my ex said he was cutting contact whats this mean then??pls???
this is the last i heard from my ex "i wana be at peace with my self..its over between us on a good note. past this msg there will be no contact between us so we can both move on. good luck with ur life. live ur life well. we both need a fresh start with life, so good luck with urs, uni and work" and then two weeks later he pranked me on private and didnt let me answer he rand once and then rang my sister....why?whats this mean??
why say no contact and then contact me?
i have left him alone....i just dont understand why he has to contact me after he said that was it...why would he do that?
2006-10-20 01:01:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no contact mean no contact dont bother me, but when he called you that was something else. see you dont miss a person until you dont have them anymore what it is he, realize you are really gone he miss you that all but still dont contact him let him come too you if you are still interested good luck which ever way it goes.
2006-10-20 01:10:34 · answer #1 · answered by annjilena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is on joke time, How old is he, if asked for no contact, why? is he the one picking up the phone. maybe your too good to leave alone. Ride it out and see what happens. maybe he wanted to see how your reaction would be or to see how fast it would take for you to move on. Wait and see he'll probably come back if not just look back at as a person from your past
2006-10-20 01:07:20 · answer #2 · answered by mlh2379 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he isn't over you. As far as ringing the phone goes. He could be just wanting to hear your voice and then chickens out so hangs up, or maybe he wants to see if another guy answers.
I've been in a similiar situation where i was always chasing him down when he would leave. When I'd stop he'd be begging for me to come back to him again. We all want someone to want us, and he apparently wants to make certain that your thinking of him.
Try not to give in and call him, he wanted it over so let him have what he wants
2006-10-20 01:10:07 · answer #3 · answered by penelope 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is playing games with you. He fully expected you to dissolve into a blubbering mass of jello at the receipt of his first note. Since you didn't ...he is putting out little feelers of messages designed to remind you how great he is and get you to boost his ego by begging him to come back so that he can say he doesn't think it's a good idea. Just ignore him and save yourself the time and trouble.
2006-10-20 01:07:44 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably realised his mistake, but as he broke up, he can't dare to talk to you normally. If he can't talk to you and explain what he feels it means that even if you get together he'll feel the guilt and this will surely end up as a problem between you two later. Let him approach you and than decide, I suggest.
2006-10-20 01:06:19 · answer #5 · answered by rhnegatif 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did you know it was him? Maybe he was just curious to see if you had the same number. The best thing you can do it to leave him be as you are doing. Be strong!
2006-10-20 01:04:27 · answer #6 · answered by claire 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just dont call him...sounds like he is a bit immature, not being able to hold up HIS rules...you're better off without him!
2006-10-20 01:07:27 · answer #7 · answered by BiancaVee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's being a jerk. Keep on doing what you're already doing--ignore him. He'll back off if he gets no response from you.
2006-10-20 01:04:43 · answer #8 · answered by schoolot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST dont answer him back. TELL your sister to hang up on him.
2006-10-20 01:04:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
did he contact you to make sure that you wont contact him or that he wont contact you. life is strange huh?
2006-10-20 01:03:52 · answer #10 · answered by joey h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋