you dump a girl, so why do you contact her later and ask all these nosy questions? My ex was so nosy when he said hi, asking me all these questions, especially about what I wanted to do after university. But what did he REALLY want to know? Why is my ex still curious?

I know some may say he was just saying hi to be friendly or was just curious, but WHY is he still trying to be nice or why does he still care what goes on in my life? Does he miss me & still like me or is he just noisy?

2006-10-21 11:25:25 · 14 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Singles & Dating

my friend and i have been friends for about a year now and recently she just randomly stares at me and smiles and when i ask her why shes smiling at me she says either no reason or "what i cant smile at you". so i was thinkin does this means she likes me now or is it something else what do you guys think

2006-10-21 11:24:51 · 10 answers · asked by chuy85 2 in Singles & Dating

Tall (over 6ft), dark and handsome asian male, caring and sweet. Looking for GF (age 25-40).

2006-10-21 11:24:50 · 5 answers · asked by kdr32000 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a 23 yo grad student. I have two decent friends, but both have girlfriends when it comes to friday and saturday nights. What am I supposed to do? Is it acceptable to go to a bar alone? What are my options?

2006-10-21 11:24:20 · 9 answers · asked by Ryan F 1 in Singles & Dating