My ex boyfriend contacted me on msn today and I was surprised cuz we haven't spoken in 4 months. He use to say hi to me after he ended it , but he stopped that. That's why I was so surprised when he said hi today. But I don’t know why he contacted me because we only dated for one month, it was sweet and innocent (never went past kissing cuz he knows I’m saving myself for marriage) and he ended it 8 months ago, so why would he still even care?Neways guys, WHY do you so this to your ex-girlfriends? I mean you dump a girl, so why do you contact her later and ask all these nosy questions? My ex was so nosy when he said hi, asking me all these questions, especially about what I wanted to do after university. But what did he REALLY want to know? Why is my ex still curious?
I know some may say he was just saying hi to be friendly or was just curious, but WHY is he still trying to be nice or why does he still care what goes on in my life? Does he miss me & still like me or is he just noisy?
2006-10-21 11:25:25 · 14 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you think about this a little bit ,,,,,,he did like you very much ,,,
and he thinks the world of you ,,,,,because ,,,,,you are saving
yourself for marriage and that makes a big impression on a guy,,,,
he respects you highly and he wants to know what you are doing
because he is afraid you will give yourself to someone before you
are married ,,,,respect is a close cousin to love ,,,I mean that in
symbol,,,and he is impressed with you ,,,,and he wanted more in
the relatiionship you had with him ,,,,you are on his mind ,,and
he is confused ,,,so he is nosy ,,,,so he can try and figure out
what you are all about ,,,let him keep calling or whatever ,,be
cool ,,,you are a lady who knows what you want and stick with
it ,,,,let him do the sweating about you ,,,,why does he keep
calling ,,,because he still has deep feelings for you ,,,he cannot
find the courage to be completely honest and he does not know
how to handle the situation of his continued interest ,,,now
what do you think ,,,,if you think in a logical way ,,,he still has
feelings and does not want to be in a position where the day will
come and you will not be available or so close around ,,,,,if you
love him ,,,let him prove he loves you .....just be pleasant and
not too interested if you really love him ,,,let him run his race and
if you want to be caught and fall in love then he will be a lucky
man who marries a woman who has saved her body ,,,for true
love ,,,remember ,,,your on his mind ,,,,,peace and goodness follow you ,,,,
2006-10-21 11:41:48 · answer #1 · answered by josephine s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he probably didnt have much to do. My ex boyfriend contacted me after about 2 or 3 months...apparently when his affair with the other girl ended. Like an idiot, we went back out. Then, a few months later...I decided again it wasnt for me. He continued to call for a while until I changed my number. He doesnt need to be concerned about your life, you are over. He probably does miss you, but thats human nature ya know?
I cant tell you not to get involved or talk to the guy, people warned be against it, but I still did what I wanted. So talk to him and see what he wants or just ignore him.
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2016-09-01 00:33:43 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you do this? ask people that do not know you or him why he is doing something? ask him what is up- and I just want to say I think your parents did a good job raising you- your saving yourself for marriage- that is a wonderful gift to give a husband- maybe this fella is thinking the same thing now that he has had the other?
2006-10-21 11:31:05 · answer #4 · answered by drox 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was probably just bored. I know some people that I randomly say hi to on aim, even if i haven't seen them in over a year and i wasnt their close friend or anything. Just calm down a little bit, i dont think he meant to be a stalker or anything.
2006-10-21 11:29:40 · answer #5 · answered by JIMMY j 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes a guy feels gulity for loosing his girl from loosing a good girl he know that he wont find a good girl like her anymore so he want u back just to tell u how much he miss u so if u want to give him second chance just try it
i guess he wont try to dump u anymore
i hope u find what make u feel good :)
2006-10-21 11:32:51 · answer #6 · answered by Dr.Tee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop reading too much into his "hi." He's not over thinking his actions so why should you? He just said "Hi" He wants to know what you've been up to.
2006-10-21 11:31:56 · answer #7 · answered by Inez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He thinks you're not saving yourself for marriage anymore and he wants a taste
2006-10-21 11:31:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm thinking he was just saying hi, so don't look too deep into this
you don't want to disappoint yourself, just talk to him and don't let your emotions cloud your judgement and you embarass yourself
if he wants to start something again then that would be your decision to allow it to happen
2006-10-21 11:31:48 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he just wants a friend to talk to
nothing wrong
you can also ask him for the facts
2006-10-21 11:28:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋