How do I deal with an uncooperative baby mama?

Question

The children lived with us because it was best for them. She wanted to call and come by all hours of the night and I was not having that. She would send my boyfriend slick messages at 2:00 am and when I confronted her about it she claims she was just "checking on her kids". She has a crazy way of carrying herself and because she wanted to have total and complete control over her kids she took them from us and has placed them in a 24 hour daycare. That's right, they are in daycare at night instead of with their father. And the worst part of it was she did not even have utilities. She made the children, who are 3 and 1, suffer in the dark with her because she is that concerned about getting her way.

Answer 1

I highly advise that you have a chat with your man about his ex's habits of bothering you guys at odd times. As far as the children's living situation your man needs to take her ugly behind to court with not only accusations but proof. A social worker can be quite handy investigating this so take full advantage of it.
Cheers,
Mr. M on "baby mama."

Answer 2

I'd consider taking legal action...