Family & Relationships - 21 October 2006

married 24 yrs seperated now hubby cheated with 21 yr old coworker and has since moved in with her..he says hes happier then he has ever been.........will it last ...and will he ever regret hurting me like he has...does he ever think of me at all anymore....its only been 6 months

2006-10-21 12:27:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-21 12:27:13 · 5 answers · asked by onlygoodman2000 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-21 12:26:49 · 13 answers · asked by mike 1 in Singles & Dating

I am single right now and I really love older Irish men but now I think I might be gay or something cause I really like to look at woman all of the time.older women that is. Is it ok to have intercourse with both men and women? Or does that make me gay or something?

2006-10-21 12:26:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

should i approach them to see if theyd accept a 3some or will i invite trouble? my bf isnt jealous acting and i can tell my bf's bro likes me too. But I get shy just thinking of it, and back down before almost attempting it a few times. But its a big fantasy . omg. advice?

2006-10-21 12:26:25 · 9 answers · asked by Billy Bob Dingleberry 1 in Singles & Dating

Try to keep this short. She is a real cow. She has twin sons (me married to one of them) and they are the sweetest boys ever, aged 30. She also has a daughter aged 19. Basically she is a ponse and has borrowed £££ of of one of the boys. (not my one) & never pays it back.We went to Austria and got married and they didn't bother going and all they got him was a photo album.- no help/interest. The boys never get birthday or xmas presents. She never visits and we only live 6 mile away,never makes a cup of tea when we go round. It is not me. She treats her boys both like this. But the daughter gets everything and she lets her borrow money off of the boys as well and never pays it back - she is a real spoiled cow. The boys never say anything they are used to this treatment, but it does my head in. It was my 30th a few months ago and she never even got me a card. She is so nasty - yet she will buy pressies for people she hardly knows (it makes her look good) any ideas???

2006-10-21 12:26:01 · 35 answers · asked by Katie G 3 in Family

I find it very troubling that so many women are asking questions like...How do I get a guy to notice me? What can I do to get a shy man to ask me out? He cheated should I leave?

The problem is so many women suffer from low self esteem. If a man likes a woman he'll ask her out period. There's nothing a woman can do to get a man to notice her. A man will take notice to a woman that takes care of herself. He'll notice a woman who has her own interest outside of him. Calling a man is not okay. Flirting with a man only makes a woman seem easy. Men like challenges and when a woman chases a man she is no longer a challenge.

Why ask a man out? You'll take the risk of getting rejected. Rejection doesn't feel good. Self esteem is hard to get back so hold on to your self-esteem.

2006-10-21 12:25:41 · 12 answers · asked by Real Voice 2 in Singles & Dating

I've known (or at least I thought) my girlfriend for eight months now. We started to date six months ago, and eventually became boyfriend and girlfriend. Everything was going well, when suddenly she disappeared. Never answer her phone nor returned calls. I visited her mother's place, but she told me she found a new place to live close by. It turns out that she went back with her exboyfriend...

What should I do? Pay them a visit? Keep calling? Our just dissapear like she wants me to? I just don't want to do anything that might hurt her even though she left me like when one forgets a thing in a public place :(

Thanks for reading.
Fire in the Sky~

2006-10-21 12:24:43 · 21 answers · asked by Jorm 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

my friend is only going out with this guy b/c he wont stop bothering her about it. he asked her out 5 times b4 she said yes. and now i feel really bad for her because i dont like him either.

2006-10-21 12:22:18 · 15 answers · asked by hi 2 in Singles & Dating

...take someone back if that person cheated? By cheated, that can cover: sex, kissing, oral, etc.. Would you ever believe them again? Would or do you believe that they would be faithful and sincere? ...and why? How could they make it up to you?

2006-10-21 12:22:06 · 9 answers · asked by coolguy 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-21 12:21:56 · 5 answers · asked by qtpie16707 3 in Singles & Dating

He is unmarried and we are very good friends since we were kids. We always do things together. Like movies or other leasure activities. And we enjoy each others company a lot. We both feel more attracted lately.

2006-10-21 12:21:49 · 28 answers · asked by jennifer j 1 in Singles & Dating

I just don't trust her anymore. Love her to death, but the trust is lost. Should I break up, if so, how should I do it?

2006-10-21 12:21:44 · 4 answers · asked by Homam 1 in Singles & Dating

she says she doesnt do drugs or drink but she feels high or buzz sometimes

2006-10-21 12:21:37 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

please answer from your heart

2006-10-21 12:21:30 · 2 answers · asked by Wendy 1 in Singles & Dating

I havent told anybody about this but last weekend my brother had a party at his house. His wife and I are really good friends. We were all drinking and she told me that she wanted to show me a new dress that she bought. When we went into the bedroom she kissed me and I really liked it. Then she threw me on the bed ( i had a skirt on that night) and she started to have fun with me. I didnt think that I would like it but it really felt good. Then my brother came in and asked us what was going on. She told him to join and he did. Now I have had sex with my brother and his wife. They want to do it again but I am not sure what to do. Pleeze help..

2006-10-21 12:20:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my ex-bf told me he still likes me and i still like him and last night at a football game he started singing "If god made u he must really love me" should i get back together with him or get over him?

2006-10-21 12:20:34 · 3 answers · asked by squeakers579 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it the butt, the smile, shoulders, chest, arms ,legs, hair (facial or otherwise), the "Bulge", or something boring like humor, intellect, and personality?

2006-10-21 12:20:15 · 8 answers · asked by Jim C 5 in Singles & Dating

Hey ladies, here's a few things I'm really curious about:

1. Do you often not show any outward interest in guys that you are actually very interested in? If so, is there any way a guy can tell?

2. How much does size really matter?

3. How tired do you get of guys staring at your boobs, or do you usually just find it flattering? I'm convinced they're two big reasons why we guys have alot of trouble hearing what you are trying to tell us all the time!

2006-10-21 12:20:03 · 6 answers · asked by Docta Jones 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-21 12:19:33 · 2 answers · asked by SWM 38 _4_ YOUNG GF 5 in Friends

i am 15 and i like this guy and he is kinda shy, i catch him staring at me from the cornor of my eye when i look he smiles at me/waves/ or he comes over 2 tlk 2 me but it takes him a while then he tries 2 keep the conversation going he play fights w/ me picks on me a lil and i think he likes me but am not tottaly sure can sum1 help? i no the only true way 2 no is 2 ask him but i dont wanna or it might scare him away or sumthin

2006-10-21 12:19:21 · 2 answers · asked by ♥BitterSweet♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

what does it means when an ex tells you that he will 'miss you forever'?

2006-10-21 12:19:16 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

The girl is 34yrs old,Ive known her for a while,and weve been together sexually before,but when i bring up anything about us having a relationship she backs off and says she just wants to be friends.So why does she call me practally all day long?

2006-10-21 12:18:14 · 2 answers · asked by tyler d 1 in Singles & Dating

a MAN not a BOY tells you he still cares for you? My husband and I are seperated and have been for a little over six months...and he keeps telling me that he still cares for me. We have two small children together and he is a great dad to them. I was just wondering what he meant when he says he still cares for me and about me. Please no smart answers, I'm being serious here. I just want to know what he means by saying it. I know he has a girlfriend and he's happy with his new life...but does him caring for me give me reson to hope that he might come back to me? I don't want to hope falsely I just want to understand more about what he means.

2006-10-21 12:17:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Please has anyone out there, who is born again, spirit filled, ever fallen for a brother that came saying, God told him he was to marry that particular sister in question. He might have gotten this revelation through dreams, prophesies or a word of knowledge. Please is there any truth in this act of or are some fraudulent born-again brethren just using it to take advantage of the other involved? Please I need clarifications about this Holy ghost led/induced kind of marriage..

2006-10-21 12:16:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

All my best firends are guys. I have three friends that are girls. All my other friends are guys. Is that weird that I get along with the guys more and that they are the ones who I run to when I need a friend. What do you think?

2006-10-21 12:16:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I liked my mum more, I think. xxx

2006-10-21 12:16:33 · 36 answers · asked by tulip 4 in Family

2006-10-21 12:16:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-21 12:16:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friend seen my question and he was really happy about it
he told me that they both had eyes on me and would like for me to join them for a threesome. I have known him for years and he said that he was attracted to me and his wife was all for it
She wants him and i going down on each and kiss/hug. She would then join us. Honesty i would like to do it as they are bothsweet people. Told him that i would think it over. I amsturbated last nite thinking about him and i would really enjoy making love to him. do you think that we should have a threesome. Please be serious thanks all

2006-10-21 12:16:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating