My ex & my actual bf are best friends..
I kinda did it cause I wanted to make my ex jealous
And succeded.. but do you think it's okay? Cause he wanted us 2 break up and he cheated on me..
2006-10-21 12:42:11 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My ex & my actual bf are best friends..
I kinda did it cause I wanted to make my ex jealous
And succeded.. but do you think it's okay? Cause he wanted us 2 break up and he cheated on me..
Updated: My new b/f really treats me better and I love him..
I'm not just being mean, I don't want that
btw you guys rock with my mojo jojo ;)
2006-10-21 12:58:12 · update #1
im sorry to tell you, but honestly, in my opinion it is not okey,
vengeance or making him jealous is not proper, and at this point, whats the difference between you and him? you are also "in a way" cheating, but this time, with your new bf, because the kiss is not geniune, you have an intention of making your ex jealous....
on the other hand, if you and your new bf love each other strong enough, its most likely to prosper no matter what the hassles are...
2006-10-21 12:47:52 · answer #1 · answered by sheikaella 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well my original answer was going to be; as long as you aren't doing it to make your ex jealous but you kinda blew that out of the water when you said that you kinda did it to make him jealous.
What I would like to know is are you only dating your ex's best friend to make him jealous? If so, then using the best friend is wrong and casts you in a negative light. You could date any guy and make your ex jealous - why the best friend?
My answer is yes it's okay to kiss your new boyfriend in front of your ex ONLY if there isn't an ulterior motive aka hidden agenda. Your ex cheated on you. You broke up with him now move on. The best way to make him jealous is to find someone that is going to treat you way better than he did. IF you don't have true feelings for your current boyfriend then you need to do the right thing and end it. It's not fair that you are using him.
2006-10-21 12:52:02 · answer #2 · answered by NyteWing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at the beginning - all men do no longer do it. grant you - many BF's probable do - yet enable's no longer label all men as porn freaks. this could be a splash question to respond to actual. My $0.02 well worth of advise - in view which you adore him dearly - is to take a seat down and communicate on the instant approximately this situation. If he loves you - he will pay attention and understand your concerns. I continually believed or concept - that men that use porn in any shape or trend - are no longer content fabric with what they have around them or at living house. they are searching for something that doesn't exist - hince - they shop roaming the internet - till they locate difficulty - spend money etc. that is like playing - as quickly as their hooked - that is an infinite circle that never satisfies! the quicker you could communicate - hash out his subject concerns - the extra ideal you will possibly have the flexibility to understand your (BF) - and optimistically locate extra ideal techniques for him to spend his time! Wishing you the very ultimate!
2016-10-15 06:52:47 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, I see two problems here...
One, it is never ok to break up with one person, and start going out with their good friend (best friend is even worse). and that it's to make him jealous makes it so much worse!
next problem... to kiss your current boyfriend in front of an ex, shouldn't matter. the two of you are no longer together, and if he still has feelings for you, then that's his problem. on the flip side, your being (excuse my language) a *****, to through it in his face...
Sorry to be so harsh, but i hate it when people are vengeful like this after a failed relationship. I think there is enough pain to begin with, and it shows that the person doing it is nothing more then a child, and shouldn't be in a mature relationship...
2006-10-21 12:47:44 · answer #4 · answered by Junior1544 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's my opinion that kissing your current bf in front of your ex is a petty thing to do. It really doesn't acheive anything good. If you must do something, just live well without him would be the thing to do.
2006-10-21 12:47:33 · answer #5 · answered by Red1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sense a lot of drama coming your way. Yes, its ok to show affection to your new guy, however you shouldn't be doing it to make someone else jealous. Its an uncomfortable situation, and will only lead to him doing something to get you back... I'd say, back off from the both guys and when you're READY to date... look outside the circle of previous guys. good luck
2006-10-21 12:48:49 · answer #6 · answered by Rob C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's better to get out of that girly mode of thought, and to resist the temptation to be spiteful, and that applies to anything in life.
You'll grow more and will be better off in the long run.
2006-10-21 12:44:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By all means and make sure he gets to see alot of tongue action.
Be as bad as you can with new boyfriend while your ex looks on. You deserve the satisfaction of making him suffer.
2006-10-21 12:47:27 · answer #8 · answered by scrapper723 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wanted to make him jealous and you did. So Yes it was okay. If your new bf didn't mind - what is wrong with it?
2006-10-21 12:44:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anna F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not OK ------- 2 wrongs do not make a right. Need a little growing up here - don't you think?
2006-10-21 12:45:31 · answer #10 · answered by pikeruss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋