Family & Relationships - 21 October 2006

my friend is a backstabber, everytime she is around me she talks bad about my two other friends and my other friends say that when she is wit them she talks bad about me. should i stop being friends with her

2006-10-21 10:04:15 · 12 answers · asked by Latina Chick 1 in Friends

didnt you both want to split up?

2006-10-21 10:03:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am a mom of 2 and married for 4 yrs. I started college this year. I met someone in college-a woman. I think I may have fallen for her. I am bi-sexual, but have never had feelings for someone while being married. I can't stop thinking about her. I can't concentrate,or sleep well. I haven't done too well in school lately. I haven't told her yet, but i'm pretty sure she feels the same way. Don't take it wrong though. I love my kids and would never do anything to hurt them. They are my world. They deserve to have two loving parents bring them up, and they will. Just someone write a poem that can maybe help me deal with this huge dilemma. I'm sure you can understand the stress and confusion...

2006-10-21 10:03:01 · 3 answers · asked by cjsipe22 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

do you think its fair? what if the husband thinks his wife is boring but the wife wants to stay together? vice versa

2006-10-21 10:02:42 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm getting married in 7 weeks, i'm excited, but am not sleeping well at the moment, as i keep thinking of the wedding and worrying that we've forgotten to do something.help

2006-10-21 10:02:06 · 35 answers · asked by fairydust 2 in Weddings

2006-10-21 10:01:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

first devante broke up with me then this boy will likes me and he was all over me kissing me and stuff and i told him i just wanna be friends and my best friend also known as my fake brother likes me and the guy i actually liked and hve stuff in common with has a gurlfriend. I asked him 4 weeks ago and he did but maybe they broke up.

2006-10-21 10:01:21 · 3 answers · asked by asiab b 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok heres the deal:I have a best friend Lyssa, her name is actually Alyssa. We did everything together, had sleepovers every night (practiacally), cried together, laughed together, and PARTIED together..! But then.... Her boyfriend stopped likeing her, and started liking me.. : ( She found out and now this is how she treats me. Yesterday she said i was gay, and ruined her life. She tell's me to shut-up, and barely ever talks to me anymore. what do i do?? Should i still be kind to her and be best friends? Or should i just forget about her, Best friends shouldn't me mad of some boy. PLEASE HELP!!!

2006-10-21 09:59:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

they sure do act like it, even though they werent mature enough to keep their legs closed

2006-10-21 09:59:03 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

would you rather a girl who is sort of talkitive and doesnt make an *** out of herself OR
a girl who is kind of loud but not obnoxious and laughs a lot?

whic one is more annoying?

2006-10-21 09:58:59 · 18 answers · asked by amber k 2 in Singles & Dating

Generically; I know it differs per relationship, but on average, after what given time frame should a couple get engaged, married and have kids? I've been with my boyfriend for a year; is it too early to seriously consider the longer future?

2006-10-21 09:58:28 · 15 answers · asked by koochilly 3 in Singles & Dating

My wife was always moaning about the fact that her top lip was alot thinner than her bottom one, so as a surprise I booked her in for some collagen injections to make them more even, it was a complete success and she looked great, especially from above, if you know what I mean!! Anyway she is now moaning about her boobs and bum, no prizes for guessing which she wants bigger and which she wants smaller!! Is she on a slippery slope and is it my fault for starting all this? While i'm on the subject I may as well tell you about her other request which is quite embarrassing for me, well, here goes....She actually wants me to get a penis reduction!! Can you believe it!! She reckons that it resembles a baby's arm holding an apple, and i've been causing her discomfort for all the years we've been together! I don't suppose it would be too bad, and I must admit i'm sick of the end dipping in the water whenever I go for a wee but it is a difficult decision, what do you think ladies and gents?

2006-10-21 09:57:54 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well he's my best friend and I only like him but he only see's me as a great friend what should I do I need advice and fast!!!!1

2006-10-21 09:56:34 · 8 answers · asked by Rachel B 1 in Singles & Dating

She is my best friend in the whole world and she is moving away.

2006-10-21 09:55:45 · 15 answers · asked by aaronjessekid99210 1 in Friends

Or does ever even cross your minds??...Just curious!! Or, ladies, if your husband or boyfriend asked you to wear it or not to wear it; what would you do? Get mad or offended??

2006-10-21 09:55:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

the perfect day spent with your spouse? If you could do anything at all.

2006-10-21 09:54:03 · 9 answers · asked by oldman 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My baby is 15months old and I am wanting to go back to work get out of the mess i am in and take care of her on my own, We have never been apart i have stayed home with her since she was born.Will she be okay in a daycare or will it make her unhappy,can u really trust those who work in them cause she is a big mommy girl and fights sleep like crazy if im not there.Will she adjust also will I be able to handle being away from her. I know it will be hard but im more worried of how she will and how they will treat her. She is the only child and very spoild,she loves other little kids though,so i dont know how she would do.anyone out there who had ever had to do this pls give me adive,ive only found info of when they went back at like 3months but she is 1yr and 3months old and prob only stayed away from me 3times.someone anyone help

2006-10-21 09:53:27 · 7 answers · asked by skybaby226 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Say that you are 20, female, in college, and got out of a long-term relationship semi-recently. You don't have sex with them though. It's just they end up boring you?????????????

2006-10-21 09:52:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The children lived with us because it was best for them. She wanted to call and come by all hours of the night and I was not having that. She would send my boyfriend slick messages at 2:00 am and when I confronted her about it she claims she was just "checking on her kids". She has a crazy way of carrying herself and because she wanted to have total and complete control over her kids she took them from us and has placed them in a 24 hour daycare. That's right, they are in daycare at night instead of with their father. And the worst part of it was she did not even have utilities. She made the children, who are 3 and 1, suffer in the dark with her because she is that concerned about getting her way.

2006-10-21 09:52:12 · 2 answers · asked by GoodOne 1 in Singles & Dating

Can any one out there help me.Known this guy as a friend for 6 months.He is one of the kindest hearted people ive ever met.We are just friends and are very close we keep in contact every day and he always initiates it.We have become v close,nothing physical.He is not gay,married or doesnt have anyone else.But i want more he says he is not in love and feels he should be.How we r friends only?He flirts with me ,So confusing.He was hurt badly in a relationship a few years ago & is still holding on.He cant close himself off .He says he is terrified of making a big mistake with me but he needs to sort out his head .Do you think i should give him time -as do care about him.When i said i couldnt be friends -he said so is this goodbye and was quite upset.But he has been quiet for last few days -do men go into thier caves when they cant cope.-will he figure it out and how long does it take.

2006-10-21 09:52:04 · 28 answers · asked by shakira 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm in college, and I recently got out of a long term relationship. I've dated about 5 guys recently, and every time I talk to my mom about it, or ask for advice, she says 'oh but they are just friends okay." Then she gets sick of talking to me about it and hangs up when I ask her about their personalities.

Recently I met a guy I really like, and we've hung out 10 hours a day for the past week. We made out and we hug. He's the funniest guy I've known. Thing is, he has Crohm's disease, and my mom says "oh that means he's going to die soon."

Then she hangs up on me when I ask her who I should choose between the 2 guys.

Why does she say "they are only friends" when they are clearly not, says "that means he's going to die soon" and then hangs up on me not wanting to talk about my relationships?

2006-10-21 09:51:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

we were best friends for 5 yrs then lived together for a yr and half were engaged and very close. my lil girl called him dad. his son called me mum. we picked my uni places together but when it come down to it he couldent make the hour and half move away from his other two kids from a previous relationship. plus my mum didnt help matters coz they cant keep thier noses out can they. now me and my 4 yr old whos just started school have moved to this new place. im just hurting so much and so is my lil girl and im finding it really hard without him. he still wants be friends. whats best way to cope with this ? ive lost my soulmate and my lil girl her dad and brother to her.

2006-10-21 09:51:06 · 16 answers · asked by angelalways 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-21 09:50:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mom and her twin (my uncle) were adopted. I never really considered tracking down my real grandparents. also, i'm concerened if i had gotten some kind of medical problem from them. do any of you know a web site that can help me track them down, or at least there names (for free?)?
Thanks so much.

2006-10-21 09:49:48 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I can never get my hope up about anything because everytime I do, he shoots them down. I was supposed to go see all my friends from a different town this weekend but the night before we left he said I couldn't go. They called my cell phone and were like you can't come what the heck? You were supposed to come! And they were looking for me all over the place! He has done something like this on many occasions!!! My mom just agrees with him which pisses me off more because she won't stand up for anything. I just get so pissed off at my dad!!!

2006-10-21 09:48:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

well my b/f dad in prison due to cirumstance and my heart really goes out for him and his family. Coz he saying to me he going to miss both of his son brithday and the brith of his child and that everything left on the mum and he feel really uspet and hurt bout the whole situation. But i just dont know what to say or how to handle the situation. But what will be the best thing that i could do to at least make him a little bit happier?

2006-10-21 09:47:50 · 15 answers · asked by lil miss sweetheart 1 in Singles & Dating

i have most of my best answers in relationships but when it comes to my life i can't do wat i say i just can't. help!

2006-10-21 09:47:06 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

GIRLS I RECENTLY GOT ON THE DEPO SHOT BIRTH CONTROL METHOD, AND MY BOYFRIEND IS EJACULATING IN ME BUT I HAVE A FUNNY SMELL IN MY (U KNOW WHERE ) IS THIS NORMAL ???? PLEASE EXPLAIN NEVER HAPPEND BEFORE

2006-10-21 09:46:24 · 8 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

my ex was a nasty spitefull man, i'm relieved he is gone as i couldn't get through an average day with him in my life but i feel a bit depressed, how will i cope when he moves on?

2006-10-21 09:46:24 · 9 answers · asked by DONNAIS 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-21 09:45:41 · 6 answers · asked by WORD UP G 1 in Other - Family & Relationships