I discover what she tells me one minute ain't the real truthsomewhere down the line.There's still love there but the feelings of deceit don't dissapate easily.Is it best to start all over again?
2006-10-21 11:05:20 · 11 answers · asked by justanobody 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Probably
2006-10-21 11:06:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This will depend on the people, the lenght of the marriage, and what the lies were about.
She will need to win back your trust. You will have to search your heart and see if you can trust her again.
My ex cheated on me after 20 years of marriage. I could not live with him after that. Some trust is never recovered.
2006-10-21 18:08:17 · answer #2 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't get trust back. You can fool yourself into thinking you did, but that's only your sex organs talking. Even if the sex is great, if you have to wonder where she's going every time she leaves the house, you don't have trust. Pack it in, because without trust there isn't respect either.
2006-10-21 18:09:14 · answer #3 · answered by Recovering Blonde 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when you loose trust that is the hardest thing to get back but if you both truly love each other and are willing to work hard then it is worth everything you have to do to get trhe trust back and if starting over will helpo than go for it
2006-10-21 18:09:17 · answer #4 · answered by melthule 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
join a swingers club and bang some guys wife while he is banging yours that will give a new meaning to trust for the two of you and jealousy will dissapate
2006-10-21 18:08:05 · answer #5 · answered by Beano4aReason 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she is willing to try and save your marriage, you can't do it alone . You may need counseling and if she doesn't want that then she isn't going to be very willing to save your marriage.
2006-10-21 18:11:01 · answer #6 · answered by tiny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Too bad that you wife isn't truthful. Tell her you aren't going to hold conversations with her if she can't be honest.
2006-10-21 18:08:00 · answer #7 · answered by Inez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think about it and give your marriage a second chance...For you and your family!
2006-10-21 18:09:09 · answer #8 · answered by ANGEL 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she can deal honestly,start over.If not,move on.Love doesn't conquer all.
2006-10-21 18:07:32 · answer #9 · answered by maykithapin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont get it back once bitten twice shy
2006-10-21 18:08:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋