I am single right now and I really love older Irish men but now I think I might be gay or something cause I really like to look at woman all of the time.older women that is. Is it ok to have intercourse with both men and women? Or does that make me gay or something?
2006-10-21 12:26:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you're ok on this...don't label yourself. other's will do enough of that for you.
2006-10-21 12:37:53 · answer #1 · answered by kendra bryn 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You would be considered bi-sexual, meaning you like both sexes. I don't think you should be going around and being promiscuous, and having many sexual partners. You may transfer disease that way. There is something in your question that catches my attention, though. In either men or women you find attactive, you say they're older. You might try and talk to someone you trust about this, because it seems to me unusual to find attraction in only older people. There is something else there, I think. Dont rush into anything sexual until you can build more confidence with your feelings and what you are okay? Youll be safer that way.
2006-10-21 19:38:40 · answer #2 · answered by xenypoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looking at attractive women doesn't make you gay. Having sex one or two times with women doesn't make you gay. Wanting to have sex with women doesn't make you gay. If one DOES have sex with both men and women on a regular basis, that makes them bisexual. Maybe you need to grow up a little bit before you have sex with anyone since you don't seem to understand sexuallity/life choices at all.
2006-10-21 19:37:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well good luck having intercourse with another woman. I think one of you would have to be a man for that to happen. I am guessing you had something happen in your past and might need some counseling. These are not normal feeling for a girl.
2006-10-21 19:30:44 · answer #4 · answered by malisimo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Admiring women and wanting to jump their bones is 2 totally different things, you can find women sexy/attractive and NOT be "bi-sexual". And I think that if you want to have sex with women go for it but you wouldn't be gay, you'll be bi! Remember you only live once, have fun living it!!!!
2006-10-21 19:34:19 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ Brat ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to have a relationship with both men, and woman, I would have to say that you are Bi-Sexual... this isn't a bad thing at all...
I am a man, and am starting a relationship with a woman that is bi... you just need to make sure to talk to your partner, and tell him/her how you feel, that you're bi, and if you plan to continue to see other people...
That's my thoughts...
--James
2006-10-21 19:30:44 · answer #6 · answered by Junior1544 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course its ok, and you get the best of both worlds. you also might want to think about how you look at women. like, do they turn you on? do you fantasize about them? or do you just think they are pretty, or like their clothes/hair/etc? this can help you decide if you just admire them, or genuinely want them. these are all questions i've asked myself along the way....
try it out, see if you like it. (i think it's fabulous) and don't worry about lables like gay or straight or bi. just like who you like, and everyone else be dam*ed!
2006-10-21 19:33:18 · answer #7 · answered by jumpoutjane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no that makes u bi and that is OK as long as u still like men
2006-10-21 19:30:13 · answer #8 · answered by william s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would make you bi-sexual and if that is what you like then go for it...
2006-10-21 19:28:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋