Family & Relationships - 19 October 2006

I've been used for sex by alot of guys in the past (black guys in particular) I'm not a girl who acts like a ho, I'm respectable, my friends say I'm classily sexy, so why do guys see me as short-term and not long-term? I'm 22 and haven't had a serious relationship to date, so what makes a girl long-term/short-term?

2006-10-19 03:11:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-19 03:11:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What happens at the bachelorette parties? What do you all do? My wife wants to go to one and I don't care if she goes or not. She says nothing happens and I say BULL!. I trust her and she can do whatever so long as she doesn't come home and tell me. I can hear it from you ladies, so what really goes on. I told her to go and have fun, just don't lie and say its nothing. No, I am not insecure. If I were I would not let her go. I believe in knowing the truth about the situation. There will be strippers. I am ok with that. But lets not pretend that things don't get out of hand sometimes. I can tell you what happens at bachelor parties and the same probably holds true to bachelorette parties......to a degree.

2006-10-19 03:09:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I really love my best friend. Beyond the point of being "best friends" I really want a relationship with him. When I think of him I think about what it would be like to just be with him. I when I go to bed at night I think about what it would feel like falling asleep and waking up in his arms. Every time I hug him I feel like I want to just hold on forever. Kinda like I want to be a part of him. When ever he's talking to me, I just want to start kissing him. I have his picture on my wall, and whenever I look it it makes me smile. He can cheer me up without even being there. When he was going though some stuff and he was feeling down, I was crying for him. I love him so much. I know that I shouldn't be feeling this strongly for someone, but I can't help but feeling like he is an important part of my world. I feel like my heart could explode with all this love I have for him if I don't do something about it. How do I tell my best friend of 5 years that I am so in love with him?

2006-10-19 03:08:17 · 33 answers · asked by Alexia S 2 in Friends

I love him so much and we have discussed marriage and i am still to young to get married but my mom said she would still pay for college if i got married after high school. So i know i am definitely going to college.. but should i get married right away? what do you think? i am truely in love with him!!!

2006-10-19 03:08:05 · 11 answers · asked by Breanna W 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-19 03:07:18 · 20 answers · asked by kimi21 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She lies about just anything and I want to help her but if you tell her she is lying she gets upset, what can I do?

2006-10-19 03:05:43 · 17 answers · asked by Kendra J 3 in Friends

three weeks ago i found out i had feelings for someone that was just soposed to be a friends cousin. we kissed and weve being going out ever since its about to be a month but we both swear were in love. I always want to be with him and i trust him alot and he makes me feel free. can i really be in love this quik?

2006-10-19 03:05:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband has not touched me in 2 weeks and it makes no sense!! Our sex life has always been bad, but now it's worse! When I ask him why, he says, "sex is not the most important thing". And now it's the playoffs for the Mets, so I guess I won't be having sex for another week or more! What is wrong with him? We don't fight often and it's not like I am disgusting either, so I'm just not sure what his issue could be...any ideas?

2006-10-19 03:05:25 · 29 answers · asked by Michelle10477 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have told him i dont love him and he still as not got the picture wot do i do

2006-10-19 03:05:14 · 22 answers · asked by Kelly B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

A lady I work with wants to know. Her boyfriend calls her that all the time.

2006-10-19 03:04:50 · 11 answers · asked by Mel 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-19 03:04:38 · 5 answers · asked by beauty girl 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I work with this lady and she is my senior in work, i sent her an sms telling her that work is boring when she is not around, but now she is ignoring my sms, and when i asked lunch from her she gave it to me in tupperware, rather than letting me eat with her at her house, what does she have in mind and do ihave a chance with her.

2006-10-19 03:03:43 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-19 03:03:17 · 17 answers · asked by alison s 1 in Friends

how do i know if he is really my dad

2006-10-19 03:02:41 · 10 answers · asked by Mark B 1 in Family

ok so we have plenty of chemestry and I'll be his first g/f.he's 18 and I am older than him with experience and I'm sure he knows that but doesn't care about my age. anyways I want to take things slow, have lots of fun laughing,hugging,cuddling and being with each other. does taking it slow help him to develope real feelings that can be strong and consistent. I had an ex that I stayed friends with tell me that when we do "stuff" being intamate, that it confuses his feelings for me( like if he feels like getting back together or not). so I don't want to confuse or overwhelm him.I want him to be happy and have fun with me,but also kiss.I don't want to manipulate him or put him under any pressure. Have any advice.I've only been in one real relationship and he was my best friend before we got together so I'm not sure how things go.

2006-10-19 03:02:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

head. But you boy friend like it and would like it on a Weekly bases. But I just can't stand the tast. We ahve been together for 1year on the 25. And I have only giving him head only 4 times. I was his first for everything. I use to give head a lot when I was younger. But now that I am older i just hate it. what should i do?

2006-10-19 03:00:13 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Spit or Swallow, Good or bad please give your reasons. Front or backdoor sex what is your preferance? Just out of curiosity, I know all are different but what is the general feeling to whether these sexual practices are acceptable?

2006-10-19 02:59:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

LIKE that new song by Beyonce...would that be a compliment or an insult?

2006-10-19 02:58:51 · 17 answers · asked by MsNic 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I said no more messages see ya..but he sent me one just now...he is 14 what's wrong with him? He know I care for him very much an love but I had to say goodbye to him

2006-10-19 02:58:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

insert the penis into,

2006-10-19 02:58:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I will give details, and bellow post the email I would like people to read and help me understanding what it could mean. We were in a nice relationship and I left her because she seemed made efforts treating me bad to leave her, I tried to make it work, I couldn't, I left. Later I tried to come back and see if we can work things out, she didn't want us to be together. All she said is that she was enjoying her single-life with her friends and nights out and it was doing great, also doing things she wouldn't be able to do if she was in a relationship. I asked if she was letting me go, said that I am not available, are you taking me?, no, I am not taking you. I tried everything to be back with her for a while, and I couldn't. Until I asked for a final decision, said "no", I contacted her to see if she was happy with that decision, she said yes, to please not to contact her. That if in 6 months she changes her mind, she will try to find me, and if I am with someone, it was her problem.

2006-10-19 02:58:09 · 16 answers · asked by livingthe30s 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-19 02:58:03 · 5 answers · asked by K D 2 in Family

MY SISTER STARTED DTING THIS GUY AND FOUR MONTHS INTO THE REALATIONSHIP HE HIT HER !! sHE IS STILLWITH HIM & THEY MAD THREE BEAUTIFUL CHLDREN , I AM CONFUSED WHY CONTINUE TO STY IN THAT MESS CALLED LOVE WHEN YOUR GETTING ABUSED!!

2006-10-19 02:56:44 · 13 answers · asked by Tabby 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why do you say that you love someone at one day and give him sweet poison of a break up on another on, and you do it so easily?

2006-10-19 02:56:13 · 13 answers · asked by DTA 1 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy in '94 and six months later we lost contact. He sought me out this year in April, and I was happy to see him again, he has told me he is engaged to be married to someone else and at the same time has told me he still loves me. He loves to visit me and stay over sometimes but we don't mess up(hope you understand) I am still in love with him and am wondering; will this work? am also confused:why was he looking for me for all these years only to find me and tell me he is engaged to someone else? your candid opinion pls.

2006-10-19 02:55:35 · 10 answers · asked by sweetlips 1 in Singles & Dating

I have them but I cant scratch nothing and I cant Itch either

2006-10-19 02:55:24 · 21 answers · asked by SECRET woman 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-19 02:53:55 · 15 answers · asked by nashvillekat 6 in Family

When u lost it...were u mentally prepared for it that particular day? was it consensual or partly persuasion turned to consent... or forced? What were ur feelings that day wen u returned back to your home? R u still with the same guy/girl now also?

2006-10-19 02:53:41 · 17 answers · asked by Made4u 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-19 02:53:31 · 11 answers · asked by zuba 1 in Marriage & Divorce