well my b/f dad in prison due to cirumstance and my heart really goes out for him and his family. Coz he saying to me he going to miss both of his son brithday and the brith of his child and that everything left on the mum and he feel really uspet and hurt bout the whole situation. But i just dont know what to say or how to handle the situation. But what will be the best thing that i could do to at least make him a little bit happier?
2006-10-21 09:47:50 · 15 answers · asked by lil miss sweetheart 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-10-21 09:49:42 · answer #1 · answered by M K 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Be there for his Mom while Dad is away. Don't add to the situation by being bad or doing bad things. Tell him he is not the cause of his Dad's situation, his Dad is. His Mom and Dad will have to learn how to deal with it. Your bf has to go on with his life as best he can, so do you. Be comforting, listen when he talks, and be there for him when he is feeling sad. A friend couldn't ask for anything more. Time will make things easier for everybody.
2006-10-21 09:54:02 · answer #2 · answered by the sealer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes when things like this happens, we can on ly be support. Try to help with the birthday, actions speak much better than words. And with the birth of his child ask if someone can video the birth and send it to him. Then he might now miss it all.
Remember those actions maybe worth more than what we can say to lighten someones heart or hearts.
2006-10-21 09:56:51 · answer #3 · answered by thats_reyven2u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a horrid undertaking! it is gloomy to correctly known that fairly some human beings nevertheless think of like this. Did the mum and father understand which you're wiccan formerly she got here to artwork there, or is your faith difficulty-loose wisdom at artwork? i'm in basic terms bowled over that she may be allowed to artwork with an "evil devil worshiper". If her mom and father are so brainwashed to tell their toddler which you will hex, or poison her I dont understand their letting her be in any touch with you. i in my view experience sorry for the lady in all this. She must be fearful of you! My suggestion is to easily go away issues on my own. proceed to act as you in many cases might if she have been absolutely everyone else. Be wonderful, talk to her as you may the different co-worker. possibly she will see which you're no longer the demon her mom and father paint you to be. yet once you attempt to chat to her approximately it, i'm particular it is going to reason difficulty. Thats a definite way for her to assert which you attempt to "very own" her or another nonsense. mind-blowing advantages
2016-10-02 13:04:25 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't much you can do. His dad has put a terrible burden on his family and they will have to cope with it.
My best advice is to listen to your boyfriend when he needs to talk and be supportive. Try to stay neutral and not bad mouth his father or take the mother's side in anyway. Just sit back and listen.
2006-10-21 09:53:36 · answer #5 · answered by Sativa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex will not solve that problem. The best thing for you to do is to be there when he needs you. Listen to what he has to say and try to sympathize the best you can. Don't, however, say I know how u feel, when you actually don't. This will only cause more problems. Just be his backdrop, someone to lean on.
2006-10-21 09:53:00 · answer #6 · answered by Charles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres not really anything u can do just tell ur man that u gon be for him no matter what. ofcourse if u mean it. 2 dont go around your friends and family saying that hes dad went to jail thats between u and him nobody elses business unless he wants to let people know but that him
2006-10-21 10:03:25 · answer #7 · answered by jose m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't do any thing!!!! he got himself into that, and it's a little to late to be thinking about all of this now! you could send him 2or 3 birthday cards with stamps on them, so he can send them back to his sons. are put some money on the book for him. other then that i don't know what to tell you.
2006-10-21 09:58:06 · answer #8 · answered by Kas-O 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to stop wollowing in self pity do his time and dont do it again. His wife and child will be fine. Those left behind have to do the same sentance as those inside. He got two children for Christsakes tell him to growup! Sheeet!
2006-10-21 09:54:28 · answer #9 · answered by Stephen F 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't do anything. Just make sure when he needs someone to talk to you have an open ear for him. Be supportive and loving. Just be there for him.
2006-10-21 09:51:35 · answer #10 · answered by Ms.Deb 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just take a deep breath and count to ten.
and give 'em a hug. hugs mean everthing.
2006-10-21 09:52:01 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋