my friend is a backstabber, everytime she is around me she talks bad about my two other friends and my other friends say that when she is wit them she talks bad about me. should i stop being friends with her
2006-10-21 10:04:15 · 12 answers · asked by Latina Chick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
All of you need to get together and confront her...
2006-10-21 10:05:30 · answer #1 · answered by tuesday 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that she needs some help and I don't know if it could come from you or not.... I would explain to her why it is so very cruel to those kind of things and if she just won't listen then I guess I would say drop her as a friend..
She isn't much of a friend anyhow when she talks about everyone like that....
2006-10-21 10:07:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how much you care about her. If I was in your situation, I would either try and talk to her or stop being friends with her. Consider whether she's a real friend. I've been through a situation similar to yours, and I know it's hard. Good luck.
2006-10-21 10:11:05 · answer #3 · answered by dinosaurbess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can, talk to her next time she talks bad about your friends. Tell her you don't feel comfortable with her gossip. Think about why she does this. Could she just be trying to think of something to say?
Its hard to do, I know, but I think it could be worth it. If this friend is one you would like to keep, then talk to her! This friendship could be saved, if both of you are willing to work to save it.
2006-10-21 10:17:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
somebody needs to talk to her about this. she might have a self confidence issue where she feels better about herself if she puts others down. but she isnt a true friend if she continues to talk bad about any of her or your friends.
2006-10-21 10:08:23 · answer #5 · answered by punkluver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This world is full of friends...find a new one and kick this one to the curb (not in a literal sense)...but just don't associate yourself with negativity - it will rub off.
2006-10-21 10:08:00 · answer #6 · answered by Wanna-be-Dear-Abby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop being friends with her, she isn't a friend to do that.
unfortunitly it is very hard to find good friends in life.
goodluck.
also u can punch her in the stomach to make yourself feel better
2006-10-21 10:06:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore her..don't talk to her and whenever she asks you why you're acting so weird. tell her that she is very rude and has no manners. and ask her why she's doing it.and let her know how you feel.
2006-10-21 10:06:32 · answer #8 · answered by iloveducks_99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm..talk it all out with each other all together..talk about what you want to settle and all..if they don't want to settle it or anything, then you should say your tired of it and you jst can't put up with it anymore
2006-10-21 10:10:49 · answer #9 · answered by annah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes , people like that dont deserve to be ur friend
2006-10-21 10:06:31 · answer #10 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋