I met my lover 1 year ago and we started using the 'love' word eg I love you, you're my love etc only a few months back. Recently, we both admitted that we are in love with each other and we love each other. That's a wonderful moment. My question is whether you, who has more experience with love than me (this is my first feeling of 'love'), is it the honeymoon period say 3 months after admitting being in love with one another or the times after when two people who are in love are experiencing life as a more secure couple?
2006-10-21 11:27:15 · 12 answers · asked by Helloyou 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The honeymoon period doesn't have to end. So long as you both show each other respect and enjoy sitting next to each other. just to know you can touch or hold each other when ever you feel like it. Also I just have to look at our child to know how much I love my wife!!
2006-10-21 11:32:41 · answer #1 · answered by Rob S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been with my wife for nearly 8 years. We both admitted we were in love with each other after only 4 weeks. It too was my first feeling of love, and hers too, and to be honest the honeymoon period lasts as long as you want it to. All depends on how strong you both feel for each other. My wife and i are still experiencing that feeling to this day. It may run out and it may continue, but we don't look at it as a honeymoon period. Just bask in the glow!
2006-10-21 22:59:35 · answer #2 · answered by slinky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honeymoon phase is varied per couple. I feel the quicker it is over the better! The honeymoon phase is that interval where all you see is their positives and where all they see is your positives and even when negaitives are looking you right in the face you don't see it because you are in an"IN-Like" mode, where the reality is foggy. The relationship begins during this idealistic fog yet it starts to develop as soon as you are out of it. Two people are just that, two separate people. Even though you may think or feel as one with your other, you are still one in yourself.
Never take what you have for granted and ALWAYS keep in sight , what you have. Give space and support without putting "ME" always in it. Two together can be a force as long as you can maintain individual force too. It is what you bring to the other not that you become as the other. Maintain self.
2006-10-21 11:42:54 · answer #3 · answered by moire1111 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all very exciting to be in love with a person at first but things change; i still adore my husband of 15 years but the love I have for him has been distributed with my children. What I'm saying is after the infatuation lessens, you find other things more important but you still love and care for your partner. The honeymoon period can last a very long time, it's if you want it to!
2006-10-21 11:39:36 · answer #4 · answered by Lupee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 06:48:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't spoil it by getting married.From the first declaration of love,to the first couple of months living together,is usually the best time,after that,familiarity sets in & it just becomes routine.Romantic love is a form of temporary insanity.lol.
2006-10-21 12:00:45 · answer #6 · answered by michael k 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first few months after declaring your love to each other are wonderful. After that you settle into a comfortable routine and the love mellows into a deep passion for each other.
2006-10-21 11:31:58 · answer #7 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to me personally i feel love is when you know that you want to stay with that one person for the rest of your life knowing that you can grow old together still loving one another. My husband and i have been together for 23 years and we only 36 and our love still grows and grows each day.
2006-10-21 11:44:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It`s the first 12 months together.
2006-10-21 11:32:05 · answer #9 · answered by The BudMiester 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it is different for every couple and every relationship. When the flame dies down a little, it's up to the both of you to keep it hot!
2006-10-21 11:31:37 · answer #10 · answered by Annie Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋