2006-10-21 11:27:56 · 35 answers · asked by vanessa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Sure, no reason why not. There isn't really a "curse" if he sees you. But you might want to surprise him, since when you walk down the aisle that will be the first time he sees you as a bride. I've heard a lot of men talk about how special and magical that moment was to them!
2006-10-21 11:30:24 · answer #1 · answered by Bad Kitty! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only person who can answer that is you. Please don't let others over take in the most special time in your life. It is wonderful to have people you love gather for the event and even help plan your day. But you and your fiance are the two getting married. Don't listen to what others believe about superstitions. If you believe it to be bad luck don't do it. If you are overly excited and want him to see it, then let him. Perhaps you want to make him wait for the wedding day. Do you want to make the dress a surprise for the magical moment when he first sees you walk down the isle? Only you know what your heart desires for that day. No matter what you decide he will never have been more in love with you the moment he sees you at the alter. Whether he has seen the dress or not. It will be like nothing the two of you could have ever dreamed of. I will never forget that moment and I recommend making it truly what the two of you want. That way you will adore your day as much as I do mine.
Take care and Happy Wedding!!
2006-10-21 11:49:29 · answer #2 · answered by galbee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends if you are superstitious. The idea is not to let him see it or you will have bad luck in marriage. I find that silly.
I say to not to let him see it though due to this being a day that you will be dressed up beautiful and you want the whole thing to be a surprise. Make him be like wow when you come down that aisle. Good luck and congratulations!
2006-10-21 11:31:20 · answer #3 · answered by The_answer_person 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well iot depends on what kind of person you are like for instance my mom stayed in a little room until the ceremony so Alvin wouldn't see her dress. Some people think that if they are seen either with the dress on or if the male sees the dress their mariage will fade within a week or so....
2006-10-21 11:40:04 · answer #4 · answered by hubbaboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, its ok, I think its only bad luck if you see him wear the dress before, during, or after the wedding...
2006-10-21 11:31:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone seems to have different feelings on this. I don't really think it's a superstition, just a preference.
My husband saw me, because it is traditional in our culture to have a blessing of the bride and groom by family members, before the ceremony.
2006-10-21 23:07:40 · answer #6 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, haha we are getting married in april my dress is hanging in the closet. Maybe dont have him see you in the dress until you get married, but the actual dress itself isnt a big deal
2006-10-21 11:29:57 · answer #7 · answered by liz m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It certainly is, except the groom should not see the bride on their wedding day till the ceremony.
Good luck!
2006-10-21 11:29:34 · answer #8 · answered by Frogface53 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is ok for him to see the dress, just not what is under it.
2006-10-21 11:29:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it is but when i get married im not going to let him because then on the wedding day he wont be so love supprised
2006-10-21 11:33:58 · answer #10 · answered by katlynn_colglazier 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋