1) An older (3 years), taller, hotter guy who has emotional issues, but talks to you about deep issues. You guys hang out about once a week or so, usually to party and then talk afterwards. He says he doesn't want a relationship right now, but just to date. He's had more sexual experience and has dated more girls than the other guy. (He's 23.)
2) A guy exactly your age (20) who is the funniest guy you know. He makes you laugh at every second. He's more of a long-term relationship type and he does a lot of things with you, including getting lunch/dinner, watch movies. He's only had one long term relationship and he's been faithful. He's not a player at all.
I know, stupid question right? But I tend to look at a lot of guys and I've dated a few. I'm not sure if I want a relationship right now nor settle down, but I do know that the second one is the funniest guy I've known since my long-term ex boyfriend of 5 years. I feel like I've known him forever, but I'm scared of commitment.
2006-10-21 10:16:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what you need to do is realize what you want. they both have their qualities I would choose guy #2 but that is because I know I want a long term thing but if something long term is not what you are looking fort than go with #1 you will have fun with no commitment
2006-10-21 10:22:42 · answer #1 · answered by melthule 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey girl I have totally ben there!! I understand how you feel. But on my opinion, rather you are ready to settle down or just date for a while I would totally go with guy # 2. Just let him know ahead of time that you dont want to rush anything, that your cool with dating. Now with guy # 1 well he just sounds like trouble if I were you I would just stay away. Im sure all #1 wants is a one nite stand and well that isnt going to get you anywhere but hurt, or pregnant, or ending up with an STD! Becareful and use your head.
2006-10-21 10:25:19 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley I 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it were me,I'd chose the 2nd because I want the boy that'll set the best example for my baby daughter and
the baby son that's due on Feb.12th,2007. If he cusses,
abuses,ect. I don't want him around them @ all! That'll
be such a bad example for them even I don't cuss a freakin bit! Because my family never tolerated it!
-Ms.Sarah Lynn Nickels
2006-10-21 10:24:23 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
# 2 if you guys can talk then talk about commitment and mabey he will try to work with you... he sounds like a wounderful guy and i think you 2 would last a while... you 2 sound perfect...
2006-10-21 10:18:58 · answer #4 · answered by Ashley C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
depends which guy is right 4 YOU? i mean our opinion shouldnt matter! (id pick 2 myself) but its up 2 u! =) anymore questions email me at
casey_b_nelson@yahoo.com
2006-10-21 10:20:58 · answer #5 · answered by casey_b_nelson 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
id say u go wit what u want they both sound ok
2006-10-21 10:20:34 · answer #6 · answered by Latina Chick 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I feel weird being the only guy awsering but #2 would be good.
I'm like #2................................*whistle*..............
2006-10-21 10:28:39 · answer #7 · answered by Classic Rocker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
were not u i would choose the 2nd guy but u dont want anything longterm so might hurt him. JUst do wut feels right just dont hurt anyone
2006-10-21 10:18:43 · answer #8 · answered by practicully_famouse 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Guy number two please.
2006-10-21 10:19:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋