Why is my mother so cruel. I mean she does'nt get made at me sometimes, it happens at least 3times a day, sometimes I feel that she hates me, and sometimes she wished I was'nt in her life, as far as being born. But never do I thin of commiting suicide, most of the time I just want to get away from her, and move away, if only my grandmother were living she'll help me deal with it.
2006-10-21 10:55:10 · 12 answers · asked by taniqua j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sorry to hear about your situation. Nobody that I know gets to pick-and-choose their mother.
But just the mere fact that you recognize the problem, - then that's half the battle. Know that everybody on earth has 'problems' and needs to cope better with solving them.
Your mother has arrived yet at solution for emotional state towards you. Do what you can to lead her down the path to resolve her problems. Do what you can to avoid enflaming her.
2006-10-21 10:57:36 · answer #1 · answered by MK6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. i can relate to you so much.
my mom is the same why, she yells at me for everything!
leaving a cup on the counter or not closing the door right away.
its sad. my grandma passed away on August 5th of this year and ever since my mom has lost her mind. she is always telling me i control her life and all that. its very sad. hopefully you are somewhat old enough. if you are around the age of 16 to 17. you can go to the police and let them know that you are not living in a stable home. if you are 17 and soon to be 18 you can "divorce" your parents. as long as you can prove that you can take care of yourself, you can do it. i'll be 18 in 3 months and i have already planned to move out and everything, i have it all planned out.. i suggest you do the same and try to figure out where to go, how to get money, etc. but all i can say, is hold on and just be strong. i've been living with my mom 17 years and about 15 of those years she has been making me feel like i was a mistake. just keep your head up and you'll be ok.
I wish you the best of luck.
2006-10-21 11:06:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does your mom say when you approach her about this? Y'know, she may not have a clue that she doesn't treat you well. Ask her questions about her upbringing & her relationship w/ her parents. Maybe you'll find out that there are reasons behind her acting like that.
You could also just flat out ask her why she's always angry w/ you. Instead of acting angrily toward her, LET HER KNOW IT HURTS YOU. That will work much better! Kids can give a guilt-trip just as well as moms. Hang in there! :)
2006-10-21 11:00:16 · answer #3 · answered by Rocker Chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg, i feel the same way, not exactly but close.
i get the feeling that my mom could be a better parent, she does a lot of things that she shouldnt, and keeps screwing up my life and making the wrong choices.
i would never commit suicide, cause im not that stupid.
dont worry, when u get older, u'll be free.
2006-10-21 11:01:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry - you'll become an adult soon, and then you can move out on your own and forget about her. Just ignore her and concentrate on your studies so that you can get a scholarship to college (so that she can't bark at you about money) and then you're home free!
Lots of parents take their frustration out on their kids. It's not your fault - they're just not satisfied with themselves.
2006-10-21 10:59:17 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people just aren't meant to be parents. They actually have to take time out of their lives to do for someone else. Sometimes its a jealousy thing.
2006-10-21 11:53:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not commit suicide you are not the first person to experience this. if you graduate from school get a job in a far distance and continue to pray for her.
2006-10-21 11:09:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry to her about your problems with your mother. You need to talk to someone. Find an adult that you can confide in at your school. Good luck.
It's not your fault that your mother is crazy and she's not worth you taking your life.
2006-10-21 11:00:16 · answer #8 · answered by Inez 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry for your circumstance.Maybe she's depressed,but for whatever reason is not good mother material.I had one like this.It made me stronger and determined what kind of mom I wanted to be-by knowing I did NOT want to be like her.Seek support wherever you can and keep your chin up!
2006-10-21 11:00:47 · answer #9 · answered by maykithapin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you....U did not mention your age, but I assume that you must be in your mother's custody. Please hang in there...People who have had terrible childhoods tend to reflect that on their children..Your mother probably hates herself more than anybody else, but she is just pouring it out all on you. Please remember that one day you will grow up and move away from her grip. At that stage u'll be able to forget or forgive as u wish.
2006-10-21 11:00:36 · answer #10 · answered by seek_fulfill 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋