Family & Relationships - 19 October 2006

what happens when your accused for something and the case is dropped by the police for not enough evidence against you and you know that you were falsely accused for something that went out of hand and get a letter from your solicitor that a fee has to be paid even thou you are innocent the the solicitor was a duty one when you were arrested at the time and you are not prepared to pay it cant the person that accused you pay the bill and how do you go about doing that.

2006-10-19 02:18:03 · 7 answers · asked by rastaman D. 1 in Family

ok a woman just left her spouse with a 2wk old infant. And never kept in contact with them. She never called to see how her baby was doing or anything.. The spouse is struggling to do all he can for the baby and caring for the baby and just being father and mother to the child. The woman is a LT police officer and refuse to take care of her responsibility of the baby... So the father; file for child support. The court ruled that the mother pay child support and make sure that the child is covered 100% medically. Now; the mother has NEVER bothered to call the father; NOW she calls right after court and says she wants a divorce and JOINT custody of the child who is now 3yrs old.. The father says he doesn't feel comfortable with that but is willing to compromise with visitations,but the mother refuses and says she is entitled to JOINT CUSTODY!!! And she states that she is prepared to fight him in court for the joint.. Do you think a JUDGE will grant her joint custody after abandonment?

2006-10-19 02:17:35 · 11 answers · asked by today's leader 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There is this girl I like that is in my classes. I've started sitting next 2 her(a few weeks ago) and once I even gave her a teddy bear(3weeks ago) and I’ve been really nice 2 her without her acting different in any way. But in the last few days (the end of last week and now) I’ve noticed that she’s acting differently around me even asking me if she could keep the pen she borrowed from me (Thursday of last week). Just so you know she hasn’t given me back the pen. When she said bye on Thursday to me she started to say it in that I like u-ish tone. I’m not sure if these signs are enough to qualify as her liking me so I was planning to say to her “You have a beautiful smile” How should she react (what should she say or do) for me 2 find out if she is interested or even likes me? I'm asking this cause this the 1st gurl i've been interested in.(I'm 17, she's 18 or 19) Also how do i say it without coming on too strong?

2006-10-19 02:17:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Did you know that if you are female and sleep on the left side of the Bed that's Taboo in marriage.? (Bad Luck)

2006-10-19 02:17:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I met my online bf 5 mons ago..were always online day and night unless he goes to work,he called me on phone everyday too,we havent met in person and yet hes supporting me now by paying all my bills.I have a daughter and his divorce with his wife is still ongoing...he always pledge his love for me..but still im having bad thoughts and i dont know why..maybe cuz hes too good to be true..we live in a diff country,and this is our 1st long distance relationship...we make love on cam everyday,and as he always told me,theres no reason to doubt his love for me..he even put my name on his chest [tattoo] and i put his name on my ankle too...i just need some advice on how to stop my jealousy over nothing..im just scared of losing him,that he might met someone over there...i love him so much..im so possesive on him...do u think that he trully loves me? and how will i stop my jealousy? pls help..thank you!!!

2006-10-19 02:17:05 · 5 answers · asked by Will M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi all.
Yesterday, I've accidentally found a draft of a letter in my boyfriend's room. It was so obvious, half open on the desk, so I couldn't resist reading it while he was fixing breakfast.

What I saw there was a word, "mon amour," to start with. Even though I don't speak French, I know what it means. He's told me quite few details about the relationship with his ex - they went through a lot, during few years of living together, and separated in pain at the end of the summer last year.

He has been caring for me a lot, like nursing me when I'm ill, or trying to help my family members. However, I'm almost sure he feels the same about her. ...It was such a long letter.

Do you all agree?

I should leave him if he's not ready to move on, but how can I find out without him knowing that I've read his letter?

I'm very confused... :( Please help!

2006-10-19 02:15:36 · 18 answers · asked by Serenata 2 in Singles & Dating

my ex:boifriend from last night broke up with me because i had to do something for my friend because this friend wanted to ask her out and i was like let me call you lata i have to do something for her okay, and he was like okay, and than a min passed he calles me back and he is like why did you hang up on me, and i was like going ot tell him but he was like nvm, dont put me on 3 way, just listen to me, and i was like okay, and he goes me and you are over, and he goes iight bye halla at your boi.. and i was like okay i justy got dumped again, and than i tell my ex:boifrien that i had a big crush on that i am singel, and he goes i am srry i am here for you, but he is like going out with my best friend so i cant go with him, and than he was like when i asked you out you could off had a chance, but now it is your lose.. and than my friend jj asked me out and i was like i dont want a boifriend now.. and i told my ex:boifriend and he was like why did you say no to him...

2006-10-19 02:15:23 · 5 answers · asked by babyboyken_annagurl 1 in Singles & Dating

or is there anyone else married to a complete pain .
who drives me crazy.

2006-10-19 02:14:42 · 7 answers · asked by purple diamond 4 in Marriage & Divorce

iam loving a girl. who is my class mate, but i dont know how to start talking with her because i am so shy. so please help me

2006-10-19 02:14:21 · 10 answers · asked by paramesh 1 in Singles & Dating

How do u in particular do that inyour daily life?
What are the feelings when u are doing it (giving and luving ur relatives and family).

Actually I have a problem that my bro does not like conversating with me. Im his only sister and 3 years younger to him. He always talks alot with my elder girl and boy cousins. Our conversations however end with a uyes or no from his side. Even if Itry to prolong a conversation ...he almost always puts a dead stop. How can I get him to not think less of me. Hes not such a bad guy. Hes got integrity and is doing a job so is earning. he also sometimes buyes stuff for me. But his attitude is so aloof. Its not normal. Ive seen bros and sisters talkin and I feel so left out. Sometimes while my mom, dad, him and I are sittin together he will almost ignore me completely.
Hes leavin for Norway in like 11-12 days and I have been tryin to get him to talk to me for the past God knows how many years. Im 23 hes 26. When we were small he called me stupid alot

2006-10-19 02:14:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

heels or flats
exercise or tv
fav color
fav sex posistion
highest education
car or truck
beer or martini
fav underware
lights on or off
back seat or dressing room

2006-10-19 02:13:47 · 10 answers · asked by HUSTLER 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-19 02:13:08 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for a month & a half now, and he seems to sulk alot. Yesterday he lost one of my cds and when I asked him to look for it he replied "i can't find it!" and sulked, he hadn't even looked properly, then he sulked. Other times i have mentioned to him that the way he has behaved has upset me and his response is not to talk about it, but instead sulk!!
How can i stop this reaction? And why is he doing this?
Whenever I ask whats wrong, he says "nothing" and i feel like saying YOU ARE THE ONE IN THE WRONG, I SHOULD BE THE ONE SULKING - but i don't :( Help me please :(

2006-10-19 02:12:36 · 38 answers · asked by Tamara 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-19 02:11:51 · 18 answers · asked by "Get a life n stop reading& 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-19 02:10:45 · 29 answers · asked by Alan C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-19 02:10:09 · 14 answers · asked by Alan C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-19 02:10:09 · 2 answers · asked by Bianca 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been to dating sites but once men see I am handicap, they want nothing to do with me. I'm independant, live alone, drive, travel and anything a "normal" woman does plus more. Is there a site for me?

2006-10-19 02:09:14 · 4 answers · asked by oclawahah 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-19 02:08:48 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I think the marriage between people were meeting by internet by chat not successful

2006-10-19 02:08:47 · 14 answers · asked by huda a 1 in Weddings

Be honest, what is the worst chat up line u have been hit with or hitted on someone?

2006-10-19 02:07:36 · 24 answers · asked by D 1 in Singles & Dating

Why it always happen with me?Whenever I loved someone I come to know that he has no interest in me.Why its always me?

2006-10-19 02:07:32 · 25 answers · asked by yadavgirl2003 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-19 02:06:58 · 12 answers · asked by pretty 1 in Singles & Dating

wud u take a lad bk afta cheaten 3 times????????????????

2006-10-19 02:06:41 · 14 answers · asked by Lesa B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We are getting married in a church but our reception will be held at a tropical island resort.

2006-10-19 02:06:34 · 11 answers · asked by Geraldine 1 in Weddings

if you have an open relationship and all are aware is it ok to hold back information from one and not another??? to be closer to one ? when do you draw the line? what if you get attached to more than one?how do you find a way to keep all happy and not hurt one

2006-10-19 02:04:43 · 9 answers · asked by Juanita Tsangning 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 25years and my boyfriend is 30years we have been together for 2years and we started having sex last month the problem is my boyfriend`s penis is too small and it`s not straight it`s a little bit curve and when we have sex it`s painfull and i don`t enjoy i love him a lot but i don`t know what to do i talked to him he said it`s God who created him like that it`s true but i can`t go on like this i don`t even want to have sex with him anymore but i love him i don`t want to loose him he always say he love me a lot please help me we love each other so much

2006-10-19 02:04:12 · 33 answers · asked by lololi 1 in Singles & Dating

This is a good one?
Y is it that if u have female friends, ur wife assume that ur having affair, just because she didn't know her. I have guy friends she don't know about, maybe I'm having an affair with them too. Then when u tell her ur not. Then she say u want too that's way I'm her friend. Now she say she want a divorce, for me having a friend. I told her if it make her that upset I wont talk to her anymore, It's not like we talked everyday. But she insist that I cheated, she say emotional, but it wasn't. the chick was just someone to talk too, she knew nothing about me, or my family. I was upset with my wife when I meet her, but that was it . I told her I was married, and we just became cool. I mean we don't hang out or anything, just hi & bye every now and then. So what is happening? Should I stop trying

2006-10-19 02:03:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Me: virgo 21 Sept 77, him: aries 10 April 68, what does the future hold for us? thanks

2006-10-19 02:01:20 · 7 answers · asked by Helloyou 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Some guy not naming names or anything just emailed me saying that im selfish because he asked about my sisters so i put all their names down theirs alot of them but my youngest sisters name didnt go through so i send him an email saying sorry theirs also samantha he then emailed me saying im selfish im not what should i write back

2006-10-19 01:59:24 · 6 answers · asked by laura j 2 in Other - Family & Relationships