He is so controlling and he always is a big whiny baby when i have 2 handle my business and he is always getting mad for no reason.
2006-10-21 11:38:44 · 49 answers · asked by caligurrl3634 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you love him anyway, no. If you don't, than dump him.
2006-10-21 11:42:35 · answer #1 · answered by bballgirl90 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I understand that you may be upset, but before you call it quits you should tell your boyfriend the way that you feel. Now the controlling part I can understand, you're not going to let anyone run over you. But you all should sit down and talk. Have you ever considered that he may be this whiny because he wants a little more attention? This situation is kind of like the Tylenol commercial, stop and think. Is this a good relationship that you two have? Is this really what you're mad about, or is it deeper than this? Talk to him, you know how men are, they are all about signals. They do one thing to let you know that they mean something else. Try to read a little deeper next time. Do a few deep breaths, gather your thoughts, and prepare yourself for this conversation. Don't forget to remain cool. =)
2006-10-21 11:51:20 · answer #2 · answered by Grad_gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you decide to break up with him, sit him down and talk to him. Don't be afraid to tell him exactly how you feel. Tell him you need your own space sometimes or whatever... and that if he's gonna get mad at everything all the time and be controlling then he can find someone else to do it to.
Don't take crap from anyone.. and don't let him guilt you into staying if that's not what you want. If you're not happy then it's not worth it.
good luck hun.
2006-10-21 11:42:14 · answer #3 · answered by agnosticstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it seem that you are definitly thinking in breaking up with your boyfriend. You should take a time off from your relashionship and try to have time for yourself. I used to date a controlling guy and it is no fun. A relathionship should be about caring, compromising and being there for each other. It seems he is none of that. SO yes Dump his ***.
2006-10-21 11:47:13 · answer #4 · answered by Sandra M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely, I had a manipulating control freak for a bf once, and the best thing I ever did was get away. Far, far away.
The biggest problem you will have is his obsessiveness, he will follow you, try to get you to reconsider, even threaten you, but you have to be strong, safe, and if necessary ensue legal help like a restraining order etc.
2006-10-22 05:23:58 · answer #5 · answered by April J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should..if u have negative feelings about him already , believe me they wont go away. More and more things will start to bug u..and pretty soon it will be to late. Anyone u already know as controlling is not a good match anyways. dont worry though u will know when the right time comes!
2006-10-21 11:43:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tink that you need to get out whiloe you have a chance . Because if it turns into more then just boyfriend and girlfriend thing like marriage then it doesnt change and you are are going to wonder for the rest of your life if it really was worth living like that .
2006-10-21 11:43:36 · answer #7 · answered by elizabeth b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes that controling thing can later become a problem my friend had a boyfriend like that and they ended up staying with each other and he became abusive and also you may be thinking i can help him but the truth is u cant but a secitress can so if i were u i would brek up with him and he is a wheiny butt so yah dump him
2006-10-21 11:42:02 · answer #8 · answered by irishchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you two need to communicate more on what is going on rather than resorting to break-ups. You may perceive it as controlling but he probably wants to spend time with you but does not know how to tell you without being uncool. He wouldnt have been your boyfriend if you didnt like him to begin with.
2006-10-21 11:41:56 · answer #9 · answered by simplyjaxxs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should boyfriends are only temporally,and that's all you will end up with if you keep trying to find love in all the wrong places,love your self first and focus on the one who will give you your hearts desires and then that's when you will experience true love,Jesus is the answer and if you wait on him in prayer and stay faithful he will give you what you deserve,which is_HIS BEST.Put your faith in GOD,he loves you no matter what,BE BLESSED.
2006-10-21 11:54:23 · answer #10 · answered by winn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should knee hin in the nuts as hard as you can so he spits them out when he acts like a whiny jerk and let him know if he doesn't shape up his sore nuts will hurt even more and if that doen't drive the point home break up with him
2006-10-21 11:43:50 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋