LIKE that new song by Beyonce...would that be a compliment or an insult?
2006-10-19 02:58:51 · 17 answers · asked by MsNic 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well if u listen to the song...i dont think she's coming off as trying to change him or his personality...to me she's saying ok ur used to jeans and timberlands now let me show u what its like to rock tailor made suits and cartier watches
2006-10-19 03:08:10 · update #1
i had it done to me. it made me a better man.
2006-10-19 05:55:08 · answer #1 · answered by HUSTLER 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Allow me to turn that question back on you.
Naturally you would assume that your partner isn't satisfied with something(s) about you and thinks you are in some way inferior.
Now- if you happen to be a slob, or oafish, or repugnant in some way- you need a damn good make over.
But for now, lets assume you're "normal" (what ever that is or means). I'd ask her what the hell she's playing at and then challenge her to justify why I shouldn't dump her there and then.
The Iceman.
2006-10-19 10:02:42 · answer #2 · answered by The Iceman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My G/F kind of said that to me not long after we got together. we have known each other for about 12 years. I have always been a T shirt and jeans or shorts kind of guy. I never wore any jewelry or cologne. IF she wants me to dress a little nicer when we go out it's fine with me. On my birthday she went all out clothes, aftershave, cologne. I like it. I am still me but when we go out or to church I dress nice. I love her and she never tried to change who I am. We are getting married in July.
2006-10-19 10:28:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My last girlfriend 'upgraded' my fasion, but it was with my consent, and almost at my request. You see, I suffer from fasion retardation. I used to dress very plainly, and I still do, reletively speaking.
But I would never want to 'upgrade' to high class clothes like that. I'd rather wear a cardbord box. :p
2006-10-19 10:12:31 · answer #4 · answered by The Link 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Cold beer, Hot wing, wranglers, Skoal ring....git jus what you see. Gun rack, ball cap, don't take no crap. Ain't your pretty boy toy. I'll rock you steady. Rough and Ready!" Line out og a Trace Adkins song......Men want the same thing women want....I partner who likes them for who they are, not someone who wants to change them. I DON't listen to Beyonce, so I don't know the song....but it sounds bad to me.
2006-10-19 10:07:09 · answer #5 · answered by Bad Pookie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what your meaning is when you say "Upgrade you"
Could be an Insult or not depends on you motive.
2006-10-19 10:07:11 · answer #6 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Insult, never let anyone change who you are because once they make one change it does not stop until you don't know who you are anymore, your not you anymore your someones barbie/ken doll. "to thy own self be true". William Shakespeare
2006-10-19 10:13:35 · answer #7 · answered by Whynotguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually that is female instinct, but I would think males would find it pretty rude, that she was saying he wasn't good enough the way he was.
2006-10-19 10:01:53 · answer #8 · answered by sweetsmile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what they want to upgrade?
2006-10-19 10:00:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Means she wants to change you. Move on.
2006-10-19 10:00:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could use an upgrade
2006-10-19 10:01:44 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋