me and boy friend have been to gether 4 years and he is cheating. i love him .HELP
2006-10-21 11:27:36 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey he obviously doesn't care anymore why should you. A leopard never changes his spots. Don't spend any more time with a boy like that. If your certain he is cheating and you don't have kids together, tell him C--YA!!!!!
2006-10-21 11:30:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well.. this is my advice for you. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and when we were together about 8 months, he went and visited the place he was from, and with the help of myspace.. which is my new found friend, I found out he cheated on me with his friend's sister... I was devastated. I took action and we were broke up for about a week. I couldn't get him off my mind and everytime he called I couldn't talk to him. Finally I got the nerve up to call him. Well kinda, but we talked it through and now he's never away from me enough to cheat, and I have more trust with him now than I did before he cheated... it all depends on the situation (p.s. he cheated here before, too but i didn't find out about that til this one happened)... The best thing I can tell you is to go with your heart and do what you have to do. If you think he'll do it again, leave him. If you think you can trust him, be with him.
2006-10-21 11:34:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Generally I hate to agree with everyone here but they have a point. Pick yourself up and know that you may have "loved" the qualities about this person, not necessarily the individual and get on with your life. At the very least, have a heart to heart and hopefully he'll be a man and confess. If you give him that chance... and still lies to your face, throw him to the curb... it's only an indication as to what will come.
2006-10-21 11:39:43 · answer #3 · answered by sunray73 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you have to let go of things you hold precious and dear. If it is really a true love, there will be restoration. If this love is one-sided, well, you're a strong woman; buck up and move on!
Settle for no less than what you deserve.
Be patient.
"Good things come to those who wait". Live your life to the fullest, focusing on self! Your heart will mend. What a lesson and experience to share! You can encourage others to date, but wait.
My heart goes out to you.
2006-10-21 11:40:27 · answer #4 · answered by Deborah K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey boo.
1) FACT: He cheats because he wants to.
2) FACT: You can not force your man to stop cheating.
3) FACT: He cheats because he puts desire before duty.
4) FACT: He cheats because he puts flesh before fidelity.
5) FACT: He cheats because he puts his self above others.
6) FACT: He cheats because he honestly believes that you will somehow tolerate his folly.
With all of these facts, the only question is, will you give him the PLEASURE of violating you and this relationship just so you can savor what you believe to be love?
Love does not seek selfish advantage. Love doesn't willfully hurt other people with wreckless disregard for consequences.
Think it through.
2006-10-21 11:38:52 · answer #5 · answered by DaMan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well u need to tell him u know he is cheating and from my point of view leave him i have had 3 guys cheat on me and tried to make it work and it never did now im married and im very happy. i never wondered what might have been cause im very happy with my non-cheating husband but u two really should talk about what u know. and talk about what u two should do
Also dont believe him if he says he wont do it again cause they always do sorry about what happened
2006-10-21 11:33:15 · answer #6 · answered by kjokinen06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know you love him i loved my first hubby too, we were both 16 and very young and very immature, he had a string of girls,i thought that if we got married that would end the cheating, wrong...... the cheating continued,and today he is married to the girl he cheated on me with, and he has cheated on her for off and on for over 30 years.for one we have no control over the other person, as they have free will do do whatever they like.once a cheater always a cheater, it shows their true character,so its up to you if you want this in your life.
2006-10-21 11:35:57 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is cheating.. he doesn't love you!.. plain and simple ... if you want to be walked on your entire life by all means keep him. At the very least get rid of him for a year or so and maybe see if that changes him.
2006-10-21 11:31:18 · answer #8 · answered by travis R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why might you even waste a while with somebody like this. he's no longer well worth a while of the day. pass on... enable or no longer that is. he will attempt to get returned with you sooner or later have confidence me after which you will remind him of crappy of someone he's like he merits. men like this do no longer exchange... have confidence me, I dated some. undergo in techniques be the extra ideal individual, this might get you far, you do no longer choose to coach out to be like him. you would be hurting somebody else in case you choose to cheat on him or attempt to make him "go through". he won't go through, he does not care approximately you or your emotions it incredibly is why he cheated. so, in simple terms in simple terms pass on. ultimate of success. wish this helps!
2016-10-15 06:48:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may love him,but need to be aware you deserve to be respected and be with someone you can trust.Atleast take a time out to step back and evaluate the future!
2006-10-21 11:31:30 · answer #10 · answered by maykithapin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋