there are two guys i'm not sure which one to go for they both love me
but i'm so confused i need some help
Guy 1: very sensitive ,sweet , would do anything for me, loves me more then i think anyone has but he has no drive he's always suficing his vices and dosent know how to let some of them go, he also makes me laugh, also i dont think he could protect me i love this man i dont want to push him to be something his whole life
Guy 2: makes me histaricaly laugh, loves me just as much, would do anything for me, little cuter than guy 1, not as good in bed as guy 1, has drive in his life, i went out with him before and never realy gave him a chance, he made his life better so i would want to be with him and he mentioned marrage. but i'm not ready for that yet. and not as much of a weiner as guy 1, could protect me, makes me feel safe.i could love him
on the last note i do not want to hurt guy 1 in any way and i'm kinda seeing him right now
what should i do which one should i stay with
2006-10-21 11:38:08 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no band of ninjas its a personal thing i want to feel safe.
2006-10-21 11:46:48 · update #1
Who has the longest Tongue?
2006-10-21 11:40:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is a diffuclut choose and the two guys seems to be good guys u put anyone read this message in ur situation and in the same confuse situation so what u should do is to make a final test to find which one really u want
and this test is to stay away for a while and clear ur mind and see which one u will want to call first
then u choose and if u choosed the second guy make the first guy ur best friend cuz he wont be able to stay away from u it is going to hurt him but this is the only way
i hope u find the right choose:)
2006-10-21 11:49:50 · answer #2 · answered by Dr.Tee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like you personally like guy 2 better, and you just dont' wanna hurt guy 1. Make yourself happy! that's going to be the best advice someone can give you.. If your happy he's gonna be happy! What's the deal with this "could protect me" thing. I really don't understand that... Are you being stalked by a band of ninjas or somthing?
2006-10-21 11:44:49 · answer #3 · answered by travis R 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's difficult, but only you can decide. You need to go with your feelings for these two, and go out with the one you have the strongest feelings for.
You are asking other people to decide based on what kind of man they would like. Everyone is different. Choose the one who is right for you. But if you choose number 1, love him for who he is, and don't try to change him.
If you can't decide between them, then maybe neither is right for you!!
2006-10-21 11:46:30 · answer #4 · answered by Copper 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need this type of man
always trying to better himself financially and physically for her...Working extra hours(weekends) ...always keeping fit so that he always looking good for her...always trying to get a better car/house...just to let her know that he doing all this for her, and her love..going that extra bit just for her....not hold her hand or kiss her too often in-case she thinks he's too 'clingly'.. ..always clean never looking sloppy/lazy...dressed up..never walking around half-dressed.....always thinking ahead on his toes 27/7.. thats what they expect from a man....never wanting her to think any less of him...or she dating/married the wrong man
2006-10-21 11:51:26 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump them both and go out with me as i can be both of them..........
What you do is in your mind eye is your heart tells you in the end.
The one that has lived the most and is now thinking of settling down. as i was the sensitive one in my relationship, and i found that i hadn't lived my life and ended out betraying my wife. So now we are separating. So chose wisely but keep the other one on standby.......
2006-10-21 11:49:16 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U answered honey , it's guy 2, leave guy 1 gently even if u heart him , better late than never
2006-10-21 11:44:43 · answer #7 · answered by loza 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u appear to be connected more 2 guy 2 so i would shouse him but like others have said just follow ur heart not ur head
2006-10-21 11:49:17 · answer #8 · answered by xmissxrainxocampo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouild go with gut 2 As long as he does what he said but he seems like the perfact guy dont let that one go.
2006-10-21 11:47:41 · answer #9 · answered by elizabeth b 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should know already which one you really like. If you can't chhose between them then neither of them are Mr Right so keep looking!
2006-10-21 11:42:11 · answer #10 · answered by Rob S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
witch one would you like to wake up with every morning? as for the bedroom for guy 2 ther are lots of books and tell him what you like. you can sort that
2006-10-21 11:50:18 · answer #11 · answered by debbie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋