Family & Relationships - 20 October 2006

You broke up..... the girl txt n called you didn’t respond....u met a week later when she traveled three hours by train to see you...it was final that its over....... three weeks now, how does the girl tell you or put it to you that she still loves you like loads.............. you even said you didn’t want anything to do with her... no more txt or calls in fact asked her to erase your number..... She txt u last night with a pray.... you haven’t responded..... What should the girl do to make it up to you.....? What????

2006-10-20 01:16:02 · 9 answers · asked by apple 1 in Singles & Dating

I asked that how do u like to see your man? hairly or not?
I read all the answer and most of you are agree to have hair in front but not on your back.
So now How can men stop growing the hair on the body?
I am sure most of you will write get it waxed or shave but as ou know we will increase the hair with shaving so......
any other way to lose hair for ever or stop growing it?????

2006-10-20 01:15:24 · 6 answers · asked by Jawad 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

iam a man who is attracted to another man my mother force me to marry a girl who is 19 and i am 29 i am not able to give her love n sex as i dont feel like loving her or having sex with her wat shud i do as i feel i am ruining her life she cud b with someone who cud love her alot n my mother doesnt want me to leave her she says i will love her but no feelings for her give me some advive wat shud i do

2006-10-20 01:15:09 · 16 answers · asked by sherry 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I was dating this guy and he seemed perfect but then he said he wanted to be friends with benifits and eventually start dating again once we became better friends but then he said he just wanted to be friends but he has feelings for me. The other night some guy hit on me when we were hanging out and he told him off and said i was with him. I really like this guy and he knows it do you think there could ever be anything between us?

2006-10-20 01:14:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

with anyone in the world famous or not who would it be?

2006-10-20 01:13:51 · 38 answers · asked by dizzymooo 4 in Singles & Dating

I have just read the findings of a survey that the older the man the younger the partner he seeks. If this is true, I would like to hear from men as to what would make them throw away 20 years of marriage, split up their family, cause a lot of heartache just to be with someone younger? I am older than my husband and have found out he has been cheating with a younger woman. Considering the odds, should I cut my losses now and end our marriage or hang on hoping that we can rebuild some trust? Although I love my husband very much and we have been through a lot together, I am worried to waste my precious years as I am already 54 but my husband is only 41. I realise that people cheat for lots of reasons, but I would be interested to hear from men as to what they think. By the way I look young for my age, keep myself trim and am attractive, but I don't suppose that matters really, the fact remains I am older than him full stop.

2006-10-20 01:13:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This ques comes from a good girl friend of mine..Guys if you could enlighten us..
Is he interested or just taking her for a ride if he flirts..cuddles..hugs her..kisses her in public even if he's aware it wont lead to sex.( like when they meet up just for while cos they have other plans or she has her kids with her )

2006-10-20 01:12:21 · 9 answers · asked by ddko 2 in Singles & Dating

Men pester you for a phone number or to accept invitation for an evening(day) out and the moment you say yes, they loose interest.

2006-10-20 01:12:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i been going out wit this girl for a while we knew each other for a long time and we finaly asked eachother out. been out on one date and i think she would like to kiss me. where should we kiss and what kind

2006-10-20 01:11:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm not talking about child abuse, I'm talking about the child is acting out, with no regard to the words you say. Is there ever a time where you feel it's within your rights to spank them?? Or maybe flick them??

2006-10-20 01:11:22 · 10 answers · asked by Zara 2 in Family

For Guys: would u go out of state to Six Flags with a guy U work with and an older woman who works with U which this guy and her are good friends, and another girl 2 years older than U, would u go and not take ur girlfriend?part2 to that is wut if there wasnt enough room for Ur gf, would u still go?

For the girls:Would U get mad at Ur bf if he left U at home, which U dont live together but home being U know yalls town or state,and went to six flags for the weekend with a guy friend an older woman and a girl two yrs older than ur bf, would u get mad and ***** at him for it , or how would yall handle the situation?

2006-10-20 01:11:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-20 01:10:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

OK two years ago I went on holiday to India. This cousin started to get really close to me. I really liked him as family so I always hung out with him. Then he started saying things that were inappropriate like how he wanted to ask me out. I was obviously disgusted it and he laughed it off saying it was a joke. I'm back home but he's always calling up asking about me and emailing me things like this..
hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii i feel like scolding u in bad words.....r u alive..r u in the world ..or have u gone for a trip to the moon with ur shitting boyfriend.

What's wrong with him?! I don't have a boyfriend lol! Him being a freak ain't a problem now but I'll have to go back to India some day and face him. I gave him the whole "I see you as a brother/friend" speech last yr but he's still acting weird. I can't tell my parents cos it'll cause problems with the fam and my sis thinks it's a huge joke when I'm pretty scared of him!

2006-10-20 01:06:54 · 13 answers · asked by Baby Doll 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Three months ago....my internet boyfriend of over a year, moved in with me. We get along great. Neither of us pressure the other. We spend a lot of time together, and have great conversations. He says that he finds me very attractive. But, he rarely shows sexual interest in me. I don't get it.

He is 51, and I am 40......not quite ready for my rockin' chair.

I have voiced my concerns, but he just fluffs it off....saying it must just be a phase he's going through. And, he doesn't seem to concerned with finding out why he's having this little problem.

The rare times we are intimate, it's great. I just don't get it. Any advice?

2006-10-20 01:06:40 · 13 answers · asked by treefrog 4 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfiend 10 months. And ever since we have been together I knew he had a best friend that he hasdly ever talked to half way across the country. Well last night, he talked to her on the phone for time with me there. I am not sure if I should be mad at him cause he ignored me while talking to her, or if I am just a little jelous. Even though I heard the whole conversation, they still talked about her seeing him in his thong and all. Please help me go about with my problem, and give me some tipps about how to handle something like this!!!

2006-10-20 01:06:32 · 12 answers · asked by Saxybabe 1 in Friends

Hi guys, soppy one i'm afraid. I have been seeing someone for a month after splitting with my ex before the summer. I have been soo happy.He told me when I met him a month ago that hed finished with his ex months ago, like me. He told me on Wed that he had only split with her (3yrs) the day after meeting and kissing me. He said he was going round to tell her to move on as he had and has now realised he still loves her, and cannot be with me if he has feelings for her. He says he needs time to see how things go back wth her. Should I wait for him if things dont work with her? Sorry its a bit long. Very sad!

2006-10-20 01:06:23 · 30 answers · asked by Jenni 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Like i might not have that again (not that I am looking right now) What are your experiences? I wonder if I should have stayed with her because I think all the girls my age would be taken by the time I feel ready to look again. (this is the age where they want to settle down,so i'm told!)
6 years is a long time.should I have made it permenant?

2006-10-20 01:05:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i cant get a job i have no money and i am having trouble getting up the duff? i feel down wit my shelf becos i went ta college for nothing. so i am starting to affact my marriage.

2006-10-20 01:05:20 · 8 answers · asked by queen west 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-20 01:04:49 · 2 answers · asked by marygilmore75 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

had called and said that kids are having sex on the bus the other kids just cheer them on thats wrong on so many levels. Some scholls do somthing about it like put an aid on the bus but others are letting them doit. I'm 16 and I not in a rush to do it why are kids now adays wanting too

2006-10-20 01:04:39 · 9 answers · asked by dragonrider 2 in Singles & Dating

Last night my bf of almost a month asked me if it was to soon to say tell me that he loved me. I told him that if you feel it then you should tell the person, cause you might not get that chance to again. Then he said the he loved me, and I told him back.

Everyone I talked to about it said they think that he really likes me, I'm sure that he does, he wouldn't drive and hour to see me for like 30 minutes with no sex involved.

It's just wierd, that these feelings have been expressed sooo soon. I'm 20 and he's 24.

Do you guys think that it's to soon?

2006-10-20 01:04:25 · 10 answers · asked by angel2005_2001 5 in Singles & Dating

my ex said he was cutting contact whats this mean then??pls???
this is the last i heard from my ex "i wana be at peace with my self..its over between us on a good note. past this msg there will be no contact between us so we can both move on. good luck with ur life. live ur life well. we both need a fresh start with life, so good luck with urs, uni and work" and then two weeks later he pranked me on private and didnt let me answer he rand once and then rang my sister....why?whats this mean??


why say no contact and then contact me?

i have left him alone....i just dont understand why he has to contact me after he said that was it...why would he do that?

2006-10-20 01:01:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

and is from the opposite sex, does it means he / she is interested in you ?
or finds u a tad bit strange ?
how about a complete stranger ?
or the same gender as you ?

2006-10-20 01:01:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-20 01:00:11 · 1 answers · asked by MICKEY M 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-20 00:59:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i am 13 years old the girl i love is also 13 we study in same class.
every sat,sun we go for picnic,movies etc we have even kissed each other many times i love her but a other boy also loves her . he tried to propose her but she said NO and she also said that SHE LOVED ME but now that boy acts like a villan he all ways tries to crash our outings once he even clicked our photo when we were kissing each other . he blackmails me tells me that if i dont leave that girl he will show that photo to the teacher & even post it on internet i really cannot leave her i love her so with my gang of friends i stole the photo from his house but dont know what 2 do further also tell me that i and my girlfriend(the girl i was talking about) should continue going out to gether

2006-10-20 00:59:23 · 12 answers · asked by PRINCE 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm currently getting divorced and I've met up with an old work colleague online and we've started chatting, I asked a question on this site the other day asking how I should ask him out, but my soon to be ex came across it and he's now giving me a hard time, I lost all my friends whilst I was with him, he doesn't like me speaking to my neighbours and now he knows i'm chatting to this other bloke, and yes its only gossiping, he is having a go at me, why is he doing this, we've been seperated since Easter this year so why the big fuss?

2006-10-20 00:58:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

anymore and its been a week since we've been ignoring each other he says hi to me today
what is wrong with him

2006-10-20 00:56:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

we miss each other so much when we have distance in between & things get difficult on us, and now she have to live country for higher level education & she is concidering to turn the opportunity down because of me & this relationship, she feels it's gonna be over between us. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO ADVICE HER OR WHAT TO DO. I FEEL LIKE IM BEING SELFISH TO JUST LET HER TURN DOWN THIS OPPORTUNITY...PLEASE HELP ME BY GIVING ME SOME ADVICES. THANK YOU.

2006-10-20 00:55:33 · 1 answers · asked by 558 1 in Singles & Dating

there's this friend who's bf is cheating on her which i know but afraid to tell cos she realy loves this guy.and i know when i tell her it will realy hurt her.what shuld i do?plz help me someone out there!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-10-20 00:55:27 · 20 answers · asked by jemima a 1 in Singles & Dating