year after year, of once or twice a month sex, and yes I'm doing all of the appropriate things, chores around the house, taking care of the kids, helping with dinner, offering massages, romantic gestures, etc.
What is the solution?
Everyone says "don't cheat, it's better to get a divorce first". But there are children involved and divorced men have to pay huge child support for many years, not to mention the stigma of being the "weekend dad" like so many others. Other than the sex thing the marriage is great, we have a nice house, and jobs, and family that would all be ruined in a divorce, but how much am I supposed to put my needs on the back burner. (and yes we have talked about this, I need real advice here)
2006-10-21
10:15:20
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Marriage & Divorce