I was wondering if it's okay to ask a girls friends about stuff, so that you can find out more about them? i really like this girl, and i really can't handle rejection...so is this a good way to go?
2006-10-21 12:50:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is ok, but let me offer a word about that rejection thing. Get used to it. Rejection is part of life. It is part of love because through it you finally find the right person for you. So don't wear your heart on your sleeve. Get to know this girl for who she is, enjoy every minute of that, but if she decides to move on, accept that as another bend in the road you will be traveling for a while until you find your home.
2006-10-21 12:53:19 · answer #1 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If you're waiting for the shoe to drop, you'll find that on your own without the help of her friends. If you want to know something, ask her. Just because you don't get the answer you want, doesn't mean that isn't the way she really feels. If you can't be honest with her about wanting to know more about her, then don't move too fast in this relationship.
2006-10-21 19:55:17 · answer #2 · answered by momofsix 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,,,that seems like the best way to find out about her and if she doesn't mind telling you then there you go...you get all the info you need...or if that isn't enough ask her friends about her...
2006-10-21 19:53:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well be careful b/c sometimes the friend is messed up and will tell u everything wrong so that you can make a fool of yourself...i think that its better if you approach her and tell her, "hi my name is (fil in the blank) i would like to get to know you better would you like to go out for coffee or something to eat. i just want to get to know you better." this way you don't seem like a creep and you are polite without making her think bad of you. good luck
2006-10-21 19:56:53 · answer #4 · answered by proudmommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure it's a good way to go,if you use it the right way. the best answer you can get will come out from your crushes mouth. but since you seem shy about it, then for now, yeah, ask her friend.
2006-10-21 19:55:11 · answer #5 · answered by Raine[: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's tricky to know how else you would go. the essence of getting to know someone is surely to exchange questions and answers, to notice and develop understanding through their reactions to these and to events in process etc......
2006-10-21 19:55:43 · answer #6 · answered by pol 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG No way u shouldnt do that! wut r u crazy?!! (JK!) i think thats pretty cool 4 u 2 think of that. most guys i no rnt like that. i really think u should b cuz that shows that uve dun ur research & ur the gr8est. (dont go 2 far though!) ;)
2006-10-21 19:54:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is this a girl 2 girl sex wish?
2006-10-21 19:53:41 · answer #8 · answered by gunnerbstrong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-10-21 19:53:00 · answer #9 · answered by hopeless 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well be careful with that cuz then the friend might think you like HER instead of her friend...
2006-10-21 19:52:03 · answer #10 · answered by blondambition 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋