married 24 yrs seperated now hubby cheated with 21 yr old coworker and has since moved in with her..he says hes happier then he has ever been.........will it last ...and will he ever regret hurting me like he has...does he ever think of me at all anymore....its only been 6 months
2006-10-21 12:27:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i don't think so, his own self-centerness is involved. sorry to hear about your bad luck but now maybe you can find a true happiness. and not live on false pretense's.
2006-10-21 12:30:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes like a little kid with a new toy. Once the novelty wears off, who knows what will happen. You are probably on his mind but only as his wife and what to do with you and not what you would be hoping at this point. You just have to figure out yourself if you could still live with him if he did come back with all of this now and the thought of it possibly happening again or would you be better off without him and start moving on and sue him for divorce and everything youre legally entitled to. That surely would get him to always remember you and what he really lost. Good luck
2006-10-21 19:34:27 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop, wasting your time on him, I will tell you as soon as you get your life, to start to go in another direction, then he is going to mess with your head. Move on with your life, Forget about him, If a man does not want you, why would you be thinking about him. Take care of yourself, do things that you could never do before, take a cruise, and enjoy yourself!
2006-10-21 19:58:23 · answer #3 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Statistically, 3% of relationships that start as an affair turn out to be long lasting marriage. Sit back and wait to watch him be miserable when he realizes he left a good woman for a twit. He'll eventually pull his head out of his butt.
2006-10-21 20:20:25 · answer #4 · answered by Shane 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my ex did the same to me, never showed one ounce of remorse,he never expressed that he had hurt me.this is who he is, this is his character, and as hard as it is to move on i did it, and i feel i made the right choice about it, i would have rather moved on than waited for him to come back, when he chose her in the first place over me. why keep hurting, and hoping for something that may never be. you have no control over others,and sure it hurts to be cheated on and abandoned and the other person we entrusted our life to betrays us in such an unkind way. let her have him, and move on and be glad someone else has the cheater.
2006-10-21 19:38:59 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who knows that for sure. Find yourself a date, and move on with your life. Have fun! He sure is! Don't take him back even if he begs. He's damaged goods now anyway.
2006-10-21 19:30:21 · answer #6 · answered by Caelan's mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you care if it lasts? You've been sepreated for 6 months...I suggest you file for divorce and move on with your life.
2006-10-21 20:55:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope he can understand the reality very soon, but I dont think.
Anyway it is his life and he made his biggest mistake in his life, but it is his own, what matters you???
YOU DONT THINK OF HIMMM!!!!!! NEVER
BUILD YOUR OWN LIFE! but dont make the same mistake, go straight on your own way, not on his way! FORGET HIM!!!
2006-10-21 19:51:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
6 months....i would think by now y'd know it is over...I am surprised u even want him back after all....move on with your life...wish u luck..
2006-10-21 19:32:27 · answer #9 · answered by seek_fulfill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
will he regret it????
Lets hope so when Ms Young thing gets her fill of Mr Old Fart.....
2006-10-21 19:33:48 · answer #10 · answered by Blondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋