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Last night my bf of almost a month asked me if it was to soon to say tell me that he loved me. I told him that if you feel it then you should tell the person, cause you might not get that chance to again. Then he said the he loved me, and I told him back.

Everyone I talked to about it said they think that he really likes me, I'm sure that he does, he wouldn't drive and hour to see me for like 30 minutes with no sex involved.

It's just wierd, that these feelings have been expressed sooo soon. I'm 20 and he's 24.

Do you guys think that it's to soon?

2006-10-20 01:04:25 · 10 answers · asked by angel2005_2001 5 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

10 answers

Relationships are screwed up at best. Nothing in a relationship is ever 100% for certain. Every relationship is different. If a person really cares that much it could take them years or weeks to admit it. There is no set time span and those feelings can hit someone without warning. Just take it day by day, being honest with each other.

2006-10-20 01:10:58 · answer #1 · answered by Joe P 2 · 0 0

I would give him more time, I mean how well do you know him after a month. My guess is that you are just scraching the surface. One month of dating isn't long enough to say I love you. Relationships takes time in getting to know that person. How serious are you and your boyfriend? Do you have a lot of things in common? Do you ever fight and work out the problem? If the both of you say that you love each other, make sure you mean it. It might be worth the wait if you and your boyfriend dated a little longer and see where this relationship is going and then say to each other I love you. People say I love you and really not mean it. You will know you are in love by the way you and your boyfriend respect each other. Good luck with your relationship with him.

2006-10-20 08:12:46 · answer #2 · answered by D 1 · 0 0

Love can happen at any given time but the true measure of love is the patience of time. Knowing someone intimately (not necessarily sexually) and being in love for everything they were, they are, and what they will become; for their flaws and perfections; unconditionally...takes time. Love is a word that is used too common and a lot of times, too soon. Only you will know when you love him and will he know that he is in love with you.

2006-10-20 08:15:46 · answer #3 · answered by coolguy 2 · 0 0

I don't think it is too soon.

Falling in love has no set schedule. Everyone and every situation is unique. Don't worry about these things. Let your instincts be your guide.

If it feels right.....then it will be just fine.

2006-10-20 08:11:41 · answer #4 · answered by treefrog 4 · 0 0

Well he loves you now, but does he really know you after only a month?

2006-10-20 08:11:57 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0 0

I think its wonderful. I PRAY it works out 4 you both.

2006-10-20 08:06:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Well what do you think??? We can't answer this one for you. Your on your own. The heart can't help who it wants. Just be easy

2006-10-20 08:13:38 · answer #7 · answered by BABYWHITE 2 · 0 0

No not to soon, when your in love your in love. Congrats!

2006-10-20 08:06:44 · answer #8 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 1 0

u should blv him.......it can happen anytime......havent u heard about luv at first sight???? if that is possible then u should blv him

2006-10-20 08:09:20 · answer #9 · answered by sweety 4 · 0 0

i think he really love you,, congrats!!!

ps: just be careful...

2006-10-20 08:10:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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