Family & Relationships - 21 October 2006

i lyed to my partner today i told him i lost twenty quid but i didnt i lent it to my sister i could not tell him he would hit the roof do you think it ok to tell little white liees or do you think i should tell him

2006-10-21 12:51:24 · 41 answers · asked by lisa h 2 in Family

what are your opinions of me boys n girls?

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2006-10-21 12:51:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i been seen dis man he is marryed his 24 and im a teen, he new me since b4 he got marryed but i never really liked him and he was always trynna talk to me after i went ona trip and came back he was marryed and at first i did not care den i saw him at the mall with the other homies and he asked 4 my # not thinking anything bad i gave him my # we started to talk his realationship was going all wrong and my was to. time went by and me and him started geting closer, to the point he never spend time with jazmin(his wife) he takes me to skoo evrymorninig sometimes i ditch with him and go to work with him then when hes at work i get outa skoo and go straight to his job he gets out and we go eat or to the movies his wife is pregnant and recently started liveing with her mom again cuz she knows they are over she knows me and him see each other and she blames me 4 their split they devorce papers are going through.he is not plaing me and i dont expect him to b with me 4eva im just plaing games

2006-10-21 12:50:43 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was wondering if it's okay to ask a girls friends about stuff, so that you can find out more about them? i really like this girl, and i really can't handle rejection...so is this a good way to go?

2006-10-21 12:50:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Not fake/artificially dyed

2006-10-21 12:48:23 · 7 answers · asked by Black 4 in Singles & Dating

What did you do for the special person in your life????

2006-10-21 12:47:04 · 2 answers · asked by })i({ J and D's Momma })i({ 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am not a computer person- I can barely email- anyway- I went on myspace for the first time the other night just to see what it was and since the only thing I know about it is younger people go there to chat- well I put in my ex boyfriends sons name just for fun-he is in his teen years now- not expecting anything after 12 years of not hearing from him or his dad- and wow- there he was- grown up and beautiful- and then I found his dad's profile--and he is single!!! I was engaged to this man and helped him raise his son who I love- and still dream about-but I left after 4 years together because his dad discovered hard drugs and his family and I couldn't help him though we tried- so now- here he is- older, clean, a job, loves his son and painting, etc etc and single- I want to talk to him but I am scared to death- what if we have both changed too much? What if he wouldn't like me now? This was the real deal- first love- great love-once in a lifetime-yes I am single still- what to do?

2006-10-21 12:47:02 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-21 12:43:37 · 47 answers · asked by lifessuckssomuch 2 in Singles & Dating

Im trying to pick flowers for my wedding adn can't seem to pick a combination i feel is right for "Us"

we would like to work with warm colors (i.e Soft reds, oranges, yellows)

What is your favorite flower combination?

2006-10-21 12:42:30 · 24 answers · asked by Andrew G 1 in Weddings

My ex & my actual bf are best friends..
I kinda did it cause I wanted to make my ex jealous
And succeded.. but do you think it's okay? Cause he wanted us 2 break up and he cheated on me..

2006-10-21 12:42:11 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a guy you have never met walks up to you on the street and asks for your phone number are you likely to say yes and give it to him if you are attracted to him or would you feel strange doing so and tell him no. if you said no how would you tell him?

2006-10-21 12:41:53 · 7 answers · asked by malisimo 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-21 12:40:18 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I ordered a gift to be delivered on sweetest day and he got it 2 days ago. Well he liked it very much and said he appreciated it but not to waste money on him becuz he thought it was expensive which it wasnt it , it was under $100. I havent heard from him since then at all. Not a call or email...nothing. Whats up with that?

2006-10-21 12:40:14 · 7 answers · asked by melissa 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my family is real nice and all but i would be more than happy just seeing them during thanks giving and not have to deal with them for the rest of the year. to me its more of an inconvience when i could be dealing with my life but i am oftin guilt triped in to going to family reyunions, and any other gathersing every other month, when i really dont want too.

2006-10-21 12:39:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

How would i find them again.otherwise my told me she will divorce me.

2006-10-21 12:39:02 · 7 answers · asked by dilemma 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husbands job is for a sport club for men and women. I'm not bothered by the womens dept. Its the men that I'm worried about, these are the group of men who goes to strip bars and expats who have nothing else in mind but go out on weekends and drink and hook up with cheap women (im stating the obvious). He keeps on telling me its part of his job, but I don't see the point in him keeping the job when in fact he can get a better one( his IQ as what he claims is 164), but I dont see where he uses it. He wants me to join the sport, but how can I when I barely have time for myself because I have my kids. I cant even afford a schedule just for a pedicure. He is barely home and when you try to talk to him about staying for awhile just for family time he says he cant. Then he expects me to give in everytime he wants sex? I don't know for other women, but it just doesnt work that way. I dont even know how much he gets during payday. He doesnt even tell me, What should i do?should i move out?

2006-10-21 12:38:11 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If you had to choose from the three?

2006-10-21 12:37:39 · 22 answers · asked by The boy from London 6 in Singles & Dating

Hey ladies, just was wondering what you value in a guy you'd date in this age group and in what order. Do you value intelligence, honesty, sesitivity, looks, career, money, family, friends, dress, confidence, openness, kindness, and communication skills. Thanks!

2006-10-21 12:35:54 · 13 answers · asked by MichiganFan 1 in Singles & Dating

Was on call tonight, had to go in to work, just got home and my husband is cooking me steak. He also did all the housework before a visit from the landlord. Am I the luckiest lady or what?

2006-10-21 12:34:45 · 35 answers · asked by esmequeenoftheworld 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married for 3 painful years to someone I have grown to dislike very, VERY much. I'm going to leave her in the next couple of months....Shall I spring it on her and move out quickly or expect her to go our seperate ways in peace

2006-10-21 12:31:49 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok this boy is mean to me one minute and calls me black and makes fun of me then the next minute hes all nice to me and apologizes and asks me out i dont like him that way so i said no and now hes mean to me all the time wtfs up?

im not black and i have nothing against black people but im not white either im portugese, swedish, american indian, german, philipino, and everything pretty much except african american. but yet my skin is tan and he calls me black. how can i get him to stop? not talking to him dosent work cuz he keeps buggin me.

HES SO EFFING ANNOYING! PLUS HE LIVES ACROSS THE STREET FROM ME!!!!!

2006-10-21 12:31:47 · 3 answers · asked by *BR0WN EYESz <3 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

( I am from Greece )

2006-10-21 12:30:57 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't wanna sound perverted or anything. Buut my gf and I had sex for the first tiime a few months ago, and she didn't blled at all. I also was under the assumptions that virgins bleed duing their first time, so im not sure if that was true or not. She said she was, and i have no reason to doubt her at all, but i just wanna noe if it true.

2006-10-21 12:30:52 · 14 answers · asked by freefalling_00 2 in Singles & Dating

I feel so lucky to have such a wonderful husband, I am very blessed. The only thing is that he says that I don't show him appreciation. He feels like I don't give enough in the relationship (to him that is) or "care" about his needs. I guess I have been so wrapped up with raising our 4 year old son and now our new baby girl that I have put my husband and even myself on the lower level of priorities. What are some little things that I can do to show him I care and that I still desire him? Thanks! :)

2006-10-21 12:30:38 · 12 answers · asked by Lala Girl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-21 12:30:29 · 27 answers · asked by bear 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i dont mean to be concided or something like that, but sometimes i see my self in the mirror and i see that i dont look so bad but when i go out or something girls tell me am ungly. why is that?
i have acne can it be because of that , that girls say am ungly? what do you think....

p.s i dont know i spell concided wrong but you get the point.

2006-10-21 12:29:42 · 11 answers · asked by soccerdude 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi...I have been reading about evolutionary biology recently and begun to wonder how it applies in the real world. Question for women--what would you think about a hypothetical good-looking, somewhat successful 50-year old man who has never been married? Would that raise red flags for you that he has never been married? What if he says he has been in long term relationships previously but did not believe in the legal requirements of marriage? Would that change your mind and put you at ease to be in a relationship with him?

Just wondering (and no, I am not a 50 year old man!!)

Please include your AGE in your response. Thanks!

2006-10-21 12:29:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

question about closeness and flirting....................


in general, if a girl asks to do an activity or something that requires physical contact for a period of time, is she flirting? Like is she asks to give me a manicure, or asks me to draw a pic on her arm. Or is it nothing?
I am 15. So is she.

She also says she doesn't like being touched and isn't the "hugging-type", but she never seems to mind with me.

2006-10-21 12:28:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-21 12:28:03 · 10 answers · asked by Ryudikia 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to move to a new state with my kids, with fathers knowledge. Can I file temporary custody once there to protect myself or do I have to do it before I leave. Husband and I decided to try and live seperately as a trial. But I am not 100 sure he won't try to pull something after I am gone. we are not filiing divorce at this time.

2006-10-21 12:27:52 · 9 answers · asked by Lynn 3 in Marriage & Divorce