my friend is only going out with this guy b/c he wont stop bothering her about it. he asked her out 5 times b4 she said yes. and now i feel really bad for her because i dont like him either.
2006-10-21 12:22:18 · 15 answers · asked by hi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She should have told him the fifth time, "Look, what do I have to say to convince you that I don't want to go out with you?" If she really doesn't like this guy, which I suspect she does, she should just flat-out dump him. She shouldn't bother to sugarcoat it.
2006-10-21 13:20:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's gotta be done like ripping off a band-aid. Do it quick and fast. Sure it will sting but at least it will be over with quickly.
Your friend should have stuck to her guns and kept saying no. If he can bully her into going out with him then imagine what else will he eventually get her to do?
As far as him bothering her, she should have threatened to file harrassment charges against him if he didn't leave her alone.
She should just tell him that she gave going out with him a shot and it's not working out. Good luck to your friend and stay safe. This guy sounds kind of possessive.
2006-10-21 19:31:28 · answer #2 · answered by NyteWing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of methods can be followed:
1. Don't show up to him.
2. Backbite him (if you have the guts to).
3. Tell him straight to the point - "I don't like you anymore."
But the best method is:
1. Pray about it. Ask what God's will is for you. There might be a better person He wants for you.
I hope this would help.
2006-10-21 19:28:38 · answer #3 · answered by Jobs_141 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It shouldn't be a challenge for her, she could just be honest and remind him about how many times he asked her out before she said yes, then tell him she just said yes to see what it was like and she didn't like it. But hey at least she gave him a try!
2006-10-21 19:26:15 · answer #4 · answered by BLANK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're in 7th grade. Grow up. Don't go out with someone just to lead them on it only hurts the other person more. Obviously both you and your friend have nothing better to do.
2006-10-21 19:27:06 · answer #5 · answered by shortskirtmakeitwork 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should just tell him how she feels about him and just break it off because she does not have to be with this boy if she feels this way about him.Tell him to just leave her alone and stop bothering her because she does not feel the same way about him as he does about her
2006-10-21 19:26:14 · answer #6 · answered by <<SEXY MOMMA>> 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flat out tell him, "hey you are an annoying little **** and i only went out with you in the first place cuz you wouldn't stop pestering the heck outta me. NOW leave me alone."
2006-10-21 19:26:19 · answer #7 · answered by sesamenc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus tell him its not working out and that you guys were better as friends and he still bothers you about going out with him tell him that you cant because you have no feelings for him
2006-10-21 19:25:35 · answer #8 · answered by SmallTownMami 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she hates him then its not a big deal, she can text him and tell him but hey if you hate him too then you should tell him for her, thats what friends are for!! enjoy lol
2006-10-21 19:26:37 · answer #9 · answered by cheryl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok tell your friend not to give him hope anymore and tell him in a nice way that she doesnt want to get serious and she just wants to be friends.
2006-10-21 19:26:27 · answer #10 · answered by jojo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋