i been seen dis man he is marryed his 24 and im a teen, he new me since b4 he got marryed but i never really liked him and he was always trynna talk to me after i went ona trip and came back he was marryed and at first i did not care den i saw him at the mall with the other homies and he asked 4 my # not thinking anything bad i gave him my # we started to talk his realationship was going all wrong and my was to. time went by and me and him started geting closer, to the point he never spend time with jazmin(his wife) he takes me to skoo evrymorninig sometimes i ditch with him and go to work with him then when hes at work i get outa skoo and go straight to his job he gets out and we go eat or to the movies his wife is pregnant and recently started liveing with her mom again cuz she knows they are over she knows me and him see each other and she blames me 4 their split they devorce papers are going through.he is not plaing me and i dont expect him to b with me 4eva im just plaing games
2006-10-21 12:50:43 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You sound like a skank to me. :whoknows:
2006-10-21 12:53:46 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow ,your around 10 years of age and in a gang..they are starting to recruit a little early these days aren't they. so basically your seeing a married petafile thats just great dumb@*** kids and isnt this about the 3rd ebonics question you've left on here about the same guy? not to mention playing games with a married man is never a good idea....date a petafile and end up pregnant im sure your child will have more knowledge when its first born then you will ever have
2006-10-22 00:57:13 · answer #2 · answered by butterfly22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no clue the damage you are causing. What gives you the right to even think about pursuing a married man? Are you that desperate you will settle for sloppy seconds. From the looks of things you probably shouldn't be ditching, you need all the school you can get.
2006-10-21 20:01:43 · answer #3 · answered by Gettcha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
for one she is pregnant and if he was at the mall and got your number while he was married then HE IS THE PROBLEM. Not her. You should feel so bad for even giving him your number knowing he was married. you are young and new to him and when he gets bored with you eh will find someone to replace you. one day when u are "tired" of playing gmaes and find the guy who u really love, just remember what goes around comes around. do u want to be the one married , pregnant and when u love someone like she loves him you get hurt like that and have some teen girl messing with you man???think about it...karma is a *****
2006-10-21 20:00:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you were on the other end of this and u were the wife how would you feel about the other woman than? ofcourse you are partly to blame, if it weren't for your presence in their marriage he might have been willing to work out the problems. what goes around comes around, karma that finds you when you owe a debt for a wrong.one day you will be the wife and someone else will be in the place you are in now, and than you will know what you did to his wife.
2006-10-21 20:06:45 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good and interesting story!
And the Moral is: The Same Fate is awaiting U as of His Leagal Wife at present.
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I can write a nice story now. Let me try it if you have time enough to read then continue...
Harry is a married man. His wife is totally devoted to him. A girl works with him in his office. They often spend nice time together at cafes or restaurants.
Well, he says to her: "I can leave my wife for you right now."
She think he loves her very much. What else can she think when she is in her blooming age? Well, she spends with him most of her time and now she gets pregnant with him!
He is still assuring her that he will soon divorce his wife and marry her and their romance continues for some good time still.
Well, now Mr. Harry Smart leaves the place because he has got some transfer and now he will be working in some other state. He goes without telling this girl who is now pregnant. Well, when Mr. Harry goes to his new office he is welcome by a girl and she gets attracred towards him!
Love @ First Sight!
Mr. Harry is so lucky that he enjoys having a nice and romantic time with his new secratary. When they are taking lunch together, Mr, Harry says: "I can leave my wife for you right now."
Wow! He can leave his wife for me? He truly loves me! Ok, Harry, I will wait for you at my home tonight....!
Good luck to Harry!
Well, if Harry can leave his wife for his assistant then he can leave his asistant for his new secratary also very easily!
Well, now you can imagine where will you be?
Waiting for this man to come and give his name to your baby?
Or to divorce his wife and then sign some paper that he will never leave you?
Didn't he take the vows of "never leaving" her when they got married?
If he can break those Pious Vows then what GOOD can you expect from him for you?
Won't some Papers will do with the Relationship between you and him if he gets some other girl or woman in future?
Please, think of the woman who left everything for this Bastard Man thinking that he would love her and would never leave her!
If you are still not finding yourself in consent with me then I WISH YOU ALL THE WORST! And Please do come back here after some months or years and Write about your Relationship with him!
Perhaps some other girl will be asking the same question for this man as you have done now!
2006-10-21 20:12:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
apparently, you really are a child, since #1 you cant spell even slang words right, and #2 you are playin him, and ruining the lives of not one, not two but three people. (the baby) my opinion, You are a sorry *** little girl who needs to spend more time in school and learn at least the english language, and less time sleeping around with other peoples husbands!!!!!
2006-10-21 20:29:54 · answer #7 · answered by Lees' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop screwing around with a married man... karma's going to get you one of these days. Where are your "games" going to get you when he gets you pregnant and leaves you to fend for yourself while he's off finding a new little tart?
Oh.. and stop skipping school... you obviously need all the classroom time you can get with THAT kind of spelling and grammar.
2006-10-21 20:20:44 · answer #8 · answered by Suzuki_Mouse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are just playing games and you broke up a marriage and now a child will not have it's parents together because you are playing games....you give women a bad name! You should back off and tell him to go back to his wife and child!!!!
2006-10-21 19:54:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anna F 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to quit skipping school for one thing. It really shows in this question. As for playing game.......you need to grow up and leave that man be. Girls like you give real women a bad name. He needs to take responsibility for his actions and so do you.
2006-10-21 20:23:41 · answer #10 · answered by Justwondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry him, and I guarantee divorce. Tell him if he divorces the girl he's divorcing because of you, you won't marry him. Otherwise, he'll probably either be a really crappy husband or divorce you for a different girl.
2006-10-21 19:54:43 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋