Please has anyone out there, who is born again, spirit filled, ever fallen for a brother that came saying, God told him he was to marry that particular sister in question. He might have gotten this revelation through dreams, prophesies or a word of knowledge. Please is there any truth in this act of or are some fraudulent born-again brethren just using it to take advantage of the other involved? Please I need clarifications about this Holy ghost led/induced kind of marriage..
2006-10-21 12:16:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Be careful, there are a lot of men out there who do things "in the name of God" only to get you to do what they want you to do. Next thing you know he'll be telling you that God wants him to marry another woman also.
I don't think God would have the sister marry a man she wasn't ready to, or didn't want to marry.
2006-10-21 12:26:13 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all not even Joseph believed Mary when she told him that God had spoker to her, he only believed when the spirit visited him individually. If you truly love this person then first and foremost there must trust, and if you are having to ask this question and your suitor's intentions then trust might just be missing. No matter if its a male, female, heathen or born again Christian a line is a line, don't fall for something or someone just because they used God in their pitch.
2006-10-21 19:25:58 · answer #2 · answered by sadiaelena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is from God, it will be perfect and not forced. Think of the first words Adam had for Eve, he was moved into poetry. He claimed her and said beautiful words. So important in fact, it was recited for millenia until it was written. If you think about how much dialog was written down and how much hard fact was written in the old testament, it's pretty startling to think that Adam's dialog was so important. But it is, wooing a woman with words is essential.
But don't let him blindfold you, because even the devil uses the bible out of context according to his evil schemes.
2006-10-21 19:28:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Holy Spirit does not rape, plunder, abuse, or coerce. ANY God ordained marriage will be done with tenderness and understanding. Pity this person and pray for them as they are blaspheming the Holy Spirit.
The Born again, pentecostal, Rev. Dr.
2006-10-21 19:28:14 · answer #4 · answered by Joe Cool 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ask the person to marry you dimwit.
Why do all of you make things so complicated? You are lustful and want to marry to have sex, but she or he doesn't have to know.
2006-10-21 19:19:30 · answer #5 · answered by Laughing Libra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋