I met my online bf 5 mons ago..were always online day and night unless he goes to work,he called me on phone everyday too,we havent met in person and yet hes supporting me now by paying all my bills.I have a daughter and his divorce with his wife is still ongoing...he always pledge his love for me..but still im having bad thoughts and i dont know why..maybe cuz hes too good to be true..we live in a diff country,and this is our 1st long distance relationship...we make love on cam everyday,and as he always told me,theres no reason to doubt his love for me..he even put my name on his chest [tattoo] and i put his name on my ankle too...i just need some advice on how to stop my jealousy over nothing..im just scared of losing him,that he might met someone over there...i love him so much..im so possesive on him...do u think that he trully loves me? and how will i stop my jealousy? pls help..thank you!!!
2006-10-19 02:17:05 · 5 answers · asked by Will M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
before anything you should see him because loving without seeing your lover is not strong love if he loves you 60 over 100without seeing, you he will love you 100 over 100 with seeing you that is my advice and take it as it is.
2006-10-19 02:26:38 · answer #1 · answered by beauty girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It must be love because I sure wounldn't tattoo no name on body body, I mean if he say he loves you and he shows his love it is really ture love but just telling yiu doesn't mean nothing it;s just came to the point where you and him need to meet because their is somthings you have to know face to face, I mean their's not to many long distance relationship that works but you too seems like a good couple, The reason you feel this way is because you don't even know what he's doing and I would feel the same way if my man lived far away like that, It's just the long distance getting to you, just try to set up something to meet, on
Thanksgiving or Christmas or something like that, it;s time for you two to meet.
2006-10-19 09:43:59 · answer #2 · answered by babycakes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does sound like he loves u. Long distance/online relationships can be tough for sure. You will have to have total trust in him or it will drive u nuts. Hopefully u can meet with him soon, I think that will help u a great deal. "Hearing" i love u and his feelings is one thing, but feeling them in his touch is much more powerful. I know it's hard but if this is going to work u have to put jealousy and thoughts of him with someone else totally out of your mind. If he truly loves u he will be true to u no matter what. Good luck, I hope it works out for u.
2006-10-19 09:26:27 · answer #3 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, this is sad! so because im typing on a computer, then i can find my soul mate? get out there and find a real man. you dont know him, get over it, move on. you have a daughter to support, do it. dont be spendin all of your time on the computer with your so called boyfirend
2006-10-19 09:26:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you crazy? get out the house and get a REAL boyfriend!
2006-10-19 09:19:38 · answer #5 · answered by Silk T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋