OK two years ago I went on holiday to India. This cousin started to get really close to me. I really liked him as family so I always hung out with him. Then he started saying things that were inappropriate like how he wanted to ask me out. I was obviously disgusted it and he laughed it off saying it was a joke. I'm back home but he's always calling up asking about me and emailing me things like this..
hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii i feel like scolding u in bad words.....r u alive..r u in the world ..or have u gone for a trip to the moon with ur shitting boyfriend.
What's wrong with him?! I don't have a boyfriend lol! Him being a freak ain't a problem now but I'll have to go back to India some day and face him. I gave him the whole "I see you as a brother/friend" speech last yr but he's still acting weird. I can't tell my parents cos it'll cause problems with the fam and my sis thinks it's a huge joke when I'm pretty scared of him!
2006-10-20 01:06:54 · 13 answers · asked by Baby Doll 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it sounds like he does have some issues..if he is scaring you and you don't like to be around him..tell him again that you would like for him to quit talking to you that way and that you feel very uncomfrotable around him saying and acting that way..if he refuses to quit making you feel that way, save the emails and give them to your parents..he is infaturated with you..and if you ever feel unsafe around anyone, no matter if they are relatived to you or not, you sould tell someone..you should never have to put up with any kind of abuse..blessings
2006-10-20 01:17:53 · answer #1 · answered by connie l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the adventure that your cousin says that's ok, then in case you rather need to, pass forward. you may additionally communicate on your cousin approximately why the broke up. He might desire to no longer be sturdy for you. each and every now and then infatuation makes us block out the undesirable factors till that's too previous due.
2016-10-02 12:03:08 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this doesnt sound to me like he has feelings for you but is just an asz!
hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii... i feel like scolding u in bad words.....r u alive..r u in the world ..or have u gone for a trip to the moon with ur shitting boyfriend.
spam his butt and dont reply to any of his e-mails!
2006-10-20 01:13:36 · answer #3 · answered by crazylady1193 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Us cousins often use our sisters for temp mischief . I know it ain't know good , but buddy , there's no use meeting him to resolve the problem .
Try searching him on orkut and then junk away his scrapbook .
If he's in india , he probably has an orkut.com identity .
if u don't , then tell me . i'll send u a gmail and orkut invitation . Happy cousin-hunting . Bye bye...
2006-10-20 01:13:54 · answer #4 · answered by viktorkrum 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would cut off all contact with him. He has issues.
If it's too the point that he's scaring you, you may want to tell your parents. Show them the e-mails he's been sending. Don't feel guilty for telling them. You didn't do anything wrong, HE did. He's the one that should be feeling guilty, not you.
2006-10-20 01:17:50 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let your folks know. and show them the emails and things. because if you don't he may do something to you, And have a back up copy for yourself. just in case, You never know what may happen. don't let your folks know that you have the back up copy. Stop talking to him and writing to.
2006-10-20 01:16:48 · answer #6 · answered by dmncprkr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
threaten that if he doesn't leave you alone you'll tell the family - even if you don't mean it. Make sure you make your feelings very very clear to him to make sure he can't take anything you say the wrong way.
2006-10-20 01:15:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHOA U HAVE A BIG PROBEM HERE,MAYBE U SHOULD TELL UR PARENTS ANYWAY AT THE RISK OF BREAKING THEM UP CAUSE IM SURE HIS PARENTS WILL UNDERSTAND
2006-10-20 01:12:46 · answer #8 · answered by sirmixafresh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your parents and don't worry about the problem it will entails, it not your own doings, if you just let it stay the way it is he will continue harassing you and soon thee will be more bigger problem, cut it off now!!
2006-10-20 01:12:45 · answer #9 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should tell him to stop and it's realy bothering you and he can be gay if he wants, but you're not gonna (hopefully).
2006-10-20 01:11:53 · answer #10 · answered by Michi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋